My visit to a spanking professional

I consider myself a spanko, being pretty much obsessed with the spanking fetish. I used to be spanked regularly by a guy named Daddy Howard, a well-known top in the San Francisco gay BDSM scene, who gave very sound spankings. Unfortunately, he moved to Canada awhile back, and I never saw him again. Recently I learned that sadly, he died of cancer about a year ago.

The San Francisco area has a number of what I would call professional spankers, meaning that you can get a spanking if you're willing to pay for it. The going rate, I discovered, is about $300 an hour.

I generally don't like the idea of paying for sex, but, this past month I hadn't had a spanking for almost a year, so I was kind of desperate. Kind of? Well, actually, REALLY desperate! I don't do well at spanking parties, so the idea of paying for a spanking was tempting.

From an Internet search, I discovered that there are a number of women here in the Bay Area who do spankings for pay. (There are probably men who do this too, but I couldn't find any.)

My search came up with several possibilities, but one that stood out to me. Her website has a number of great testimonies from satisfied customers. So, I decided to give her a try, and made an appointment for this past Tuesday, 29 January.

I had never paid for any kind of sex before, so I was kind of apprehensive. Was I wasting my money? What if it was some kind of scam? $300 for an hour of spanking isn't exactly cheap. But it wasn't just the money, it was scary. I had never done anything like this before. What could I expect? Several times I considered canceling the appointment, but I finally decided I was not going to wimp out on this.

As it turned out, my appointment with her greatly exceeded my expectations. This woman is phenomenal. The minute I walked in the door and we started talking, it was like, she was a best friend I had known for years. Of course, this was the first time I had ever met her, but the way she interacts with you makes you feel totally welcome and at ease. After the session was over, we talked a little and I rested. I felt no embarrassment whatsoever sitting on the bed talking with her totally naked!

Her spanking skills as a top are excellent. She spanked me hard sometimes, and when I screamed, it delighted her. But, she didn't overdo it. She told me that as a first time client, she wanted to start out a little slowly until she got to know me better. Good idea. That's one of the signs of a good top.

When I left, we hugged like we were old friends. I made another appointment for next month before I left. I think that says it all.

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My first proper spanking was from a guy. He runs a gay spanking and cp contact mag in the UK and it is very good.

I found an ad in an old magazine called Forum so called the number and arranged a visit to his flat in London. I did not know he ran the mag at that time but that doesn't matter anyway.

I paid him £50 to get my bare bottom spanked with various implements and finished with a caning as I bent over a stool. He gave me 3 but I asked for 3 more and got them too! He started to wank me off but I stopped him at first as I wasnt aware of my attraction to men at that time but he persisted and wanked me until I cum over his sofa! I loved it and shot lots of cum too. He then told me to go get some tissue and clean it up which I did immediately and really enjoyed the humiliation of doing it! First of 6 visits in all until I found more guys through contact mags etc who did it for free so didn't go back anymore. It was very very horny though and one I thoroughly enjoyed immensely!

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I have a professional spenker that I see every two months and you are right about the cost. It is expensive but totally worth it. When I get there she acts like my best friend. Once she starts it is all discipline, I let her have her way with my bottom. I have left with a black and blue bottom many times. I have had my mouth washed out, I have stood in a corner before going back over her lap again, and when she is done she becomes my best friend again. My biggest wish is that I could see her more often. Professionals have a place in life for people like us who don’t have a playmate.

To be honest, this is something I have really wanted to do for a long time, but I just didn't have the courage to take the step. It is an experience I am super curious about, and I think I might try it as soon as this coming week.

Dear @Cazimi,

To be honest, this is something I have really wanted to do for a long time, but I just didn't have the courage to take the step. It is an experience I am super curious about, and I think I might try it as soon as this coming week.

It is obviously something you REALLY crave, Do it! I can tell you that recently I took that step and it led to the experience of a lifetime. Enjoy it and perhaps share how it went with us

I had my second spanking today with a lady spanking professional. We had agreed before I got there on a role play session. When I got there since we had never met we sat in the living room and just visited. After a few minutes she ask if I was ready and I said yes. He had me come stand in front of her and she took my belt off and then my pants and boxer shorts. She had me lay over her. lap and start spanking me with her hand. After a few minutes of her hand she started using paddles. The paddles hurt more than her hand but it still was not bad. She then had me go stand in the corner and told me not to touch my butt. After a few minutes she told me to come to her and she had set up another piece of furniture for me to bend over with my butt in the air. She then started spanking me with my belt. After that she used a strap and then three different paddles that were very narrow, about. two inches wide. She was spanking harder and these paddles really hurt. I almost said the safe word a couple of times but managed to endure it. The stinging was very intense. Then she told me to go stand in the corner again. When she called me back, she had me get over her lap again and spank me a few more minutes and then she applied some lotion to my butt. She said your done you can get dressed. We sat and talked a few more minutes and then I left. We were both into the role play where I was being punished as a 16 year old boy for something I had done. I will definitely go back for another session.