I am not sure this is the right page where to post it, but I have often wondered whether we are correct when we say that we are "anal".
I think that we should maybe create a new definition that is a bit more precise, that is "rectal".
For example: fingering is indeed very "anal", but an enema should more accurately defined as "rectal". If you like the insertion of a suppository, that is pretty much anal, but if you like its melting phase, that is way more "rectal". And other examples could be added, of course.
Given that those who like "anal" and those who like "rectal" mostly overlap (pun intended!), I wonder whether here on zity we have more people in the "anal" group or in the "rectal" group.
Starting with myself, I am both, but should I choose one category, I am probably more into "rectal". It would be nice to hear from others