Said he wanted to try light bondage next time I visited him.......

A few years back, we had chatted online. The subject of bondage did come up, but for me, other than self-bondage, it was never really anything beyond fantasy. And at the time, i was just starting to be bi curious. It would be nearly 2 near before I would make the transition to bisexual.

We finally met at the beginning of this year, when I drove 90+ miles to visit him. I had finally made the transition to bisexual about 6 months earlier. He's 14 years older than me, an artist. I was only there a few hours. After some play, we jacked each other off, talked for a while, and that was it. I headed back home.

Not long after that, he contacted me and said that now that we've gotten to know each other a little better (1 visit for a few hours), he said he would like to try some light bondage the next time I visited him. A short time after that, he spoke of having purchased some velcro restraints, and from what i gathered, he had me in mind when he purchased them.

I guess I could say he's the 1st person I've met who expressed an interest in tying me up. Though i didn't, and still don't, know him that well, i felt I could trust him enough to let him.

After I got there yesterday and we engaged in various play, the moment came where he wanted for us to go up to his bed so he could blindfold and restrain me. he did leave one arm free, as he told me, because he wanted me to be able to touch him. He marveled at tickling me with his improvised "feather". He used his paper makeshift feather to explore my jockstrapped body, before including the use of his hands in the exploration. of course my balls and erect cock were included in the exploration.

I could sense he was getting increasingly turned on by having me blindfolded and restrained, how he had control over my vulnerable body. he was feeling the dom of his own character, and I could tell how hot and horny he was getting over it as he touched me and rubbed his body against mine. I told him i wanted to do something for him.

Since he's an artist, taking photos and drawing sketches from them, I offered to "model" for him.....blindfolded and handcuffed (as I had brought my cuffs with me). So downstairs to his studio we went. i cuffed my hands behind my back, and said "I'm all yours". We had fun dressing and undressing me in different jocks, and trying to toss the straps around my erect cock. it was the 1st time I had ever cuffed myself for someone else to have his/her way with me.

I could say yesterday was my 1st real experience participating in bondage with someone else....

I guess I could say he's the 1st person I've met who expressed an interest in tying me up. Though i didn't, and still don't, know him that well, i felt I could trust him enough to let him.

I'm glad you had a good experience your first time out with a little light bondage. What you mentioned about trusting him is one of the most important things for me when I agree to meet a guy for one-on-one bondage. I spend a lot of time chatting with them first, trying to really find out what they're looking for in a meeting, and to understand their expectations (do they want bondage, or do they just want to have sex, etc). I've chatted with a few guys and I quickly got an uneasy vibe from some of their comments. So those guys were quickly dropped from my list of potential Doms.

And I'll also admit that when I met the first guy one-on-one for some bondage, I was really nervous. But even though I was fully restrained and chained to his bed, I never felt like I was in danger. And I think that's because I felt that I had vetted him enough before I agreed to meet. The feeling of the complete loss of control over the situation was fantastic.

This guy, being an artist and living alone in an old style house, didn't pose any kind of a threat to me. Just an older, humble man. Not like, the minute i'm tied up, a bunch of friends would suddenly come along, and the next thing I know, I'm being violated beyond my boundaries. Nothing like that.

I had felt, through chatting online an meeting him in person once, that i had gotten to know him. I suspected he had a dom side about him, although innocent and non-aggressive enough that I felt I could trust him. And it played out true to form.

The card game, his suggestion to play of which took me by surprise, to start our fun afternoon off, was hot in the way it suddenly became a CMNM situation. Showing up at his home, knowing he wanted to restrain me to his bed, and then a card game that led him to order me to strip one article at a time. After a shoe for shoe, sock for sock slow start, to lose several rounds in a row. To draw a card of a 2,3, or 4, and just know that my exhibitionist side was about to get a thrill, as I knew with the ow card, I would have to stand and drop my pants, revealing myself in just a jockstrap to a horny onlooker.....

And then to eventually lose that last article of clothing too, and then being subjected to....