Do you think doctor sexual abuse when you were a child affected your sexual orientation?

I don’t believe that any of my doctors ever acted in an uncomfortable or untoward way when I was younger. That being said, my medical fetish did develop from those very early exam experiences, and that fetish would be exploited by other older men over a few years as a way to take advantage. So, no, while no abuse occurred from actual medical providers, my medical fetish was inevitably a major contributor to my sexuality today due to how it was used to sexualize me. I think that’s an interesting distinction to make. Having those experiences with other men certainly influenced me in a significant way, as I still imagine medical play as being almost exclusively between me and an older male provider. However, outside of fetish and fantasy I rarely imagine myself with a man. It’s still something I’m trying to figure out, after all, sexuality is not always a static thing.

@agracier It might not make someone gay but most likely will influence them one way or the other . I know some that took it so bad they are vehemently anti gay and some that these thing's happened to that are now more acceptable and tolerant toward others . Recent personal example ,,, I have had my catheter changed by nurses that seam to enjoy hurting me and prolonging my exposure . I now won't let ANY nurse near me . Nor do have any want or feel any need for a female nurse to handle me at all . Then again two male nurses handled me , sounded me and fitted a large {26fr} catheter in me not only did it not hurt but I would not mind if I could be assured they would be the only one's to do the work . ON the third hand I have had my catheter changed by two different female nurses that took care not to hurt , took their time and I found it hard not to get “hard” . The upshot of all this I would rather A guy handle my penis unless I was sure of the female nurse . Does that make me gay? or Bi . or just more acceptable toward others ?

The upshot of all this I would rather A guy handle my penis unless I was sure of the female nurse . Does that make me gay? or Bi . or just more acceptable toward others ?

I really don't think the categories of gay or not gay should spill over into actual medical practices. You are describing levels of competence, not sexual attraction.

I surmise that male nurses, having a penis themselves, have a better understanding of what can be painful when handling that organ, than female nurses do. Just like not a few men fumble around with female organs, so can females fumble around with male organs, even if they are medically trained. It would be a question of males being able to place themselves in your position while females essentially can't.

No I DONT THINK SO BECAUSE I NAVER HAVE BEEN SEXUAL ABUSED

No

I have never been sexual abused, but I believe it’s not easy to influence the sexual orientation. Maybe sexual abuse has a small influence but I don‘t think that a boy with a clear straigt sexual orientation becomes a gay boy if he is or was sexual abused.