Our circle of participants at our house parties are of invitation only and only by those within our group. All of our party guests are on the full knowledge that we do not allow cell phones, purses or anything that recording equipment can be present in the party areas. That's why everyone leaves them in the car. Too many horror stories of people's private lives being brought out in the open for others personal reasons. That's why people enjoy our parties so much and amongst us, openly.
And l suppose it is a submissive thing. But it is as well an exhibitionist reason l believe. I love to show off my tats and hard worked for body. I work out everyday, 2hrs. But at our parties, we don't care. That's not what we are there for. We are there to have a good time by all. Many times nearly half of the people do not remove their clothes. Sometimes, all are nude. We don't care. It's at your pace, your comfort and speed. Some just like to watch, some drop clothes as soon as they clear the door. That's why we all mesh so well and can just come by on a text/call and hang out, literally!!!
And besides the great times, food, drink, cumpanionship(LOL!!) and just overall friendship, many have special "places" amongst todays society that at certain times has its own set of rewards when deemed necessary.
So Eric, yes, the reason l can go butt up, fill it up, and not mind, is because that's how god made me and I LOVE IT!!!!