Milking and Prostate Massage

Anyone ever had the privilege of being milked while getting anal stimulation:

https://www.xnxx.com/video-4d8g41/milking_and_prostate_massage_with_ejaculation

She knows how to jerk off a guy but she has NO IDEA how to milk or massage a prostate.

All she did was stick a finger or two in his ass.

Shouldn't her finger be pointed down toward the Prostate so she can massage it? I've had a lot of internal anal massage - but never been "milked".

Shouldn't her finger be pointed down toward the Prostate so she can massage it? I've had a lot of internal anal massage - but never been "milked".

The direction of force when massaging or milking the prostate is toward the anterior wall of the rectum. She just occasionally stuck a finger inside.

If your partner does what she did in the video, you have no idea how a good prostate massage can feel.

The best way to experience a great prostate massage is with insertion of the entire hand including the wrist. When this is accomplished, the fingers can also be directed further internally towards the seminal vesicles, which according to my husband beats a plain prostate massage any day of the week.

Google the anatomy of the male pelvis. You'll see.

Although she didn't massage the prostate internally through the rectum, she did massage it via the perenieum I have had this done and it is amazing. The subject did appear to have the multiple orgasms common to prostate massage which more closely resemble those of a female. Of course anything could have been faked however, it does not seem that it was in this video.

The difference between external and internal (REAL) direct prostate massage is night and day.

The difference is like comparing dog food with fillet mignon.

Susie is absolutely right. (As usual 😄)

Either way feels good in my opinion but if you aren't applying pressure in the right direction than you are missing out on a lot.

Interesting suggestion though. I have received many a prostate massage but only with a few fingers, never with the whole hand inside up to the wrist. I am now very intrigued and when I see my regular play partner next weekend I am going to oh so politely request that she try this out on me.

Thanks, Susie.

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See this post I made here about ten years ago on how to do a great prostate and seminal vesicle massage:

Have your boyfriend lie on his back. Straddle his legs so you are facing him or you can have his legs over yours, whichever is better for the two of you. Facing each other makes for a wonderful experience as you can see each others face when you do this. Lubricate your fingers and your boyfriend's anus, butt cheeks and rectum. Get the sphincter to relax and to accept one, then a second finger (three or four fingers are also good if you can insert them or you can even fist him which is by far the best). Hold your palm facing upward, and make the "come here" motion with with your index and middle fingers. If you can get your entire hand in, that's even better. You don't have to go in very far to reach the prostate. If you insert your fingers all the way (you don't have to jam them in and reach for his ribcage) and make a stroke with your fingers from an extended position, pulling forward to his inner anal ring, (you will feel it from the inside) you will have well covered his prostate and he will thank you for it! If you can get your entire hand inside, you can reach farther inside and massage the seminal vesicles. If you are masturbating him at the same time, try to time your penis strokes with the rectal/prostate/seminal vesicles strokes. They can be in sync with each other or alternating with each other. My husband likes it best when the forward stroke on the prostate coincides with the pull stroke on his penis. If you can get your entire hand, including the wrist inside, you will also be able to reach further inside and massage his seminal vesicles which my husband says feels even better than the prostate alone.

Make sure your nails are filed short and smooth. Have fun!

My wife (and I) both enjoyed anal fingering and toys. The last three years we played in the jacuzzi tub - I would get on all fours ands she would get four fingers in - never could get past the knuckles. While the anal stimulation was great, she just didn't get the prostate stimulation right. I saw a pro-domme one time who attempted a prostate massage - but it didn't work. Probably lack of technique, but she tried hard. I've tried some prostate toys (aeros etc) but none of them did much for me other than the anal penetration and stimulation. Closest I ever got was from a very thorough check from a urologist. About a full minute of probing the prostate. Got semi-hard and then he finished. I'll probably never get to enjoy a "milking" (sigh).

Yeah she didn't touch the prostate at all. Fingers were in the wrong direction. What she did could feel good, but it wasn't a prostate massage.

And, I know I am one, but guys (to me) look so stupid on their knees with balls and dick hanging down! Women in that position are just so smooth and streamlined, with much nicer curves!!

I understand that her finger position may not be totally correct, but guys, if you were in that position getting that done for you, I'm not so sure you'd really care at that point. And, apparently she did OK considering the outcome!

@Toyplayer--Your standards are too low.

There is much more to it than having an orgasm.

Once. It was a once-lived rare treat. More of an experimentation than anything else. I was uncomfortable at first; as was my partner. It was one of the best feelings I ever experienced. At first there was a lot of seeping. Then, she began a more vigorous rubbing of my shaft and a finger artfully (in my opinion) worked deep in my rectum. The resulting orgasm was mind blowing. Her comment was, "Well, that was different." I had a feeling it wouldn't happen again. And, regretfully, it hasn't.

