Pubic hair shaved by opposite sex nurse?

Hello everyone, Im interested in hearing your experiences if you've had to get your pubic area shaved by a nurse of the opposite sex as yourself. Im especially interested to know if any females have been shaved by a male nurse and how that felt - embarrassing, arousing, or how? for males, was your penis handled and did you get an erection? In the past I've gotten girlfriends to let me shave them and it was a huge turn-on for them, with my big fingers touching and moving their labia around, pressing on their clit. In high school I had a friend who had to get his appendix removed and told a story of a cute female nurse exposing him completely and shaving him as he got an erection which she gently held in her hand and moved out of the way, said he almost climaxed as she smiled at him .

At Age 12 I had an emerg. appendectomy at Children's Hosp. Cincinnati. Very pretty RN in her late 30's shaved me. My first surgery of any kind, so I was really scared and bombed out of my mind on IM Demerol. Back then they used lather and a safety razor. This experience started me into MedFet world. I was already a klysmo. for 4 years.

2000, I had a lower anterior bowel resection for colon cancer. A young Male surgical tech. shaved me with the newer electric clippers. This guy was a Master at shaving patients! He never lost one whisker of any of my hair; they all fell into a towel he had under me.

2015, I had an aortic aneurysm repair. A black old lady in her late 60's was the tech who shaved all patients. She brusquely came in and didn't say a word. She looked mad the whole time and shaved me very quickly, never said one word and left, with pubic hairs ALL over the gurney.

A couple months ago, I had a urodynamic study. A 68 yr. old RN did the procedure She was a "sweetheart"! She put caths in me, (several), filled my bladder with sterile water, put a cath. up my behind. These caths. were connected to a computer that measured pressures on the bladder and abdomen. Later, my urologist entered with his young pretty L.P.N. She injected xylocaine viscus up my urethra, swabbed my Glans with Betadyne and he did a cystoscopy to check for any new polyps. The R.N. then instructed me on self-cathing and helped me to do it myself.

NOTHING EMBARRASSES ME ANYMORE! I have ED, so no worries there about becoming aroused.

Yes I had a 2 female nurses come into pre op to shave me for hernia surgery. It would have excited me if I didn’t have a catheter put in the night before due to the ER doctor giving me too much pain medicine in order to push my intestines back into my body which was excruciatingly painful. A female nurse held my hand while he did that and then she put the catheter in later when I was unable to urinate. One nurse exposed me while the other used clippers around my belly button abdomen then used a razor to make everything smooth. Once I was admitted the female nurses on the floor checked the catheter before I went to sleep and first thing in morning before surgery. I was unable to become aroused during any of the above but my penis remained its normal size throughout which kind of surprised me. The only time I felt it get smaller was due to the coldness of the OR. A female OR nurse also asked if I minded if she looked over the surgical site or if I preferred to wait until I was under ? I said thanks for asking but you may as well get started and she did.

Short reply, having a male nurse shave me would be so embarrassing, beyond belief.

Honestly, I have good friend that is a nurse and she told me male nurses understand it would be too embarrassing for a female patient to have a male nurse shave their pubic region, unless its a emergency.

Now for a fantasy, you can fantasize what you want, whatever gets your hormones going.

I have had 2 hernias in the last 2+ years. And did not need to be shaved.

And on another note I have worked in the hospital on the floors for pre op and post op and in surgery. I have shaved male and female patients. When patients are having surgery most times not so much thinking about who is shaving them as much as who is doing the surgery. I walk into a patients room and start talking, tell them I will be shaving you today for your surgery, how are you feeling and so on and in like 15 minutes or so it is over.

Yes, it is embarrassing in some way for all patients but most just want to get it over with and move on. But the most memorable was a young lady with a tattoo from her belly button, was a traffic sign that said "slippery when wet" with a curving arrow pointed to her vagina. While I shaved her she talked and then showed me her other tattoo's.

I've always thought this would be an incredible exam session activity.

