My Mummification and Colonoscopy

That was an interesting thread. I'm not sure I could do that, sounded interesting though. I like the sparker concept. So I take it you could still communicate and could have ended the session at any time.

I wasn't gagged or anything that prevented me from communicating. I could have ended the session at any time and there was always one and usually two people awake plus the BP monitor and the Pulse-Ox running all the time.

@SwitchableSusie when the wrapping and long underwear were taken off, did you feel a heightened since of nakedness? If that makes sense.

No, I didn't feel any different with regard to nakedness. I'm not shy about showing or having people handle my body. My "private parts" and breasts were always exposed except for a few short times when I asked for a blanket.

I just felt a release of pressure against my skin and the ability to finally move my muscles felt great!

@SwitchableSusie, how did the catheter and colon tube feel during that time? Did it ever get uncomfortable for you having those objects in you for an extended period of time? Were you aware of their presence the entire time or do the body adapt and you felt it less?

While I don't have experience with catheters or long term use of a colon tube, when I did try out long term buttplug wear, unless it was something like passing gas or sitting down, I was often unaware of the plugs presence.

Very simply, the catheter and colon tube has little sensation once it has been inserted for 10 minutes or so because they aren't being moved. They are taped in place.

I would think that after being immobile for that long a period you would experience a feeling of lightness if that makes sense. Freeing those muscles after that long would be liberating. Did you have any kind of discomfort such as cramping by not being able to move things or could you strain against it and get relief by doing isometric type stretches. Whole thing makes me cringe.

The whole thing makes me cringe too. It was a test of the will to do something I didn't know I could do combined with my husband loving being mummified and his really wanting me to try it. I can see myself doing it again, but not anytime soon. Maybe in a few years.

I didn't feel any discomfort but you have to really settle into the inability to move and not even try to move. One thing that concerned me about the comfort and discomfort of the whole thing is that when I was mummified, all my skin was in a relaxed position and my legs were against each other in a relaxed position, likewise for my forearms against my abdomen and no skin felt like it was pulling. I was concerned that if I was able to move that the skin might feel like it was pulling and then I would really be uncomfortable. So I thought it best to just stay relaxed and still.

@SwitchableSusie Susie, you are so brave and bold. Wow!

HUGS, Megan

Great experience and thank you for your updates. I am very claustrophobic so I would last about 3 minutes in that scene.

@SwitchableSusie I loved your entire description and responses. I also read where you wore long underwear and I assume that is for you skin not to have skin-to-skin contact for prolonged time.

When I followed up and read your other post;

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I didn't see or I missed about your husband getting to wear long underwear. Did I miss something or did he elect not to have it? I wasn't sure or is it just his preference to have the shrink wrap contacting his skin.

Also the women who assisted you two, are they the women you sometimes have sex with? And what "privileges" do they have with your husband?

I loved that post and this one. 🌹

The long underwear was my husband's idea. He's so thoughtful. 😜 It never occurred to me when I was mummifying him and he didn't think of it for himself when I mummified him either.

Beth and Joan, the two women who assisted me when I mummified my husband and when my husband mummified me never had a three way or four way with my husband and myself. We don't plan to either. Joan is married and 99% heterosexual/heteroflexible and Beth has a partner and became a full time lesbian after her children were born.

Our relationships are based on things that are mostly outside of the bedroom. They are very good, sincere old friends of mine and we have been friends longer than we have had sex together. I play twice a year with Beth and Joan and NOT together. I see them individually and they both know I see each of them. Joan's husband and Beth's partner both know about our activities. None of this is done in secret. The sexual part of our relationships are because we really care for each other, not to have a big orgy with numerous people. Beth and Joan do not have sex with my husband. Even when he was mummified and I was out of the room, they told me they left his penis alone.

@SwitchableSusie wrote, "Our relationships are based on things that are mostly outside of the bedroom. They are very good, sincere old friends of mine and we have been friends longer than we have had sex together. I play twice a year with Beth and Joan and NOT together. I see them individually and they both know I see each of them. Joan's husband and Beth's partner both know about our activities. None of this is done in secret. The sexual part of our relationships are because we really care for each other, not to have a big orgy with numerous people. Beth and Joan do not have sex with my husband. Even when he was mummified and I was out of the room, they told me they left his penis alone."

How do you and your friends decide to get together and why only once a year? And after so long of a friendship, how did it evolve into something sexual or is it just something that just happens to involve something close to it being sex between friends?

