Enema Givers Getting Extremely Aroused By Watching The Receiver ....

Hi Again Everyone, Question here , and I would honestly appreciate any or all responses to this question....Has anyone here ever been given an enema or enemas where the person administering or giving the enema or enemas get extremely aroused or turned on by watching you take the enema ?? I know and you all know as well by my prior postings here that several of my enema sessions have been very erotic and very sexual encounters ...Just wondering how many other people here this has happened to or with ?? Many times I have wanted or needed an enema or a series of them and have had the giver get very aroused or turned on, and they either wound up naked with me, or even wound up taking enemas themselves ...I often times know that when I ask someone to help me with a large volume , very filling enema, am secretly hoping they will get aroused by either inserting the hose and nozzle deep in my bottom or by watching my struggle to take every drop or even watching my thick bottom wiggle all around the hose and nozzle as I make my way to the bathroom leaving them inserted and having the giver escort me there and carry the empty or flat enema bag behind me ....I do enjoy putting on a bit of a show like this -- just curious if anyone else has ever had this happen to them while they were being given enemas ?? I can tell you, from my earliest experiences when I was living at home, I think my mother was a bit of an exhibitionist , as she almost always made us know that she would be getting enemas and to make certain that if we needed to use the bathroom, to make sure we did before her enemas began.....She was almost always given them by one of her close friends , or self administered ....the times she was given them, she was always made to be fully nude by the giver, and she always came out of her bedroom with the hose and nozzle trailing out of her bottom, while she would be half bent over holding or clutching her very swollen tummy , with her moaning how badly she needed the enema , and saying that it was for her own good, and how bad the cramping was as she slowly walked to the potty....She was never shy and was very open about all the aspects of her enemas ....I will admit, I a much of the same way myself, and am not shy about the enemas when I am being given them, but most of this comes from just being very aroused by others seeing me go through the whole ordeal ....I have been given many enemas by close friends and a lot of women , and have had some very erotic encounters from the givers just watching me endure the whole process....I look forward to reading your responses and please don't be shy about sharing your encounters where something like this has taken place ...Enjoy everyone ...

I cannot remember an enema since my mom, or grandma gave them to me when the giver didn't enjoy doing it. If either of them did, they hid it well. Mom's sister actually got wet "down there" when she gave to my sisters and I. When I had colitis and my Dr's PA gave them to me, she obviously enjoyed it. Both my sister, aunt, and PA became enemates My aunt gave the best enemas I can recall, and eventually, she wanted me to give to her. She never married, and we were still giving to each other until about 3 months before she died.

The answer is yes. I think fir the giver there is a side that get aroused from the control. Some for the pleasure of seeing the struggle. Fir the recipient aside from the feelings you get from the enema being watched and the embarrassment

Good morning, ELMW...I got very turned on just reading your inquiry! Although I've never given anyone other than myself enemas, I'm almost certain that my mother, who gave me countless enemas, got turned on when doing me, over her lap. This was from about age two, until I was about eight years old. Whenever she called me into the bathroom to administer my enemas, she was always wearing a skirt or dress, with nylons and a garter belt. My enemas were always from a red bulb syringe, with black nozzle. Depending upon her mood, I'd get a minimum of three bulb fulls, and sometimes as many as five. I must admit, that in the beginning, I dreaded the enemas, but after just a few times over her lap, I was actually craving the incredible feeling of that slippery nozzle invading my bottom, and the intense feeling of pleasure, as she squeezed in every drop...along with the repeated insertions. I often long for a repeat performance, of my childhood enema experiences.

Hi Again Everyone , this is a follow up to my post this morning ....As fate would have it, I got a call from my roomie about 45 minutes ago and she was calling from work--she is an LPN and they have hired a new girl that she works with , and it turns out, this new girl after my roomie has been talking to her at length, seems she is also a devoted enema lover -- sooooooo, my roomie called me to ask me if I thought it would be okay if she invites her over for dinner tonight, where she and I will bring up the subject of enemas , and confess to her that this is our fetish of choice also....I have already gone ahead and hung a couple of our really choice enema bags from the shower head , so if she uses the bathroom, they are hanging in full view for her to see....I am hoping she will want to move right onto getting into an enema session tonight, where I will ask my roomie in front of her to please help me with a very much needed enema, and hopefully this will be all that is needed to get the whole scenario to unfold and develop into something quite erotic ...I am going to be dressed in something that leaves little to the imagination, in hopes of this in itself of arousing her ....Mind you, a good deal of this was suggested by my roomie , so I am just sort of following her lead....This will be one of those sessions I spoke of this morning where the givers hopefully will become quite aroused at my total and complete submission during the administering of the enemas to me ...I am also going to make our Higginson syringe readily accessible for them to use on me and hopefully we can use this on her co worker if all goes as planned ...My roomie had a private girl /girl talk with her at lunch today and sort of round an about way mentioned to her that she might have to administer a couple of enemas to me tonight--as she told her that I was having some tummy trouble and that I mentioned to her before she left for work that I might need her help with the enemas ....I am very wet , and needless to say-- a bit nervous about how this will all unfold, but if this all works out, I am always game to invite a new friend to our erotic enema circle .......My roomie told me that when she told her new co worker about possibly having to give me a couple of enemas tonight, her face sort of flushed and then she wanted to know some really intimate details about how our sessions go, and then shyly confessed to really liking enemas herself ....So we will soon see how all of this unfolds....It is 3:57 PM here now and my roomie will be home in about 20 minutes and she was going to tell her new coworker to arrive here around 5:30 or so ....I might just have my roomie be in the midst of administering a very large enema to me around that time and have her answer the door and just let her see me like this in all my glory, I am not shy about any of it, and the way I see it-- there is no real need to be ....I think I would get wickedly turned on by having a friend catch me in the midst of being given a very large enema....Hoping this will all turn out well ....I am still hoping to hear from more of you regarding this topic-- so please do feel free to post on this when you can.. Be well everyone -- happy watering !!