I would love to be milked by someone with experience a nice prostate massage would be great ...... haven’t had the experience yet and can’t wait to try it

I would love to have this experience. It would be interesting to see how much precum I could generate

Definitely looks like an experience that is worth trying, just need to suggest it at the right moment.

Ohhh most definately want to experience that without a doubt

I think that's a creation of one of the Zity members.

Ohhh most definately want to experience that without a doubt

Actually you DON'T want to experience what this guy is having done.

The broad sticking her finger in his ass doesn't have a clue about what she is doing.

It could be so much better for the guy.

For me, the eye contact is important! Being on my back, completely naked, knees bent, legs spread and watching her face as she relaxes my sphincter and slowly enters me, searching for my prostate, will give me a powerful erection! Equally important are the words she whispers as she strokes my penis with one hand and applies pressure on my prostate. It isn't long before I'm squirting ejaculate out at her face!

@SwitchableSusie your are correct, my expectations are set low, somewhere around my anal area, LOL!

That being said, I am highly anticipatory of your correct "Instructional" clip on Milking.

I'm new to E4F, so Hi all. So many topics being covered here, but here goes. I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend since high school. We're both 22, still learning and trying new things. My girlfriend is much more open to experimentation, kinky to be honest. She's a nurse and is also into preventative health fads. Which brings me to the main topic, she's been asking me to let her massage my prostate. The last few months, during sex or just making out, she's tried to sneak a finger up my butt a couple times. I know it's just something women do sometimes out of sexual excitement, but I just wasn't ready for her to do that to me. But she actually asked me to let her do it the other night. I've been telling her I'll have to work up the nerve to let her do it, and I know I'll eventually have to let her do it to prove my trust in her. I'm not really embarrassed to have her finger inside me. What I'm worried about the most is....Is it going to hurt? I know she's a nurse, and she assured me it doesn't hurt, but I can't go off just that. I have a phobia of having something inserted rectally. And if she does manage to get her finger up my rear, what does it feel like to have your prostate touched or massaged. I've read other posts and most say it does feel extremely good, but only if it's done right. Otherwise, some say it feels like you have to pee really bad, or can actually be painful if she doesn't angle her finger just right. How far does she need to put it in, and what is the best position to be in to have it done? An article in Men's Health says an enema is a good idea beforehand, and I'm sure she'd know how to give me one. I'm probably going to let her give it a try on me Saturday when she's off work. I'm really nervous.

If she's a nurse, she'll probably be gentle. As long as her nails are trimmed and she uses plenty of lube, it shouldn't hurt at all. You'll probably find it quite pleasurable; most men do (but not as many admit it).

You may want to take a small enema beforehand, just for aesthetic purposes.

She will have to insert 1 finger almost all the way. Any position is fine, as long as she can curve her finger toward your belly button. Least intimidating may be on your back with legs flexed, though on your side with upper leg pulled forward may work, too. Many doctors prefer you to be standing, bent face down on a bed/table, for best access. Try any/all of them.

The actual prostate massage has different effects on different men and at different times, and may vary with her technique and level of pressure. Very common is an ejaculation without any other feelings of orgasm.

Try it; you'll probably like it...

Just relax and enjoy it! You will have the most incredible orgasm. The first time for me and the woman was really good. She was giving me head and just started to massage my anus. I relaxed so much that I didn't even feel her enter. She took her time and was gentle and opened me up. She was also talking very seductively which really helped. Long story short she had lots of baby oil on my junk. Richard and the "Twins" were well oiled as well as down under and she kept edging me. She had her middle and ring finger in me all the way, curled up and rubbing my gland. I didn't know it at the time, the two fingers that is, She was edging me and very good at it! When she finally left me cum, and I was really squirming and moaning and carrying on and I shot a load like you wouldn't believe! I swear it made an audible slap as it hit my chest. Anyway! after that I was sold and there is nothing like some anal stimulation during head or a good hand job. After that episode she mentioned it might be a good idea if she gave me an enema first. I was mortified that she had been playing in my poop, but she assured me I was clean but that might not always be the case. She told me it wouldn't be like any enema that mom gave and boy was she right! I've been anally erotic ever since! lol. Just relax and trust your partner, especially since she is a nurse. I'm sure if you tell her to stop she will respect you. Enjoy yourself and don't be afraid to experiment with this special woman! You do not know what you might be missing out on!

