Do you always cum when you play?

Sometimes, a good butt plug will do the job for Me

If I am masturbating, I cum every single time. 😉

If I am playing with someone else, it is every single time but we 'go into it' with the understanding that ultimately I am the one responsible for my own orgasm. 😉 😈 And I can rely on myself for a good time, regardless. 😁 😁 😁

Cum? No.

Orgasm? Absolutely! Many times.

Multiple orgasms for women are well known. Multiple orgasms for men, only made famous when Sting informed the world he was multi-orgasmic through Tantra.

So I decided to learn how to become multi-orgasmic. And it's true.

I had an ex who loved making me cum as fast as she could, which was a problem for me when I was trying to last as long as I could to get her off. Conversely, it took hours of my loving manipulations to get her off. Not exactly ideal.

I spent three years researching how-to and training myself to become multi-orgasmic as a man. It takes time and lots of practice but it is well worth the effort! In fact, the male orgasm and ejaculation are NOT the same process. Nor are they connected physically, meaning one does not require the other. There are many books on the subject, and I read almost all of them. Mantak Chia wrote an excellent book for men, and it is a good starting point.

When I do cum, it is because I want to or my fiance demands it! Our playtime lasts way longer, both of us have more fun, and after the initial amazement your partner may have, even skepticism, she will cum to appreciate your ability and staying powers.

I'm definitely an anally centered guy. I love things in my bum. I like to take a cleansing enema, then I use my favorite old toothbrush. It is the perfect length so that the end just tickles my sigmoid. It's skinny and could be a little thicker, but it is just fine. I can feel it as it passes my prostate and nestles in to my sig. I will simply wiggle my ass back and forth to get the feelings I like, while pulling my wire. And yes, I always cum when doing this. If I'm playing with someone, a well placed finger will ensure a good "O".

When I was younger my assplay was a part of the process that led to the "happy endings". Now that I've gotten older, the backdoor activities are many times enough fun and adventure just by themselves. In fact, much of the time enemas and insertions are not even erotic or sexual. I do them just because I like the sensation enjoyment that they provide on their own.

Unfortunately, no. I cannot orgasm unles have a vibe on my clit and I have my husband. I need that extra help getting over the edge. Had sex with someone else but I couldn't orgasm. I think think it was because I felt so guilty.

No.. but often that is not the game, nor do I always want it. If I'm aiming to please her, I'm focusing on making her cum, cum hard and often. Through providing pleasure for her I'm often hard on and off dripping pre cum on her. She's coming to the realization that she's super anal orgasmic. Once I get her to come once, I'll add in the fingers in her puckering hole. She goes wild!

When she turns her attention to me, I always cum!

There have been times when I've probably had too many beers and engaged in anal sex with my wife.

Beer boner. I can go at it and pound away and not ejaculate. After enough of it she's had enough from coming so much and is getting sore. She's simply exhausted from all the orgams, which at times are long lasting, continuous and intense!

I seem to be like most. Orgasms were easy when I was younger. As I age orgasms are less frequent but I love the play anyway.

I have only been orgasming for just over 10 years. I have come to realize that i need my vibrator to orgasm. Its a shame, though because I need penis (no playing alone for me if I want to orgasm) to get me over the edge.

Yes I do, even better if I have some toy in ass and a friend to play together!

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If I set out to masturbate, I would say 99% of the time I will choose one of my anal toys (dildo or prostate vibrator) and definitely end with a huge orgasm. The only times I don't cum is when I give myself enemas and then I would say most of the time I do masturbate to orgasm.

Anal stimulation is so pleasurable I really want to have it culminate in an orgasm. For me anal play and reaching orgasm are definitely linked together as one physical sexual release.

100% on own. If in chastity with wife - nil until allowed. Then yes. Only time really dont cum is if we fall asleep on the job!

Very rarely, due to self-imposed chastity.

Certainly not as when younger... It seemed in the past, that there was a need to have the orgasm, as a Finale of sorts, to release many things, stress, Blue Ball pressures, pent up sexual energies, etc.

As in the past three years, the experience has changed in so many ways. The dynamic has changed greatly in that, my dear friend has come to deeply enjoy stimulating me anally for longer & longer periods (as in 2-3 hours) duration whereas our sessions used to be a matter of 15 minutes or so... with results.

Back then, the anticipation had me 1/2 way there to orgasm/ejaculation before we would even begin. After literally 100's of trials & errors figuring out our mutual needs and communications in this rather DEEP activity, we found that either of us could end up exhausted after longer & longer sessions and totally satisfied, with no release of orgasmic fluids having been released.

We are still trying to figure it all out together, each time being very different from the previous. The best part of this all, is the fact that we never expect or anticipate any sort of outcome and therefor, we are never disappointed with our results.

Just blissful peace and calm each time. So sometimes, yes we do both CUM during our session of lovemaking, but most of the time, No.

And it is beautiful always! In our 60's and 70's now, we feel most fortunate indeed.

Yes I always cum when riding my dildo with my chastity cage hands free feels so nice

When I actually stroke myself, yes.

Lately, though, I've been trying to achieve a hands-free orgasm just using e-stim pads and an anal probe. I've enjoyed the ride so far, but haven't reached my destination yet.