As sort of an explanation as to where I'm coming from, when I first came here I believed I was bisexual and wanting to find out what it was about. I was able to find an older more experienced woman who was or is bisexual who had the patience to let me explore my feelings. As it turns out I am heterosexual but my experience with her developed into an intimate and caring friendship. I do still have sex with her occasionally but not with the goal of having an orgasm. Not to wax sentimental about it but sometimes one of us just wants to be held and have a little more than a hug. It may involve an enema with a foot rub while listening to each other try to make sense out of life. In truth I probably do most of the talking 😕 while she patiently listens.

Both of our husbands know of this and I enjoy her closeness and just being with her at times. I may be wrong but what you described sounds very similar to what I am experiencing.

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Or am I comparing apples to oranges?

How do you and your friends decide to get together and why only once a year? And after so long of a friendship, how did it evolve into something sexual or is it just something that just happens to involve something close to it being sex between friends?

As sort of an explanation as to where I'm coming from, when I first came here I believed I was bisexual and wanting to find out what it was about. I was able to find an older more experienced woman who was or is bisexual who had the patience to let me explore my feelings. As it turns out I am heterosexual but my experience with her developed into an intimate and caring friendship. I do still have sex with her occasionally but not with the goal of having an orgasm. Not to wax sentimental about it but sometimes one of us just wants to be held and have a little more than a hug. It may involve an enema with a foot rub while listening to each other try to make sense out of life. In truth I probably do most of the talking 😕 while she patiently listens.

Both of our husbands know of this and I enjoy her closeness and just being with her at times. I may be wrong but what you described sounds very similar to what I am experiencing.

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Or am I comparing apples to oranges?

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You are right on the money comparing apples to apples. Your and my circumstances with Beth and Joan sounds similar. Since 98-99% of my sexual activity is with my husband I could be called heterosexual, heteroflexible or bisexual. I really don't care either way.

The three of us grew up in the same town and went to high school together. After graduation we went to college and lost touch for a while but then got back together. One now lives about two hours away in New Jersey and the other about 90 minutes away on Long Island. A lot depends on traffic. We have known each other seemingly forever. Beth always had an attraction for women even in high school and also when she was married but after the children were older teenagers, she got a divorce and exercised her lesbian desires. I can’t say I actually hit on Beth the first time, but we were alone in her house talking on the couch about family illness (her father had cancer but they ultimately got it all and he is OK today), and about her younger sister who was killed in a car crash a couple of years after college. There was crying and consolation on both our parts and it was our caring for each other that led me to reach out and hold her. I gave her a loving kiss. She responded in kind and it wasn't long before we were in bed holding each other, intermittently crying and making love with each other. I didn't expect to end up in a sexual relationship. It was kind of accidental, but we are both happy it worked out the way it did.

Joan was another story. She is 99% heterosexual like me and we were also good friends since high school and one day I took a big risk and told her I had strong sexual feelings for her. That could have ended out friendship which would have devastated me but she apparently felt the same about me so our very long platonic friendship crossed the line into one also involving sex. I could have been totally happy if Joan and I never had sex.

We see each other a couple of times a year in addition to when we play together either alone or with our husbands and Beth's partner. She hasn't yet married her partner.

Beth and Joan do not have sex with my husband. Even when he was mummified and I was out of the room, they told me they left his penis alone.

Hey do a friend a favor!

This is all very interesting to me and makes me jealous. There is just no keeping up with the Susie Chronicles. I give!

@SwitchableSusie thank you very much for your reply, I really do appreciate your answers and I have some more questions if you don't mind. 🌹

You said, "Beth always had an attraction for women even in high school and also when she was married but after the children were older teenagers, she got a divorce and exercised her lesbian desires. I can’t say I actually hit on Beth the first time, but we were alone in her house talking on the couch about family illness (her father had cancer but they ultimately got it all and he is OK today), and about her younger sister who was killed in a car crash a couple of years after college. There was crying and consolation on both our parts and it was our caring for each other that led me to reach out and hold her. I gave her a loving kiss. She responded in kind and it wasn't long before we were in bed holding each other, intermittently crying and making love with each other. I didn't expect to end up in a sexual relationship. It was kind of accidental, but we are both happy it worked out the way it did."

The woman I approached in hopes of finding about what it is to be with another woman, is as I said bisexual and had a woman partner for years but is happily married. Her husband knew about her relationship with the other woman as it was long term. When she relented and agreed to take me and allow me to learn I found out I was not the woman of the world I thought I was at all. Looking back it was embarrassing at the lack of skill and knowledge that I had and in many ways, with her I was in over my head and we both knew it.

Although I had sought her out for this, she is a family friend, I was no means the "lead" and I soon found out I really did not know what it was to make love with another woman. Especially someone so very skilled and giving as she is. When you were with Beth that first time and her being attracted to other women since high school and her following her lesbian yearnings, were you as skilled or familiar with making love with another woman?