The answer is yes. I think for the giver there is a side that get aroused from the control. Some for the pleasure of seeing the struggle. For the recipient aside from the feelings you get from the enema being watched and the embarrassment.

Strongly agree with Redbag here. I'm a switch but with a preference for taking or being given large, long enemas as a sub to my Domme partner. But my ex-wife asked to let me do that to her as the enema sub, so I enjoy that side too. Mostly what I like about being her Dom as she submits to her enema is watching and listening to her struggle through it, not so much just being the controlling Dom. Since I know intimately what it feels like to get an enema from my Domme, I love each part of her struggle including moans, groans, complaints, begging for less water, etc, as well as her moving and squirming around as she feels more and more filled and invaded and submissive the fuller she becomes. And watching her get more and more distended, while I do what she does to me, giving her a running narrative of what I'm doing to her and how much more she has to take and hold and how long she'll be holding it. The mixture of narrating her filling plus watching and listening to her struggle with it and describe her embarrassment and humiliation really does get extremely arousing, just like she appreciates her arousal when doing this to me.

So a definite yes to the giver being strongly and pleasantly aroused, whether it's my Domme, or me giving it to her.

Eric

I had a girlfriend who loved to give me enemas and became aroused as she gave them to me. The first time I was staying at her house and became very constipated. I told that I was hoping she had MOM or something. It didn’t occur to me to ask for an enema. She immediately said “let me administer an enema.” I was embarrassed and flustered but also titillated. I had never had anyone give me an enema before. Somewhat reluctantly I agreed. She immediately pulled out a three quart open top bag and filled it with soap suds. She wanted to give it to me in knee chest but I suggested sims instead. To my intense embarrassment she digitally lubricated my anus and rectum before introducing a large douche nozzle. She insisted in giving me far more than I wanted. As she gave it she stroked next to my anus which aroused me mightily. Once in she had me hold it for ten minutes. Suddenly she slipped off her jeans to reveal soaked panties. Then before I knew what was happening she pushed me back and mounted me. It was totally exquisite and desperate. She came immediately several times. So did I and then I was dashing for the toilet. Although I didn’t stay with her long we frequently repeated this. She always got so wet!

ELMW,

Why do I have the sneaking suspicion that you'd really like to have this new friend and possible enemate of yours not only come to your house and agree to take and give enemas to you, but even better to walk in on you while you're struggling to hold in the middle of a huge enema? Maybe even better, you could get up from your bed or rug and waddle over to answer the door and let her see you as you stand there naked showing off your big distended enema belly? Just guessing................?

Eric

I had a girlfriend who loved to give me enemas and became aroused as she gave them to me. The first time I was staying at her house and became very constipated. I told that I was hoping she had MOM or something. It didn’t occur to me to ask for an enema. She immediately said “let me administer an enema.” I was embarrassed and flustered but also titillated. I had never had anyone give me an enema before. Somewhat reluctantly I agreed. She immediately pulled out a three quart open top bag and filled it with soap suds. She wanted to give it to me in knee chest but I suggested sims instead. To my intense embarrassment she digitally lubricated my anus and rectum before introducing a large douche nozzle. She insisted in giving me far more than I wanted. As she gave it she stroked next to my anus which aroused me mightily. Once in she had me hold it for ten minutes. Suddenly she slipped off her jeans to reveal soaked panties. Then before I knew what was happening she pushed me back and mounted me. It was totally exquisite and desperate. She came immediately several times. So did I and then I was dashing for the toilet. Although I didn’t stay with her long we frequently repeated this. She always got so wet!

Hmmmmm, a GF who loves to fill you up, gets aroused and isn't exactly shy about taking charge and getting what she likes from you as you lie there somewhat immobile full of heavy liquid. Sounds like my kind of gal. Glad you had a (or many) good time(s). Wishing us both more of the same.

Eric

@Enema_loving_mature_woman

WRT the giver(s) becoming very sexually aroused by giving me an enema, in a word: yes!

