Males who grew up with a strong female authority figure in their lives through puberty and early adolescence often miss the strong hand of this disciplinarian. Many are "at sea" without regular discipline sessions and they develop bad traits and nasty habits, which left unchecked, make for a lackadaisical man.
The strap when used judiciously and efficiently applied to the male is an excellent aid in maintaining a proper attitude toward female authority. A leather paddle as well as a cane and riding crop can also be useful implements in training. The sting of the strap applied to the posterior with vigor is an excellent reminder of who is in charge but any good implement (strap, paddle or crop) will get the desired results.
Males by nature require discipline and authority to maintain proper work habits as well as manners and above all a deferential attitude towards the females in their lives. Without a routine reminder men will find themselves sliding into slothful habits and become both lazy in the house and churlish in attitude unless brought back to reality by a strong female personality with a firm hand for discipline. These " boys" will benefit greatly from regular visits to a matriarchal authority figure.
Married males as well as single males often do not have this matriarchal authority in their lives so they have to search for a caring dominatrix who understands their needs. A husband may be ashamed to ask his spouse to assume this role or she may be uncomfortable or unwilling to accept the role of disciplinarian. Single males should have a completely shaved pubic area and wear a chastity device but that will be discussed at another time. Either way once the authority figure is found regular visits should take place for these men to ensure a correct attitude is maintained.
Married men who visit a caring dominatrix should have a clean-shaven scrotum. This serves as a reminder there is a dominant figure in their lives and it will heighten pleasure when engaging in sexual intercourse with their spouse. A shaved scrotum will probably go unnoticed by a wife but it will be a constant reminder to a male requiring discipline. The act of shaving reinforces the disciplinarian’s role during absences and creates both a sense of dread and excitement when preparing for a discipline session.
A session should begin with a punctual arrival and lowly task such as boot polishing, bathroom cleaning or laundry being assigned. When these tasks are completed to the matron's satisfaction he may be rewarded with the task of waxing canes, oiling a whip or polishing a leather paddle. When these tasks are done he should be instructed to completely undress and fold his clothing and place it in a neat stack.When completely naked he will be instructed to stand at attention with hands clasped upon his head.
At this time matron with cane in hand will instruct, with touches of the cane to spread his legs for scrotal examination. The cane's curved handle will prod the penis and force the scrotum upward for inspection. A light tap on the thigh will give encouragement to spread his thighs for a good view. No doubt he will become aroused and should be admonished for his lack of control over his erect penis. This is a good time to ask if he has been masturbating and remind him that he must be disciplined for his nasty habit.
A sound schoolboy strapping should be administered to those masturbating hands and it should be of long enough duration that he is scolded partway through so as to feel the growing sting of the strap. He should maintain the count of strokes and thank his mistress profusely when done. When the palm strapping is finished he should be instructed to get on his hands and knees in preparation for his backside to be strapped. An excellent way to heighten suspense is to have a large mirror so he can see his mistress with the punishment implement and a large clock with a second hand should be in view During this strapping he should be admonished for his lack of control and instructed to kiss the toes of matron's gleaming boots.
At the conclusion of the strapping a couple of cane strokes or cuts with the crop may be administered to emphasize authority.
At this point a brief respite may be in order as matron is seated comfortably in a chair. This time may be spent in chiding the miscreant or it could be spent in quiet contemplation. In any event the wayward male should continue to have his deferential position reinforced by his mistress.
A good exercise would be to have the male worship her gleaming boots. Prodded with the tip of her cane or crop the male should be instructed to lick each boot from toe tip to top and down to her heels. Prodded again he should be told to deep throat each exquisite heel and mouth each toe. This exercise should continue to matron's satisfaction.
If the male has been suitably trained he may be instructed and guided in body worship or the visit may be concluded.
Depending on his disciplinarian's mood he may be allowed to masturbate either un-lubricated or with the assistance of a mentholated rub such as Vicks or any other liniment which will provide a stimulating discomfort. In any event the male should leave satisfied, suitably cowed and looking forward to his next visit.
Worthy words from a caring disciplinarian:
“There lives on this earth no man who would not benefit from having the naughty boy spanked out of him”.