I took my girlfriend's rectal temperature and she didn't react

Let me first say that my girlfriend doesn't know a thing about my rectal temperature fetish. However, age play is an integral part of our sexuality and we have anal sex almost every day even if she let me do it ONLY very delicate and hates deep penetration. Yesterday she was home sick but wanted to have sex even if she didn't feel well. She asked me to masturbate her and so I did. A digital thermometer was on the bedside table. I couldn't resist. I said something like "shall we see if you've still got a temperature?" and she just moaned "yes!". More excited than ever, I took the thermometer. She looked at me like she knew what I wanted to do, but didn't say ANYTHING. I expected at least "what the hell are you doing?". Anything. So I slowly inserted the thermometer in her rectum, while I kept rubbing her clit. I waited for the "beep" and took it out. Just seconds after, SHE CAME. I was amazed. Usually she takes long to come and most of all I didn't expect her to come after taking her temperature rectally. I could've taken a chance to tell her about my fetish. However, I didn't and I have to say I haven't felt the need to: everything seemed normal for her! We never talked about it ever as if nothing had happen. What do you say? I'm very confused now. I wonder if it could happen again.

We never talked about it ever as if nothing had happen. What do you say? I'm very confused now. I wonder if it could happen again.

Do we have to spell it out for you?

Tell her how she came so quickly when you were taking her rectal temperature and you would like to do it again since her body had such a favorable response.

What @SwitchableSusie said.

Also, I don't mean to minimize your situation, but ageplay is an integral part of your sexuality and you have anal sex almost on a daily basis? It seems to me that rectal temperature is rather tame in comparison to what is already going on between you two. What's actually keeping you from telling your girlfriend about it?

@SwitchableSusie

I've thought about it, but I'm sure she would deny and she would think of me as a pervert. She's very upthight, she doesn't even admit she likes anal sex, even if it's so clear she likes it.

The two of you have daily anal sex and you're afraid she will think you're a pervert? You have to be joking.

HAVING ANAL SEX MAKES HER A PERVERT.

(ok, not really) but anal sex is a lot more deviant than taking someone's temperature.

If you don't think anal sex is kinky and still kept under wraps, tell your mother, your children, family members and your friends that in addition to missionary vaginal sex, that you fuck her up the ass.

People will admit to PIV sex in a discussion but anal sex and masturbation are still mostly denied activities.

@PervertedOrthographer

I agree with you, but anal sex is considered a "normal and acceptable" practice, not so with my kinky fetish

Nurse1994, What does it matter what is considered a normal and acceptable practice? Your fetish is your fetish. If you want to eat ice cream at 11pm you don't ask everyone's opinion. They are not going to eat the ice cream. That's your ice cream. As long as you are not hurting anyone or being dishonest you should indulge in your fetish.

I have the same fetish and over the years I've done it quite a bit. Most girls liked the idea of it and most enjoyed the feeling. Acting shy and awkward about it is equal to asking your girlfriend if you can kiss her. You will kill the moment. Females are so used to the three minute man who only cares about his own pleasure that they welcome anything new.

Anything sexual is all role play. You play a role to fulfill your partner's desires and vice versa. You are acting. Once it's done you are back to normal life. When acting pretty much anything goes. I always explained to the girls I was with that during sex I play a role. I was very over the top, but after sex I'm a normal guy. She will understand completely.

Everybody likes different things. And sometimes they don't like or crave something at first, only to enjoy it at a later time. If you're trying to introduce your girlfriend to rectal temps., and she's either never experienced them, or had an unpleasant earlier experience, it's going to be a slow go...or a no go. I've seen women who don't like anything in their ass. If that's a deal-breaker in a relationship, then move on to another. You will eventually find what you want. I could certainly understand if a woman has very devout religious beliefs, perhaps. You won't be allowed to touch their ass, and the vaginal missionary position is all that you'll have to look forward to. Very boring, for sure.

A lot of rectal thermometers and probes are very thin compared to your penis going into and stretching open her anus. I barely notice one going into me. She may have just not reacted much to the entry, but her subsequent orgasm when you removed it probably indicated she at least felt something on entry and/or exit. Glad she had a good time. She'd probably like you to do it again.

Eric

Interesting. Of my 23 RT partners, only one was, into anal sex. I don't, (from my perspective)) see an automatic correlation. True, if a partner is into taking it in the hiney, they ought to be okay with RT , the road isn't necessarily two way.

Well c'mon pal. If she came, then now is the time to reveal your fetish. You've little if anything to lose!!!

Interesting. Of my 23 RT partners, only one was,into anal sex. I don't, (from my perspective)) see an automatic correlation. True, if a partner is into taking it in the hiney, they ought to be okay with RT , the road isn't necessarily two way.

There ISN'T an automatic correlation, however, it is an easier jump from anal sex to rectal temps than rectal temps to anal sex.

I think once you’ve enjoyed anal sex - an RT would be disappointing. My wife was very much into anal sex. An RT would not excite her at all. Certainly something larger like a buttplug which she enjoyed during PIV or oral! Same with me - RT wouldn’t float my boat.

Just curious @Nurse1994, where things stand with you and your girlfriend now, regarding rectal temps and anal sex. Any further discussion?

Some very good points made here by other Zity folks.

But I will say that size (thermometer vs penis) isn’t the only factor with anal play. The psychological aspect plays a huge role. I care WHAT she’s putting in my ass but I care more HOW she’s putting it in my ass as well as the discussion and role play and lead up to the penetration.

Last week I tied up my gf's hands explaining that I am the doctor and she is the patient. I then inserted the thermometer under her arm and as we waited I examined her especially the breasts. After a few minutes I removed the thermometer and declared that 36 was a little low and perhaps not accurate so told her to raise her legs. I played with her ass for a bit including licking it for lube then inserted the thermometer in it with her on her back legs in the air. As I did this I explained what I was doing to her. I played with it moving it in and out then told her to get over my knee. We then went for a shower and when we came out she bent over the bed so had another temperature taking done this time whilst I fucked her from behind (had to be careful not to push thermometer too far in). Her temperature was now 38!!!!

She loved it, so don't discuss it first, go with the flow, talk to her all the time as this is the turn on and enjoy together!!!!

I enjoyed this post. It reminds me of when I was much younger, and my rectal temp/ anal sex fetish was alive and well. If you find a woman these days who gets excited about rectal temperature taking, it’s probably rare. I don’t think that many young people have ever had a rectal temperature taken, and many probably don’t even know that they exist. I’ve found that some women like anal stimulation, and others think it’s disgusting.

Just saying, but is your moniker just that or are you a male nurse?

If you are a nurse, she should be aware of that. If so have you ever discussed the subject of rectal temperatures?

I know from experience that at times when a person is sick they’re not particular how their temperature is taken, though in the times I took a female’s rectal temperature, I would suggest it and ask first.