Soap Sticks

Ok, so my hubby and I are a DD couple for almost two years now. He is wanting to start doing, I guess you would say, more butt punishments, because I don't like anything near, around, or in my hole. He either does really rough anal, plugs me for the night, or both as my post punishment, and I usually end up ugly crying. He has looked into figging and soap sticks as a punishment, and we were wanting to know a little about soap sticks before he starts doing them. He wants something that will cause a rough kind of pain but will also work as a laxative (he is wanting to use them before he uses the pump on me.) Is there a certain way to make them? How are they made? Is there a certain soap to use? Is there a certain way to use them?

Ah yes, soapsticks, I remember them well. Both with terror and absolute lust. We, (my brother and I) were laid across mum's lap and the soapsticks were used to make us poo. Definately not for punishment.. With our little bumholes exposed these items of terror OR pleasure were dipped into water and then pressed into our little holes over and over again. Not deep, probably only about an inch or so but enough to have us straining which probably produced the results required. The common soap of the 40's and 50's was just a plain soap cast into bars of about 4 cakes/tablets a bit over an inch thick and could be easily whittled into a soap dildo. At 78, I wish that there was still a company that cast soap into bars like this as I still like the sensation of the soap gave me way back then. Enjoy, regards, irrigator333.

He wants something that will burn me up and clean me out

It will certainly do that. You will have to experiment with the various soaps available. Many years ago we had (in Australia) a pink soap called Lifebouy and there was a green one of Palmolives, both had that nice little 'burn' about them. My mother was an athlete and if she heard us swearing, she would chase us and rub either of the above soaps across our teeth to 'clean our mouthes out'. I have just been enjoying a cake/tablet of Imperial Leather soap. This soap has a nice 'burn' and is very creamy. A shame that you aren't still online for a chat. Regards, irrigator333.

Be careful with the soaps, Ivory or Dove are pretty safe and will burn enough, maybe he should use ginger instead while tanning your tush!

Cotton 95 please be careful. you could easily get hurt. your husband needs to listen and watch over you as he tries this. control and metfet bdsm does not have to be cruel, it can be sensous and very enjoyable

You could make your own, search for it, there is shop who sell kit. Then you could add few ingredient like chillies or ginger...

It is usually suggested that the Dom/Domme try things out on themselves. Then the Dom/Domme can know how it feels. Otherwise good communication is needed so no one gets hurt or harmed.

I have never tried soap sticks for constipation. I will be trying it very soon. I’ve always fantasized about being given soap sticks for discipline

I'm pretty late to the party, so I don't know if you and your hubby have taken your adventures to the realm of Soap Stick Land already, but here are some tips.

Like others have said, be careful with soap that could cause irritations or bleeding. You do not need highly aggressive soap for soap sticks to cause discomfort, especially if you have never used them before. Ivory and Dove are middle of the road. Soap sticks made of those brands will burn, but not enough to harm your rectal area.

Use a small, sharp knife to cut a bar into two or three pieces lengthwise. Round off the sharp edges with the knife, then rub the sticks down with a wet washcloth. Voilà!

Right before use, let your husband hold the tip (or half) of the soap stick in a cup of warm water. Warm, soft soap burns that much more than dry soap. Let him SLOWLY insert it into your anus. Being slow is much more uncomfortable when it comes to soap than being rough. Insert the stick halfway, leave it sticking out of the anus for a couple of seconds, withdraw, re-wet the tip, insert again. Moving a soap stick in and out of the anus will build up the urge to go a lot more.

Once there is a nice layer of soap, your hubby can push it all the way in, deep into the rectum where it will really kick in. Of course, after all this, while you are squirming, he can then use another stick... and another. 😉

Good luck and safe playing!

Yes I agree, wetting the soapstick and pushing it in and out will make the anus sting and burn more. He could for example make you count as he does 100 insertions before pushing it deep in.

Hi,

The soap stick are usually made using Ivory Bar soap. To make them, you just cut the bar into fairly thin strips just thick enough that they hold together and don't break and then before you use them you can soak them for a short time so they are softened somewhat and then make the person whose getting the punishment to bend over and you just shove them up your butt and before the long slow burn will start and eventually you'll have the laxative effect and you'll soon be pooping.

soapymouth

@j_essicaxxx You are evil. 😃 😃

I don't read much about those glycerin soap bars being nicely trimmed, and used as soap sticks, only ones like dove. But, isn't this the same thing as glycerin suppository's? Except of course for some coloring and perhaps fragrance? Who would know if a bar of glycerin soap is basically a big, big suppository, or if it's not? Either way, if one would bother to cut up a bar of soap, wouldn't the glycerin soaps be just as good, or even better...or at least just as good? Maybe a little gentler?