PS. Just because you like your bumm played with doesn't mean that you have homosexual feelings. So if that is a fear get it out of your head and enjoy

Enemazed, the last person you probably want giving you advise on prostate massage is a female, but I'm going to give you my two cents worth. I think prostate massage is a must for any relationship to really flourish. It's so healthy for men to have this done. I'm also a nurse, and yes I give my husband a prostate massage on a regular basis. It's one of the most blissful, mind blowing sensations a man will ever experience, both physically and emotionally. First order of business for you is to relax. I know you're young and still trying things with your girlfriend, but consider yourself lucky you've been given a chance to have this done to you at such a young age. Since your girlfriend is a nurse, and if she's been trained like myself, she'll know how to perform a gentle digital insertion of the rectum. She'll use lubrication to minimize any discomfort. In med school, we were trained to place the pad of the index finger against the anus for several seconds before inserting into the patient's rectum. She'll likely do this for you, and will enter you only when you're ready. As for positioning, my husband seems to like the left sims position the best. It's also the best position for receiving enemas, as you'll probably want to have her give you one before anal play, for cleanliness. With the left sims position, you'll lie on your left side with the left leg almost straight to slightly flexed, and the right knee flexed forward, parallel with your hip. This will relax your pelvic floor, and will give your girlfriend easy access to your rectum and perineum. Other men prefer laying on their back with legs pulled toward their chest, or just bend over on the hands and knees usually works okay. Either one you use, you'll both want to be comfortable and give her full access to your body. When inserting her finger, the depth she puts it in will depend on your anatomy. Some men get intensely stimulated with just a fingertip inside the anus, while others require a fairly deep insertion to hit the right spot. My husband's "sweet spot" is about two inches in, about the second knuckle of my index and middle finger....I use two fingers. One of the biggest mistakes women make when massaging a man's prostate for the first time is what she does with the prostate when she first finds it. The greatest mistake is to accidentally poke him with the fingertip. That's going to hurt him, because he's sensitive there. The best technique is to use the pad of the finger to gently caress the prostate and start milking in a come hither movement. The pad of the finger is soft, but will feel amazing on all those thousands of nerve endings around the prostate and anal cavity. She needs to cover as much area of the gland as possible to create the most pleasure and get the best health/drainage benefit. As the milking becomes more vigorous, so will the pleasure increase, and there will be clear fluid coming out of your penis. It's prostatic fluid being drained out, and it's healthy for men who are less sexually active to get the gland drained periodically. You may indeed feel the sensation of having to pee at first, but it will pass. Stimulation of your penis will compound the pleasure until you have an intense orgasm. It's common for men to actually cry out in ecstasy, or get in a euphoric state, during a great prostate massage. So you have a lot to look forward to.

Perfect description Nurse Nikki. Your husband is quite fortunate.

Enemazed, one of the things I forgot to mention a little more clearly is the enema. I strongly suggest you have her give you one for cleanliness sake as I mentioned earlier. But in doing so, it's best to have a high volume cleansing enema, not just a store bought Fleet enema. Your girlfriend my be well aware of this, but Fleet enemas are too small a volume to have much cleansing effect. A two quart enema with a hot water kit from the drugstore will work just fine. And it's best to have the enema a couple hours before your prostate massage, which will help your body absorb any residual water. You'll also probably realize the enema can help you relax before your prostate stimulation. Hope you experience fun and pleasure in all this.

Thanks for the advise and encouragement musicman, intruder, and especially you Nikki. Don't take this as an insult, but you have a few years on me, with a Chapel Hill nursing degree. I'm intimidated, yet comforted by your knowledge and experience. You've no doubt mastered prostate massage, and your advise is mother like LOL, if that's a good way of putting it. I feel a little more confident about letting my girlfriend do this, now that I've heard from real experience.

...she's been asking me to let her massage my prostate.

Dude, you just hit the jackpot. She's a nurse (an absolute rarity here on Zity, wink wink...) so there's no way she'll hurt you; quite the opposite in fact. Relax, enjoy, and even if you don't like it the first time, well, you might just have to try it again. And again. And again. Because, you know, prostate health is really important, so you can't be too careful, right?

And take it from a 50+yo old guy; if she'll massage your prostate, she'll do anything. But you knew that already...

Oh, to be young again...

Milked a long time ago, twas wonderful. Current wife is unfortunately not into doing prostate massage more is the pity. I'm actually looking forward to my next physical as my internist has a great touch. When I was in Nursing School in the 60s I worked as a tech for a uro clinic and the female urologist was great at Prostate massage. Wish she was still around, I only had one experience with her but it was fabulous.