I fully appreciate this line of thinking although i don't personally subscribe to it myself. I do have a question I'm curious about - perhaps moreso for those of you in countries where circumcision is quite common, but please all feel free to share you answers.
At what age would you consider your son 'old enough' to make this decision alone?
If, for example, your 6 or 7 year old son was coming home from school every day, miserable that he was one of the few uncircumcised kids in his class, that he was being teased for being the odd one out, how would you deal with a situation like this?
Or if he was just entering puberty, and these feelings are still there, but now compounded by what he might have overheard from girls at school or friends?
We all know how important it is to fit in with one's friends and peers at a younger age. If you knew your son was unhappy about being uncircumcised at a young age - say, younger than 10 - would you think this is still too young for him to make the decision to get circumcised, despite whatever conversations you may have with him?
I'm genuinely curious about this. This is my own story - and my mother asked me at age 7 if i wanted to be circumcised. She asked me in a way that clearly told me she was totally against the idea though. I did want to fit in very much, and I did want the bullying to stop. But even then I remember thinking - "this is not my decision to make. I'm just a little boy."