Back about 10 years ago I had a heart procedure done that required them to shave my groin where they would be inserting catheter of sorts that was going up inside my heart to perform an ablation to stop my AFIB. Knowing that would be the case, I shaved myself before arriving at the hospital. The nurse came in to shave me and I said I had already done that. She looked and gave me a pass. But when I was moved from the pre-op preparation room to the OR one of the male nurses said he was going to just go over the area to make sure it was completely smooth. It took less than a minute and the clippers seemed to be very good.

I was not embarrassed at all given there we upwards of 6 or 7 people in the room and all I had on was a hospital gown which was completely open in the front while I was being prepped for the procedure. I wasn't in the greatest shape then and probably would have had a difficult time getting an erection even in the best of circumstances, but I was completely at ease being exposed to all those in the room.

For a cardiac cauterization several years ago. Wheeled into the room where the procedure would take place wearing only a hospital gown. Two female nurses were in charge of prepping me. One of them started something in my IV that didn't knock me out but mildly sedated me while the other female nurse lifted up the bottom half of my gown and used an electric razor to shave my pubes. They talked to me the whole time that I was being shaved. I was flat on my back and kind of out of it. Conscious enough to know what was going on and able to understand what they were saying. All I heard was the buzzing of the electric razor. Since they were only shaving my pubes on both sides of my penis and balls, they didn't have to move them to shave what they needed to shave. I didn't see how much I was shaved until released from the hospital the next day. Had what has been called a Mohawk cut. No pubes on the sides and a small strip of pubes straight above my penis. Don't remember how long it took to grow back. Looked that way for a few weeks I guess.

Many years ago, when I worked in a city hospital the male orderlies (there was only one male nurse on staff at the time -- and he was on the female med-surg floor) shaved the men and the nurses shaved the women.... my personal experience is that I have always been shaved by a male nurse. However, it would not bother me to have a female do it unless she "cut something she wasn't supposed to".

Several years ago I had a vasectomy in a "developing country" (long story). They had only limited staff and the two nurses assisting the surgeon got the honors of shaving me down there. They were very thorough and although the actual shaving itself was not unpleasant at all, the regrowth over the next couple of months was VERY unpleasant. First and last time I've had any shaving done in that region.

Yes, prior to hernia surgery. Was put to sleep so do not remember anything

I've been shaved several times prior to an angiogram. The nurse usually puts a towel on my junk then shaves up the sides. The last time I did it at a hospital that is a teaching hospital and got shaved twice, the first time by the student nurse and then again when the real nurse didn't like her job. It wasn't a big deal. I was more embarrassed afterwards when I had to pee and could not raise my head up for 8 hours. Have you ever tried to pee into a jug while lying flat with the nurse waiting and saying well we might have to cath you. Made poor willie shrivel up something fierce I'll tell ya.

Was shaved by a female nurse prior to my vasectomy. Pre-instructions indicated not to shave so I didn't. When in and undressed below the waist and laid on the table with one of those like paper towel kinda drapes just covering. This really cute nurse with long black hair, pulled back in to a pony tail, and librarian glasses came in and removed my cover and shaved my testicles with a Bic razor. She fondled them as she needed to to get the various areas and moved my penis out of the way a few times by gently pinching the head and moving it to one side or the other. It was exciting but didn't get erect since I was so nervous about the procedure.

I have issues with one of my hips, so I've had 4 separate injections done, 2 with a female technician. The first time with her I was in scrubs with no underwear and she had me lower them myself, enough to get to the area, once I laid down on the table. So I was still covered when I finished. I believe she then placed a towel on top of my genitals to keep them out of the way as she shaved me with an electric razor.

The second time I was wearing sweat pants with boxer briefs because I figured they would have me change into scrubs like they did every other time. Once I laid down, she (the same technician as before) just came over and pulled them down herself. She even mumbled that I was wearing "those tight underwear" as she struggled to get everything exposed and positioned just right. So she totally exposed me briefly multiple times while wrestling with my drawers. She finished with my waistband going directly overtop of my penis and scrotum, so the top left parts of both were exposed. It was actually quite uncomfortable. She then shaved me as before. That second time was a little bit more embarrassing but since it was so unexpected and happened so fast I was totally caught off guard. There were no spontaneous erections to tell about, but the fear of one was ever present.

