Having your labia spread during real exams/procedures

Usually my gynaecologist will part my labia when working down there. I recently posted in another thread about my first experience that involved the doctor parting my lips when I was 14, as I had some general tummy pains.

He said he was just going to take a quick look between my legs, and proceeded to slide my pants down to my ankles, and spread my legs wide open into frog position. He then placed his finger and thumb on my outer labia and gently pushed them open. Nobody had ever seen, let alone touch, me down there before, but I had just started to keep my vagina smooth.

It was awkward at the time, especially as he seemed fairly young too.

I didn't start seeing an actual gynecologist until 19. It was just family doctor/pediatrician until then aside from school exams. First notable one was in 7th grade in the schools nurse office. Standing in my bra and underwear the doctor told me to step out of my panties and proceeded to spread back my pubic hair and outer lips and shined a penlight on the inner lips to make sure I was developing properly. Probably checking my tanner stage. Panties were off for less than a minute but as you can guess I was red faced and in shock.

I don't understand why it hurt. Did he just like to stretch them beyond their natural size for the fun of providing you with pain? Why did you call it "tear"? They don't normally become adhered like a boys foreskin or do they?

ok so i’m sorry it’s been like 4 year but i just logged into this account again and wanted to clarify for anyone who sees my comment, I literally don’t know why it hurt and I didn’t know it wasn’t supposed to until years later. I guess it was that he grabbed them and spread them farther than he should’ve, it hurt in the hymen area. I normally see people talk about having their labia spread where a doctor will gently press it open almost but my doctor gripped my labia majora tightly and spread them until it hurt. I don’t think i showed that it hurt but he had to have known. Nobody else who I know who had him as a doctor had this experience as far as i know.

Cant check the oil without opening the hood.

It would happen to me at my family doctor as a pre-teen and teenager during checkups. It was usually with my legs apart or in the frog leg position and my labia would be separated by his fingers and a visual exam done. As I got older sometimes the exam was internal as well.

For any external genital exam at the very least the dr will need to to separate the labia to visualise the vagina, urethra etc or perform labial traction to see navicular fossa/ posterior fouchette and more detailed external exam.

If they do not then they are only checking skin and not genitalia.

I have to be catheterized every day. My home health nurse has to spread my labia to put the catheter in.

Does that count?

Since I am a man, I cannot tell out of own experiemses, even though I have experienced similar things, but i tell something about a female playmate I had since age 5.

She wanted me to play doctor with her. Especially she wanted me to spread her labia. and look inside. I asked her if the doctor did so, and she confirmed. She also told that she had regular exams in her vulva because of certain problems. One time she was sick for nearly two weeks. I asked if they examined her vulva during her sickness, and she confirmed.

I was not surprised at al. On the contrary, I anticipated that answer. Even if this was the first time a girl showed her genitals to me, I did not get not surprised about what I saw. I think the reason is as follows.

Before age 7 I had regular exams in an establishment called “Kontrollstajonen”, menaing “The Control Station”. For some reason, my exams were more thorough than the majority, and I was sedated so that I do not remember much of it explicitly. Still I have a lot of pictures in my memory of singular scenes involving both myself and other kids. Usually there were several kids there at the same time and there were little privacy.

On of the things I remember is a girl lying straight on an exam table, the doctor doing something inside her vulva with a long instrument, spreading her labia with the other hand,. I saw it through a door that was open, so I cannot tell exactly what was done. But I think the doctor took specimens from her urethra and bladder with a rigid catheter. They did the same with me in much the same manner. I think this picture actually was from my preschool physical at age 6, which was a rather long even.

I got excited when I saw your mention of labia. Having them spread, stroked, kissed, etc is something that drives me wild, and I've never had a parter give those lips the attention they deserve.

I love the pulled open and exposed feeling. If a partner whispered in my ear saying anything about labia, I would tremble and be instantly wet.

Just to add, I have had partners who would go down 9n me for hours, but my labia always felt neglected.

