Do you prefer Enemas for fun or Sexual Intercourse?

Susie wrote in another thread

Are there some ladies who prefer an enema over intercourse?

That is another question.

Okay, I'll bite from the other thread today. Are there any women who prefer an enema over PIV, or prefer an enema then PIV or other sex while holding? Any time my switch ex would offer me an enema for either of us plus sex, my answer was always yes, as soon as possible. I miss her doing that.

Eric

Both are terrific and I wouldn't want to do without either one.

If I had to live the rest of my life with one or the other, I would want to have sexual intercourse.

My wife likes enemas but definitely the main draw is penis-in-vagina.

Not I. I am not an enema taker so that makes the difference. Fuck me, but no enema up my ass.

I've just not had them, enemas, trip any good buttons in my head. But I'll keep putting them up my sub's ass. ?

Sexual Intercourse over enemas Maybe an enema before But Nothing beats Intercourse

MissStress,

Not I. I am not an enema taker so that makes the difference. Fuck me, but no enema up my ass.

I've just not had them, enemas, trip any good buttons in my head. But I'll keep putting them up my sub's ass. ?

Are his enemas something you do to enjoy domination (he just tolerates them to be a good sub to you) or he enjoys as a submissive or both? Does he say they enhance his orgasms? What gives each of you the most thrill/satisfaction from giving him enemas?

I'm a switch who really enjoys submissive humiliating enemas, and they also do a great deal to encourage my flagging orgasms at age 66 with bad ED. At my age, thank heaven for butt plugs, inflatable enema catheters and enemas.

Eric

I like both. my ex would give me an enema and then i would have her lay down and i would have sex will holding the enema. gives a major orgasm

I like both. my ex would give me an enema and then i would have her lay down and i would have sex will holding the enema. gives a major orgasm

Mine would give me an enema after dressing me in rubber and sneakers for both induced sweating and good walking traction later. Then she'd make me give her orgasms by hand, mouth or PIV while holding my enema. Eventually I'd be able to have her help me make my own orgasm if I didn't have one in her during PIV. We loved making us have orgasms during my enema hold but also enjoying watching me struggle with the combined kink of an enema and sweating in rubber while she made me do what she wanted. And I loved both the orgasms as well as the submissive humiliation of giving them to her enduring my own kink struggling. Occasionally she'd get her own enema before our PIV which she also loved. Of course straight PIV is wonderful but adding an enema really enhances the experience.

Eric

I like both, usually enema first. It flips my hot button to on giving one. I personally am with MissStress on the receiving, I hate them.

I like both, usually enema first. It flips my hot button to on giving one. I personally am with MissStress on the receiving, I hate them.

I'm a switch so love giving or receiving enemas or both, so my exes and I would often wind up both filled giving each other orgasms. Feeling both of us sloshing together and moaning and groaning about our respective enemas was really exhilarating, not to mention the PIV.

Eric

Since my equipment doesnt work well any more...an enema series at least is titilating!

My wife enjoys a good enema, but if given a choice she still really savors vaginal intercourse with all of its preliminaries. Part of this is the time required because our loving sessions last much longer than her taking an enema. I suspect that for her the best of all worlds would be to have an enema and then after expelling a good romp in bed.

I take a couple of enemas every month and do enjoy them. On the other hand, I do not enjoy them as much as having sex with my dear husband 2-3 times a week. I don't know how I could even compare.

For me, an enema as a prelude to intercourse is just the ticket to an enjoyable love-making session. Being cleaned out allows hubby the opportunity to go where he wants to go and the whole process simply flips my switch.

Deb

Definitely sexual intercourse, if I had to choose one or the other. OTOH, I'd really prefer not to have to choose! LOL!

Any more enemas are yet one more form of foreplay for me. Enemas and masturbation are a very good way for me to have an orgasm.

Enemas enhancing penis in vagina sex or sex in general? Yes.

But enemas replacing penis in vagina sex? No.

Tough question, one I'm going to have to think about since I just started enema play as an adult. I had lots of enemas before age 10, but then had the typical sexual awareness and starting having intercourse at 15, as well as some girl/girl play at about the same time.