My sister in law was a nurse and told me she shaved men meny time with a cut throat razer and it put the fear of God in them.

I've shaved quite a few men over the years in preparation for surgery of the bowels, groin area, rectum and perineum. I believe it embarrassed me more than my patients at first, but I think nothing of it now. Actually haven't shaved any patients in quite a while recently because I can delegate it. But it's still not an issue. A lot of men will choose having one of my CNAs or myself shave them before letting one of the male nurses do it. Most guys I've shaved almost never get an erection either, mainly because they're too nervous and embarrassed to be sexually aroused. Men can be real serious about not wanting other men touch them below the belt, and I respect that. My husband is the same way. He'd rather endure the embarrassment of a woman shave him than face the awkwardness of a male nurse with a razor. And it's not just shaving, it's also that way with enemas, catheters, rectal temperature taking, etc.

Had it done. I think like a LOT of stuff, it's not nearly as fun when it's related to a genuine illness/injury.

Had my anal area shaved by two young phillipino nurses before surgery. One held my cheeks apart and the other shaved. Never touched my genitals. They were polite and chatted casually the whole time in their language.

. . . . They were polite and chatted casually the whole time in their language.

I would never tolerate that.

Chatting in their language is NOT polite and is flat out disrespectful.

If they were going to speak, it MUST be in the language of the patient, which in the USA has to be English or I would tell them NO TALKING.

Besides, it only takes ONE person to shave a patient. The other person could simply be sent out of the room.

In my situation, and even shaved in the presence of the nurse, she stood in front of me watching and holding a hospital gown and a cap to enter the operating room.

When I had my second hernia surgery (a recurrence) I had a varicocele operation at the same time, as both are in the same locale. Varicocele is dilated veins in the spermatic cord. I had the prep in the outpatient surgery area. Female nurse & student aide put me in the ‘frog’ position: feet drawn up, soles touching, and knees spread, so whole area between legs to anus is exposed. They used antibacterial soap to scrub waist to below scrotum, making fair amount if suds. Student started shaving top of pubic hair, using a double blade razor, frequently rinsing off the hair in a bowl of water. By and by she said, “I have to touch you,” meaning my penis. She had to move it around, stretch the skin to get all the hairs on the base. As I got an erection, she said, “That’s a normal reaction.” She shaved the whole scrotum and some of the leg on the left side. Nurse used washcloth to hold my penis out of the way. I experienced a considerable arousal and emotional reaction.

Last hernia operation on the other side, the prep was in the OR. While the scrub was from above the belly button to penis and scrotum, the shave didn’t include more than to base of penis. I commented on less prep. Nurse said the plastic drape glue seals off the area. This prep there was no arousal or emotional reaction.

Several years, I had a laparoscopic appendectomy. When I entered the OR, there had been no prep work completed. When I was anesthetized, I was still wearing a hospital gown and my underwear. When I awoke in the recovery room, my underwear was gone and I was wearing a different gown. I noted that my abdomen had been shaved from above my belly button to a line just above the base of my penis. In some respect, I feel that I was deprived the thrill of this shaving experience. I have no idea if it was a male or female that did it or if my penis was touched in any manner. I suspect that the anesthesia interfered with any erection that may have otherwise taken place.

I had an angiogram and acquired a stent in 2008, and that required access to the femoral artery in the groin. A female nurse used hair clippers to get rid of the groin hair. She covered the genitalia with a towel and pushed it all to the left to cut the hair at my right leg, then repeated that on the other side so the doc could then use either side for access. She then washed the areas on both sides and applied gauze pads medicated with lidocaine. They explained that they don't shave any more because they believed they had too many infections in the tiny skin cuts left from shaving. They just cut the hair short enough to allow cleansing. It wasn't too embarrassing, as the towel covered my genitalia pretty much the whole time.