I don't read much about those glycerin soap bars being nicely trimmed, and used as soap sticks, only ones like dove. But, isn't this the same thing as glycerin suppository's? Except of course for some coloring and perhaps fragrance? Who would know if a bar of glycerin soap is basically a big, big suppository, or if it's not? Either way, if one would bother to cut up a bar of soap, wouldn't the glycerin soaps be just as good, or even better...or at least just as good? Maybe a little gentler?

Didn't you read what other people said about glycerine soap suppositories?

See a blog on my profile, i use saddle soap, its name implies it is for cleaning horse tack.......but so far most of this bar has found its way up my ass, it doesnt burn , but you know its there,it has a high glycerin content and boy, does it empt me out !!!

I suggest to make a race by inserting soap sticks mutually:

- Ladies first: At first the lady will insert a slippery soap stick deeply in the anus of the man.

- Afterwards the man will do the same thing with the lady.

Which person will be able to hold back for a longer time?

+Sounds fun, But you need 2 things

1. A prize for winning

2. And 2 toilets

Randy

I use two or three bars of Ivory in my plastic 3qt container for my soapy enemas. When the bars gets small, I use them as soap stick suppositories. For some reason, if I have more than one ready, I find I have to shove them all up my butt - can't resists really giving it to myself.

This is an idea the winner goes to the toilet and the loser gets a nice new thick soap stick with butt plug for one houre so you save a toilet.

How soap sticks work :

When I was a kid, I understood, from conversation involving my mother and her siblings, that they had been given soap sticks when they were constipated as children. These were evidently very unpleasant. The wording was “quille de savon” or, in English, “soap pin”, by analogy of the shape of bowling pins.

In retrospect, I'm unsure how they were used. Were these bits of soap in the shape of a bowling pin inserted like suppositories, then left inside the rectum until defecation occurred? Or were they inserted but not fully, then withdrawn?

For obvious reasons I can't ask my mother for details.

Generally a soap stick in the shape and the length of a finger has been cut with a sharp knife from a piece of natural household soap and put in warm water for some minutes up to the point that this will become slippery. Finally the soap stick was put deeply in the anus with a finger.

@complete_bowel_cleansing This does not tell me if the stick was to be inserted inside and left inside, or moved in and out and then withdrawn.

My mom would do this when we were traveling or didn't want to mix an enema. I hated them. It made me want to poop immediately but would have to hold it for 15 minutes. I was really squirming after a couple minutes. She would put me over her lap and stir the stick in a cup of water for a few minutes. She put Vaseline on and in my butt before pushing it in as far as she could get it (she had long fingers 😃. She would then aqueeze my buttcheeks together to make sure I didn't push it out. The sticks were cut from a bar of soap she kept on the window sill. If we were traveling, she would bring that bar wrapped in aluminum foil.

@complete_bowel_cleansing This does not tell me if the stick was to be inserted inside and left inside, or moved in and out and then withdrawn.

The soap stick will be inserted deeply inside and so left there up to the moment, when the forced bowel movement will occur, then it will come out together with the excrements.

Or it is inserted deeply and does not come out again. Happened to me very often.

So the consensus is that it was a small piece of soap in the shape of a bowling pin pushed inside like a suppository and retained inside until a bowel movement ensued?

Exactly until the bowel movement occurs or no bowel movement follows and the suppository just stays in.

Exactly until the bowel movement occurs or no bowel movement follows and the suppository just stays in.

From experience, if the soap suppository has no effect and stays in, you might very well experience significant bloating or bowel discomfort afterwards or the next day. It's not really very pleasant.

I used these kind of soap sticks that I made for myself when young, when in my late teens, early twenties, but now I avoid them because of the aftereffects.

There are to versions of soap suppositories, just as there are two of glycerin.

One is the “infant” which are about the diameter of a pencil and slightly tapered and 2 ½ to 3 inches long. These are held by the thick end and the thinner rounded end inserted, and the suppository held in place until the kid stats to poo. The suppository can be moved in and out to enhance the laxative effect. This is usually done with the kid back lying on a diaper, which catches the poo.

The “adult” suppositories are usually bullet shaped and are supposed to be fully inserted. The shape causes the suppository, once inside the anal ring to travel upwards releasing the glycerin higher up for a more complete poo.