How to feel my prostate?

I have an enema kit and lube so cleaning is no problem. Would prefer to feel with my finger but I also have a 6’ vibrating dildo. Could anyone tell me how? Position? Anything?

Sit on the toilet and reach through your legs with your index finger or lie on your side and use your thumb. Use plenty of lube, move slow, and make sure you're highly aroused, as the prostate will swell and be easier to find.

Depending on your specific anatomy, you may or may not be able to reach your prostate. I used to be able to reach it, but no longer.

Push your index or forefinger into your rectum. Point it forward, toward your penis. If it is long enough, you will get to a swelling that is firmer than the surrounding tissue. You will also distinctly feel the pressure. That is the prostate.

My last doctor never seemed to have any problem with reaching and checking the condition of my prostate. I tried to get the wife to feel for it when she was back there one day and said she could not find it. I guess I will need to train her based on some of the recommendations below.

Thanks!