In the cath lab, the doc decided to use the right side. As I recall, they covered me with a sheet and some warmed blankets because the keep the lab very cold for the equipment. The doc pushed the sheet, blanket and gown over enough to expose the insertion point, but kept the genitalia covered. I didn't feel the needle at all, but when he injected the lidocaine it felt like he had stung me with a hornet. Of course that subsided pretty quickly as the area went numb. This was the only anesthesia.

They worked through a sheath in the artery and then left that in place overnight. The next day they pulled out the sheath and another female nurse applied thumb pressure for about 20 minutes or so where the sheath had been through the skin.

There was nothing sexy about any of this, so no erection.

While not having been shaved by a female nurse, I have been shaved by a female esthetician. What an incredible experience! I was basically just looking for some guy grooming but the end result was wonderfully satisfying and very smooth!

While not having been shaved by a female nurse, I have been shaved by a female esthetician. What an incredible experience! I was basically just looking for some guy grooming but the end result was wonderfully satisfying and very smooth!

You should be WAXED by a female technician.

If they were going to speak, it MUST be in the language of the patient, which in the USA has to be English.

The US has no official language. Other countries like Belgium have official languages, but this pertains only to interacting with official administrations, ministries, public servants, police, postal workers etc. Otherwise people may speak whatever language they wish among themselves.

The US, having no official language at all, is thus even more in this situation. People are free to speak whatever they wish. It has probably been decided in one or another of the never-ending Supreme Court decisions somewhere along the line of history.

Besides, the US has some 63 million non-English speakers. That is around 20% of the population. More than Belgium has for instance. And being in the EU, we have workers, nurses too obviously, from many countries, Poland and Romania being especially represented. They are given training in Dutch of course for patient interaction, though most are better versed in English.

But if they wish to talk to a colleague in Polish or Arabic even or whatever, it's their choice. Whatever promotes the least misunderstandings. And honestly no one cares, as long as the treatments are up to standards.

I had to have my pubic area shaved once back in the 1970s for some surgery to remove a cyst on one of my testicles. A female nurse came in and gave me the prep enema, which was a Fleet Enema (my first time seeing one). She told me that a male orderly would be in to shave my pubic area. I would have much preferred to have a female nurse do it, but it didn't really bother me that a male did it, not even when he was holding my penis by the end and pulling it up to shave around the base.

I've also been catheterized once by a female nurse. She asked me if it would bother me to let her do it and if so she could get a male nurse to do it for me. I needed to go so bad and was in a lot of pain but couldn't get it started and go by myself because of the procedure they did on me that I didn't care who did it. So I told her it wouldn't bother me if it wouldn't bother her so she catheterized me. Once it was in and connected to the bag it was instant relief. Maybe I am somewhat of an exhibitionist, I don't know, but it doesn't bother me very much to be naked in front of doctors and nurses.

Personally I would prefer female nurses and CNAs to treat me. I guess I just grew up in the era when nurses were always female. I know male nurses an be just as good AND just as caring as any female nurse. I have seen that when my daughter was in the hospital and had a male nurse that she thought was the absolute best. And he was.

Someone above mentioned that they don't shave anymore because of infections in the little skin cuts from shaving. I had a daughter who had brain surgery to remove a benign meningioma. They opened her skull behind one of ears and they didn't shave her head. They just parted her hair where they wanted to cut and slathered a gel on the hair to hold it down and out of the way. After a week or so in the hospital, the first thing we had to do when she got out was go to a beauty shop on the way home to get her hair washed.

Why would you need an enema by a nurse to have a cyst removed from your testicle? I had to have an IVP and was told to take an enema myself prior to the procedure.

Not only did she remove my diaper and shave me, she married me a year later.

That was 42 years ago.

April 18 1980 I broke my back , was shaved by two young nurse's . as they finished up an older nurse came in and informed them that they were only supposed to shave my back from tailbone up .