I've never had it done outside of a pelvic exam or peds exam

@Rubnlickmi

I got excited when I saw your mention of labia. Having them spread, stroked, kissed, etc is something that drives me wild, and I've never had a parter give those lips the attention they deserve.

I love the pulled open and exposed feeling. If a partner whispered in my ear saying anything about labia, I would tremble and be instantly wet.

I've never had it done outside of a pelvic exam or peds exam

Astonishing that you've not had such pleasurable feelings freely laid upon you

Suggestion : Find a partner that loves muffdiving & burying their face between your silken damp thighs 😜

I got excited when I saw your mention of labia. Having them spread, stroked, kissed, etc is something that drives me wild, and I've never had a parter give those lips the attention they deserve.

You must travel East my girl

Of course. at my checkups with my GP, I get my labia spread apart for a quick look at my genitalia.

Whilst not excessive I do have inner labia visible since as long as I can recall and I love the feeling of having the spread and inspected. This happened growing up at checkups and for gynecological appointments.

I have had them spread for urine samples and for procedures requiring catheterisation.

Outside of medical world I like them kissed, sucked and gently nibbled. Mine are sensitive and I would never want labiaplasty and risk that wonderful sensation

Not much of an exam if the parts are not spread and poked and prodded , if your exam is just show and tell then it's not an exam

Not much of an exam if the parts are not spread and poked and prodded , if your exam is just show and tell then it's not an exam

Exactly they haven't even seen the vagina itself if they haven't parted the lips. Dentist wont see my gums and teeth if my other lips are closed

Whilst not excessive I do have inner labia visible since as long as I can recall and I love the feeling of having the spread and inspected. This happened growing up at checkups and for gynecological appointments.

I have had them spread for urine samples and for procedures requiring catheterisation.

Outside of medical world I like them kissed, sucked and gently nibbled. Mine are sensitive and I would never want labiaplasty and risk that wonderful sensation

Some other person than you spread them for an urine sample? Why that?

Some other person than you spread them for an urine sample? Why that?

When younger sometimes a sample would be “clean catch” so had to separate labia use little cleaning wipes pee a little then catch the sample. Easy to do now but so much when little

The only time I’ve had them spread open was for either a gynecological or urological examination.

My pediatrician used to spread them in order to check my vagina.

I have a fantasy about a gyno exam during which a female nurse keeps my legs spread to help the doctor or even better the nurse keeps my labias open while gyno exams my vagina inside.

Have you ever experience something like that? It was a play exam?

It would be so nice to find a play nurse here

Some other person than you spread them for an urine sample? Why that?

Wouldn't spreading the labia if they wanted a “clean” urine sample be the equivalent of what the nurse did to me? She told me I was not to touch anything then she retracted my foreskin herself for me to pee in the cup.

When younger sometimes a sample would be “clean catch” so had to separate labia use little cleaning wipes pee a little then catch the sample. Easy to do now but so much when little

Having this done to me would be, i.e, getting the foreskin retracted and having to pee under supervision of a nurse, is my dream scenario.

Wouldn't spreading the labia if they wanted a “clean” urine sample be the equivalent of what the nurse did to me? She told me I was not to touch anything then she retracted my foreskin herself for me to pee in the cup.

Exactly. Most samples are useless because this is not done properly.

Yes, during my annual physical my doctor spreads open my labia.

Always during pediatric exams growing up. I liked my doctor, very kind and gentle, but I never got used to the exposure of being naked and spread open. Hated it, loved it, so conflicting, to this day.

Just during gyno exams.

My doctor usually likes to get a quick visual of the outside and inside before inserting the speculum

Yes I've had them spread by many dr doms. And real drs for annual checkups

For annual physicals and gynecological exams and procedures. Always enjoyable.

I had my labia checked at every pediatric physical exam. With panties pulled down to ankles and my knees separated out into frog leg position, my pediatrician would place his bare fingers on my small outer labia and push them open revealing my tiny pink inner lips. I still remember how the cool air felt on my genitals as the labia were gently spread open by his large fingers for a quick check.

@almi325 Do you know what he/she was looking for? Was there anything diagnosed?