So my anal, enema awareness is now back, just south of 45. I'm still married and still have a pretty good relationship with my husband, or should I say typical. Along the way I have "slept with" a couple of women, when there was mutual attraction. I have been "faithful," there have been no other men in my life.

But here's my quandary, I'm married to an Italian. His ego is destroyed if he thinks I have been masturbating. the "I'm not good enough" bullshit starts. So have to keep my toys hidden, and when we do have sex, which is pretty good, it's all about him. He will occasionally have anal intercourse with me, but the idea of anything but his dick in my ass just isn't going to happen.

So our schedules do allow me to take an enema, or do a girl's night out and share some incredible oral with a woman friend.

If I said enema to him, other than for a medical reason, he'd want me to see a shrink, so like many guys that wouldn't dare approach their wives, I understand.

I'd like to have a mixture of both...

In typical male fashion, when he gets off the night is over, so I do everything I can to make it last and get my orgasm, or fake it so I don't crush his fragile ego.

When I masturbate, or I am with my "girlfriend" I can easily have multiple orgasms. I've had days at home where I did things around the house, but every hour or so masturbated to one orgasm after another.

So, I'm going to have to sneak my enemas, sound familiar? And I think there is a good change, maybe with a little persuading, talk my girlfriend into trying... she's pretty open to new things, and yes, she's married to Mr. Macho man, too. Even if she won't take I'm sure she will give,

So, it will probably be a dual life, but do I think he has been faithful to me? No, I know he hasn't, but's that is the way many Italian men are, I knew what I was getting when I signed up for it.

And before anyone yells foul, it's not just Italian men, but they seem to be about the worst! Remember I'm just north of "Tony Soprano country."

If it's either/or you're doing it wrong

Since my equipment doesnt work well any more...an enema..............at least is titilating!

Same for me. Really pleasant and helps a great deal to stimulate an orgasm.

Eric

I prefer enemas for kinky fun

If it's either/or you're doing it wrong

I'm not sure if/who said either/or, but I think it's a lot more like either is good, both together are better, at least for me and my switch exes.

Eric

As much as I love to have enemas and then masturbate,I will always prefer to have intercourse

My wife and I have been sharing erotic enemas for the duration of a long marriage. For us, it's about the sensation as addendum to intercourse; combining the two is bliss.

I've always liked intercourse better than enemas, but lately my wife say's we have matured and she isn't as interested in sex. It breaks my heart to hear that, because she has a very lovely body. I need a series of enemas on occassions and when I can talk her into giving them to me they are great.

Personally, I like both, but now with the meds I take and my age, wife isn't interested in vaginal sex like she once was. She says that I can not finish and it frustrates her. But, I think she just isn't interested in vaginal sex any more. She started smoking about 10 or so years ago for some reason and thinks I am dumb about her doing that. But, you can't help smelling the stuff on person especially if you yourself are not a smoker. Why she picked up that habit is beyond me. Anyway. enough about that....Wife, I can say, doesn't mind giving me my enemas, but she doesn't try to make them special. She will let me prepare my bags and when I am ready, she will come into the bathroom, sit on a small stool, insert the douche nozzle into my rectum and administer the enema to me... I really do enjoy enemas especially if wife makes them special by whispering things, rubbing my belly and sliding the douche nozzle in and out of my rectum. However, those are very seldom happenings in my life these days. However, when wife does do it, it doesn't take me long to cum. None the less, she knows I love the feeling of the water as it moves inside by colon. I can just get in my knee chest position and become mesmerized with the enema as it fills me. And, well, I guess I am lucky just to have a wife that doesn't mind giving me frequent enemas.

Personally, I like both, but now with the meds I take and my age, wife isn't interested in vaginal sex like she once was. She says that I can not finish and it frustrates her. But, I think she just isn't interested in vaginal sex any more. .

Age has nothing to do with liking sex.

Couldn't have said it better myself!

Age has nothing to do with liking sex.

Nope. Not a bit. Age 67 Straight Switch. Also, I love enemas, sex and mixing the two, just like I have since I was about 15 and discovered orgasms and enemas. I now have ED and enemas and rubber clothes and sneakers and D/s when I can get it all help me to still have orgasms even with little erection. They're all enjoyable. No age limit expected.

Eric