Forensic Medical Exam

When I was 11yo my father was arrested on child porn charges. It was a terrible time for the family. But it ment me being taken to the police station and being examined. I was striped totally nude from the start, swabs taken, it was the first time I ever had a rectal exam

I’m asking purely out of curiosity for how procedures like that have to be followed, but how did that go down? Was it a doctor/medical practictioner of some type that carried out the exam? Was that person male or female? Was there any effort at all to preserve your modesty in that incredibly sensitive situation?

I am sincerely sorry to hear you went through such an awfully traumatic experience. No one should have to be subjected to that by default of who they are related to.

I think the term was a forensic medical examiner. No attempt to preserve my modesty was made at all. What maybe I should have said was that I appeared in a few of the photos the police uncovered. I'm guessing that's why the exam.

I had such an exam. I was 16 years old.

One of my classmates punched me on the face and then forced me to lower my briefs, without going further, even though he had also lowered his own and had an erection. I did not mention the sexual aspect to my parents.

My father was a mailman and knew police officers well. They advised us to show the injury at a clinic. I went there with my mother. I was injured only around one eye, but the doctor asked me to undress in the presence of my mother, I could keep my briefs. I considered this as a second aggression. The doctor made remarks about my scoliosis and asked questions that had nothing to do with the assault.

Gazzad81 ..... This must have been terribly shocking for you in oh so many ways.OMG. I salute your courage in posting about such a traumatic experience.

However, I feel sure that you somehow realise that Zity is a truly amazing site. One of the very few places that you could ever open up and discuss such a highly personal and sensitive issue openly. People on here are amazingly insightful and supportive.

I understand why they did that given the pictures they found, but I can't imagine how traumatic the exam itself was.

That was probably horrible experience specialy in that age.