For the first few times I was on the receiving end of this woman's touch and it was incredible and I just knew I wasn't totally prepared emotionally for the depth of feelings she pulled from me. I clearly was not anywhere near she was in her life experience but she is so giving and understanding that she gave me confidence to try that first awkward time when she lay back for me to "go down" her.

You also wrote, "Joan was another story. She is 99% heterosexual like me and we were also good friends since high school and one day I took a big risk and told her I had strong sexual feelings for her. That could have ended out friendship which would have devastated me but she apparently felt the same about me so our very long platonic friendship crossed the line into one also involving sex. I could have been totally happy if Joan and I never had sex."

In both instances you took the initial step in taking the chance and making the advance with your two friends. I got the feeling that you did not feel you were taking as large a risk with Beth when you kissed her. I am also assuming that Beth was the first friend you approached or expressed your desire for and kissed her the way you did. I got the sense that you may have anticipated her responding in kind and you reached out for her. Did her history of attraction for women make you more confident in kissing her? Which of you made it known that you wanted to go to bed with the other?

But with Joan, and her being heterosexual, you made me feel that you had risked it all in telling her you had strong sexual feelings for her. Did you have any feeling from her that she may have felt the same way or 'got that feeling'?

Or when you wrote of you and your husband playing together with Joan and her husband, and Beth and her partner, had this been in place before you took the chance on either or both of them? Or did that follow after you became sexually involved with Beth and Joan? And is this something you all do regularly?

I know I am prying but I don't see any other way of finding out what I need to know and you are straight forward.

Thank you for answering my original questions. 🌹

@SwitchableSusie thank you very much for your reply, I really do appreciate your answers and I have some more questions if you don't mind. 🌹 The woman I approached in hopes of finding about what it is to be with another woman, is as I said bisexual and had a woman partner for years but is happily married. Her husband knew about her relationship with the other woman as it was long term. When she relented and agreed to take me and allow me to learn I found out I was not the woman of the world I thought I was at all. Looking back it was embarrassing at the lack of skill and knowledge that I had and in many ways, with her I was in over my head and we both knew it.

Although I had sought her out for this, she is a family friend, I was no means the "lead" and I soon found out I really did not know what it was to make love with another woman. Especially someone so very skilled and giving as she is. When you were with Beth that first time and her being attracted to other women since high school and her following her lesbian yearnings, were you as skilled or familiar with making love with another woman?

For the first few times I was on the receiving end of this woman's touch and it was incredible and I just knew I wasn't totally prepared emotionally for the depth of feelings she pulled from me. I clearly was not anywhere near she was in her life experience but she is so giving and understanding that she gave me confidence to try that first awkward time when she lay back for me to "go down" her. In both instances you took the initial step in taking the chance and making the advance with your two friends. I got the feeling that you did not feel you were taking as large a risk with Beth when you kissed her. I am also assuming that Beth was the first friend you approached or expressed your desire for and kissed her the way you did. I got the sense that you may have anticipated her responding in kind and you reached out for her. Did her history of attraction for women make you more confident in kissing her? Which of you made it known that you wanted to go to bed with the other?

But with Joan, and her being heterosexual, you made me feel that you had risked it all in telling her you had strong sexual feelings for her. Did you have any feeling from her that she may have felt the same way or 'got that feeling'?

Or when you wrote of you and your husband playing together with Joan and her husband, and Beth and her partner, had this been in place before you took the chance on either or both of them? Or did that follow after you became sexually involved with Beth and Joan? And is this something you all do regularly?

I know I am prying but I don't see any other way of finding out what I need to know and you are straight forward.

Thank you for answering my original questions. 🌹

When I was with Beth the first time, that was by no means my first experience with a woman. I made the first move one night during high school with a girlfriend when we were trying on clothes. She and I had gone clothes shopping many times together and had seen each other nude in store dressing rooms many times while trying clothes on, but one night we were just trying clothes on at my house and I came right out and asked her of she was ever with another girl. It was both of our first girl-girl experiences. It felt a little awkward at first, but we enjoyed the hugging and kissing and exploring each others bodies from head to toe. We masturbated and oraled each other and had a wonderful time being close together.

When it came to making love with her, I just did what I knew I liked. It came very naturally for me. With Beth, I did not intend to start a sexual relationship. I just gave her a loving kiss, she was the one who took it from there. With Beth being a lesbian, it was probably natural for her to take it from there. I will say that I was confident when I kissed her that it would not be taken in a bad way. I just didn't expect her to take it as far as she did. Had she not given back such a warm long kiss, my kiss would have been the end of it. I would say she took my loving kiss and made it sexual.