There are four separate experiences that I have had where I was given or taking an enema in the presence of one or more persons where they became very aroused by the enema that was flowing into me and all that it IN-TAILED (entailed). All were with people with whom I WAS NOT romantically involved. Nor was there previous sexual intimacy with any of these people (though with two of them there had been a lot of sexually suggestive talk). Three of those experiences involved more than one person watching/administering to me and their participation in the enema party that ensued.

I have written here on Zity about one of those experiences that occurred on my birthday where two young women served up quite an enema birthday party for me (and them). I sometimes wonder where they ended up, how their lives turned out.

Two other experiences I have shared as limited details with a few people here on the site, but haven't spent the time writing out the details. The fourth one was actually an offshoot of one of the other experiences where the friends of my friends got involved once my friends realized (and shared) that I would "play."

Arousal, absolutely. And what I can say about the experiences is that they were surreal as unique experiences. Each different and yet similar. Totally unexpected and "in the moment." They were simultaneously very erotic experiences, what we might call (at the time) deviant, and yet they seemed perfectly natural because the people involved were also so "okay" with enemas, and all that it offered, that the sharing was genuine and authentic. Actually, I would describe it vulnerability and the willingness (and need) to trust the others involved. At one level one or more of us should have felt some level of "shame" or "humiliation" (I can't really say that I did). Although I went with the flow (bad pun) in several situations, I do remember thinking "What did you get yourself into?" And yet all of us knew at a different level that if you are playing together with enemas, sometimes "shit happens" and you have to clean up the mess, though none of us (as far as I could tell) were into scat. Just good feelings associated with watching and feeling the filling one's ass.

@Enema_loving_mature_woman, THANKS for your posts. I am male (as you can see), but I deeply appreciate your narration of your experiences. As a strong Dom, I enjoyed your relation of your Mom's experiences, & your personal impressions, & I vicariously "felt" what you were experiencing. Anything else you wish to share, please do. I think many of us would enjoy reading what you have to say

@Enema_loving_mature_woman, THANKS for your posts. I am male (as you can see), but I deeply appreciate your narration of your experiences. As a strong Dom, I enjoyed your relation of your Mom's experiences, & your personal impressions, & I vicariously "felt" what you were experiencing. Anything else you wish to share, please do. I think many of us would enjoy reading what you have to say

When my husband gives me an enema, I love it when he's aroused because he gives heavenly bottom and back massages while he's coaching me to breathe and retain. Couples who are not afraid to give each other an enema when one or the other needs a little boost and TLC down there, I'll bet they have a very close and loving relationship.

When my husband gives me an enema, I love it when he's aroused because he gives heavenly bottom and back massages while he's coaching me to breathe and retain. Couples who are not afraid to give each other an enema when one or the other needs a little boost and TLC down there, I'll bet they have a very close and loving relationship.

@Vicki_V, you are so right! Just this past weekend, hubby and I indulged in some "enema enjoyment" and he was the giver. As he saw my arousal escalate, his did too! And when that happens, he always finds ways to excite me even more...knowing that the favor will be returned!

I wouldn't take anything in the world for our relationship and how we've never stopped exploring ways in which we can enjoy each other!

Happy Thanksgiving to you!

Deb

Thanks, Deb! Happy Thanksgiving to you, too!

P.S. When couples practice a little "enema enjoyment" even when one or another is sick or just feels out of sorts, I think it can do wonders to lift our spirits. The brain-gut connection is real. There's also love on the end of an enema tube.

There's also love on the end of an enema tube.

Now, there's a Thanksgiving message to remember.

When my husband gives me an enema, I love it when he's aroused because he gives heavenly bottom and back massages while he's coaching me to breathe and retain.

The only reason I originally came to this site was because nothing is hotter to me than having a girl with a nozzle in her ass under my control. It is a very hot scenario to me.

I saw a professional provider a few times when the 'itch' for an enema became so intense I just had to scratch it. During one of the first times together she said to me about mid-way through a full enema bag, "I get wet giving you enemas!" I thought that was just her way of increasing her tip, but she said, "Here, give me your hand." She was wearing scrubs and slid my hand down the front of her pants and I'll be damned if she wasn't absolutely damp down there.

Being a professional usually meant no sexual touchy-feely on the provider but she allowed my hand to stay as she finished giving me the remainder of the bag. It was one of the most erotic moments I ever experienced.

Although I saw her a couple more times, her contact information, e-mail, and telephone just disappeared suddenly and our sessions ended. I still retain that vivid memory of that one time!

I always got extremely aroused giving a female partner an enema. On the other hand, most who gave me enemas seemed to do it more as a favor, rather than it being something that excited them.

I alway's get aroused by giving a man a good enema making him hold it than standing in front of him watching him expel it knowing he is embarrassed and humiliated listening to him push the soapy water out of his rectum. I like when these real men act out like a little girl when administering the enema kicking and yelling stop please stop, I can't take it makes me really hard getting them ready for some anal play.