About spanking disciplinary

Do you think that spanking worked in these times at home ??

Don't know about current disciplinary spanking. It certainly worked when I was growing up.

In a long and happy marriage it seems my wife has to paddle my bare butt about twice a yr------We both know when a bare paddling has to settle things so no argument ever about that-----so I would say it has worked fine for us----We are probably among a tiny tiny minority

For me personally childhood spankings were not effective discipline. I just learnt to stay out of my dad's way. He was often angry about something and would lash out physically. So when I was growing up, spankings weren't fair or predictable.

I think the the cost of being spanked as a child is my spanking kink. I've had a lot of fun with it, but it makes it harder to find a sexually compatible partner. You can't usually pick someone up on a night out!

Oh getting spanked worked all right!! Got my attention right now. It was as much the embarrassment of having to be over my mother knee with my bare bottom exposed and her lecturing me before the spanking began. It was usually with hand but with more major issues, the dreaded hairbrush or paddle came out and really warmed up my bottom. However, afterward nothing but pure mother love was expressed and it actually made me feel closer to my mother. Denise

As I have mentioned a few times before, I have always enjoyed most of my spankings. I even asked my mother if she would continue to paddle me, once I started high school. Ordinarily, most mothers would say no, but my mom was a product of the Deep South- Louisiana. So, my spankings continued until I finished graduate school at age 23. Mom and I were always close and we used to sit in the kitchen on Friday nights and have a few drinks, once I turned 21. Mom would talk with me as if I had no brothers or sisters around (I have 2 brothers & 2 sisters). Those were special times, believe me!

As a child I found spankings to be both painful and scary. I got it with a belt over my jeans and it hurt like hell, but it never altered my behavior.

Perhaps, that behavior would have been altered if those jeans/pants had been taken down, SickBoy69!!!

How yes I certainly think the spankings I received at home were effective at changing my behavior! My Dad or Mom would not hesitate a moment to spank any one of my brothers or sister using the "tried & true" method. Directly stated, they would sit down in an arm less chair, place you across their lap, take down your pants & underwear and then proceed to swat your bared butt! Scolding would be included and a few questions you had better answer the "right way." Afterwards they would give you a hug and have you stand in a corner for a while to think about your behavior.

So? Did this "work?" Well it very much appears it did because all five of us are responsible, educated and productive citizens.

It is difficult to argue with results however during the times I was laying across my Dad's or Moms' lap I would have been inclined to disagree, Ha!Ha!Ha!

Sounds like ... drumroll... whether spanking works or not depends on the individual circumstances, which is why smart parents will have available many different methods to guide and discipline depending on what works.

One thing that is likely is those people for whom spanking didn't work and whose parents gravitated towards it got more spankings than those it worked on.

I got spanked growing up and even if it worked, I don't advocate it. As we got older, my parents more often used things like making us hold uncomfortable positions as a physical punishment. That could honestly be just as physically unpleasant but it doesn't involve hitting.

I got spanked growing up and even if it worked, I don't advocate it. As we got older, my parents more often used things like making us hold uncomfortable positions as a physical punishment. That could honestly be just as physically unpleasant but it doesn't involve hitting.

That sounds interesting. Can you give some examples?

Yes I think spanking worked.

In the past, if I had done something wrong and I got spanked, I avoided doing that again.

One thing I remember well is spanking for smoking. I started smoking when I was 14 and after 2 weeks my mother found cigarettes in my bag. I certainly hadn't had a spanking for 2 years, but that changed quickly. Off to the parents' bedroom and get the cane for smoking. And it helped, never got another cigarette.

Luckily times are different now and I'm not a proponent of spanking either.

In the sense that I got good grades and was never in serious trouble compared to some of my peers. But it also caused a spanking fetish, so..

In my case they worked. I really disliked this punishment and was afraid of it. There have been many times when I didn't do things that could have earned me a spanking. Spanking was a painful but also embarrassing punishment. I was very ashamed of being treated like a little child.

It was the fear of it that kept me in line... the ones I got worked since I did not get many.

Didn’t work in our house. Although very seldom, they just made me more defiant and careful while repeating the behavior.