With Joan I took a very big risk. She and I have a strong friendship, so I was hoping that if she was not interested in the sexual aspect that we could write it off as a misunderstanding and continue with out platonic friendship. Nevertheless, it was a big risk.

We were all married before Beth and I, and Joan and I had sex together. Beth and I and Joan and I have sex once or twice a year. It is a special occasion. Neither of them have sex with my husband. At the mummifications, they were there as assistants to help monitor us when we were mummified. They always had their clothes on. The more tightly you are restrained, the better the monitoring has to be. You cannot move at all when you are mummified. For such long periods where sleep is necessary, I wanted there to ideally be two people awake for monitoring. Among Joan, Beth and either my husband or myself, there were always two people awake during the night. With only one monitor, it would be too easy for them to fall asleep too, especially if my husband or I were also asleep. We were very careful about monitoring our vital signs. We used a Nonin Pulse-Oximeter and a Welch Allyn blood pressure monitor.

Beth and Joan do not have sex with my husband. Even when he was mummified and I was out of the room, they told me they left his penis alone.

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No, I didn't feel any different with regard to nakedness. I'm not shy about showing or having people handle my body. My "private parts" and breasts were always exposed except for a few short times when I asked for a blanket.

Obviously both you and your husband have a lot of trust in Beth and Joan. You have no problem being seen naked, touched, or having people handle your body. All of you play together.

You will not have sex with anyone but your husband. Is there some reason why Beth or Joan needed to tell you they did not touch your husband's penis? Or were you talking about them assuring you they did not masturbate him?

This was a fantastic post about your colonoscopy and mummification, SwitchableSusie. It's a lot more complicated and involved than I figured and it seems like you and your husband have some very good and intimate friends.

You will not have sex with anyone but your husband. Is there some reason why Beth or Joan needed to tell you they did not touch your husband's penis? Or were you talking about them assuring you they did not masturbate him?

I asked them what they did with his penis because I told them they could annoy and edge him but not give him an orgasm. They told me they didn't do anything with his penis. I played with his penis--I gave him a blowjob, stroked him, e-stimmed him and catheterized him in the beginning.

His penis, scrotum and nipples were fully exposed the whole time. They were sticking through cut-outs in the mummy and easily accessible.

I won't have intercourse with anyone but my husband. Other people can touch me and I gave permission for them to touch him--not to have sexual intercourse with him. I allow women to play with my body.

Gottcha, as in I understand.

I've never been catheterized. Don't want to be. Nope. I am curious if a guy can get an erection when there is a catheter in him. The very thought of a catheter is just not appealing to me. I can see why it is necessary for the mummification. I just wondered about being able to get a hard-on.

Has your husband ever experienced the sparker?

Did you ever have any problem with your circulation, like your hands or arms or legs going "to sleep"?

You've got some great friends, SwitchableSusie, and your taking part in the mummification because your husband really likes it is something I bet he appreciates big time. 🌹 When you do it again, do you think it will be easier since you have proven to yourself that you can?

I really liked this thread. 🌹

You can definitely get an erection with a catheter inserted. Some men masturbate with them inserted. I have masturbated my husband with them inserted on a few rare occasions. You have to do the stroking more gently than usual because you can irritate the urethra. My husband and I have both experienced the sparker and it really hurts. It’s important not to have the wrap too tight but we have not had our limbs fall asleep. Being laid straight out probably helps prevent that. If there is pain with a limb falling asleep you must release the person because that can be a sign of insufficient circulation. That holds true for rope bondage too. You do not want to bind the hands or feet because allowing them to wiggle and move helps with circulation.

I've never had a catheter inserted into my urethra, and I'd love to try it but have enough genitourinary problems already that I won't risk the chance of an infection. If you want to see a man come with a rubber catheter inserted, you can go to a site called spekula.com, which is hundreds of videos of a German lady named Ina playing with a great number of different rubber toys, suits and clothing with a great deal of enema and catheter play. Not infrequently she'll catheterize a male sub and give him an orgasm with the catheter in. It looks very intriguing but I'll never chance it at this point.

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@SwitchableSusie -

I thoroughly enjoyed, not to mention was aroused by, the description of your mummification session.

Quite the interesting interdisciplinary feat. Excellent writing.

@SwitchableSusie -

I thoroughly enjoyed, not to mention was aroused by, the description of your mummification session.

Quite the interesting interdisciplinary feat. Excellent writing.

@UpstateNY Susie also posted on her husbands mummification which occurred some years before hers. You may find that interesting as well.

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