I seem to be the only one here: I enjoy RT both as taker and receiver, but I don't like spanking, and I realised this recently.
I have allready posted about Déborah, who was my girlfriend for about ten years before she dumped me in May 2021.
I had never been spanked, neither as a child, nor as a lover, and I became convinced that it must be an erotic experiment. So, for years, I begged Déborah to give me, once and for all, a spanking. For a long time, she refused the Idea . She would answer: ‘’ Don't be stupid , we are not teenagers for this kind of game'' or ‘’ I am not your mother, mind you''. FollowIng my insistant requests, she eventually gave up and one day of november 2020, out of the blue, as she was taking my temperature on her lap, she told me: "If you want so much to be spanked, l offert you a deal: if you fuck me well on Christmas Eve, then on Christmas day, I give you a hell of a spanking, ok baby ?''. I was overjoyed and we no more spoke about the subjet.
On Christmas Eve, we had very good sex and Déborah seemed to enjoy it. So, when I woke up on Christmas day, I was like a child expecting his Santa Claus presents. As Deborah took my temperature on her lap, as she used to every morning, she said : ''Ok, you win, I enjoyed your fucking last nigth, so I will give you a spanking'', but she insisted it would be a one time thing and that she would never allow me to spank her.
So the spanking took place and very quickly I realised I did not get the erotic sensations I was expecting. On the contrary, l quickly found out Déborah's blows did hurt. I begged her to stop, but she refused. ‘’You wanted a spanking, you get à spanking,…you are supposed to be the man in our couple, show some courage''. She stopped only when her hands hurt from spanking.
I had problems sitting and walking for several days. We never talked about it any more. I felt a bit ridiculous.