I was often spanked for poor grades at school or not doing my homeworks or for school skipping class, like also for not doing my chores at home...

Back then, if my mother ever considered that I wasn't doing my best for school because I was lazy, I was always sentenced to a bare bottom spanking to "help" me to learn and study...

Usually my next received grades was much better ones , my homeworks was pretty well done as well as my house chores, so, yes, for me this spankings worked, at least for a while...

I don't know if spankings actually improved my behavior, but it certainly made me far. More careful about getting caught. The consequences of getting caught. We're so painful that you definitely wanted to avoid it. As I've said before mom's spankings were amazingly painful and fierce.

It is pleasing to note that these days corporal punishment is illegal in most developed countries.

I think it worked for me. Although I’ve always known that I’ve had a spanking fetish, because as young as 4 I would fantasize about television characters from Westerns spanking me, I never was a fan of my parents spanking me. For one thing, it hurt. For another thing, it was embarrassing, and if my mother gave me the spanking, it sparked absolute defiance. And lastly, it did nothing, coming from my parents, to soothe my nascent sexual feelings about spanking. However, the embarrassment factor kept me from wanting it to happen, so it kept me in line.

I didn’t mind it happening in school. That fueled my fetish. But getting in trouble at school meant even great trouble at home, so there went that. I do have a thing now, though, for getting popped on my palms with a ruler or pointer. They never wrote home about that! 😉

Spanking worked, in that I was a respectful boy who always responded to authority. As I got older the continued spanking on my bare bottom and the pulling down of my shorts/trousers and underpants made me deeply ashamed to be still treated as a little child and from time to time others seeing. In some ways I feel that didn't work and it created a strong kink that Im sure was not the intention. However I have continued to be a good productive responsible citizen so maybe all was for the best.

Taking away a cell phone or games, we have found a good way to correct bad behavior.

Spanking worked, in that I was a respectful boy who always responded to authority. As I got older the continued spanking on my bare bottom and the pulling down of my shorts/trousers and underpants made me deeply ashamed to be still treated as a little child and from time to time others seeing. In some ways I feel that didn't work and it created a strong kink that Im sure was not the intention. However I have continued to be a good productive responsible citizen so maybe all was for the best.

It was the same for me. Spankings hurt for sure, but it was the embarrassment and shame of having my pants pulled down, everything bare and exposed, and getting a spanking that I really hated the most. I dreaded anyone finding out I still got bare bottom spankings (especially as I got older), and even worse if someone were to witness it happen. Unfortunately, some friends did find out and my best friend did see me get a bare spanking a couple different times.

While these spankings did deter me from some bad behavior, especially with other people around, it also created this huge kink with spanking, exposure, and embarrassment. Which I'm pretty wasn't their intent lol

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I could have wrote that. My wife and I grew up together in a small town in Ontario Canada in "the spanking era"!!! We were both spanked bare bum over the knee well into our teens!! Thank God I married her and we are fellow spankos to this day!!!

Oh getting spanked worked all right!! Got my attention right now. It was as much the embarrassment of having to be over my mother knee with my bare bottom exposed and her lecturing me before the spanking began. It was usually with hand but with more major issues, the dreaded hairbrush or paddle came out and really warmed up my bottom. However, afterward nothing but pure mother love was expressed and it actually made me feel closer to my mother. Denise

I fully agree with this. Spanking is a painful educational procedure. However, if used fairly and consistently, it is effective. As a child and teenager, I did not like being punished corporally. However, I agreed to this form of punishment. If a parent has a strong bond with a child, spanking does not destroy this bond, but strengthens it. Spanking is an expression of care for the child. The parent punishes them because they want them to be better. Spanking is a secret between child and parent. The parent has the right to demand that the child bare his buttocks and submit to a beating. No one else has this right. This shows the special role of the parent.

By the way, today in many countries corporal punishment of children is prohibited. However, I remember a movie in which a boy was supposed to be adopted a long time ago. The judge informed him about what adoption would change in his life. Among other things, he told him that his parents would have the right to use corporal punishment against the boy.