Truly Dominant Women

I am wondering why we so seldom hear from women here who openly identify their interest in dominating, punishing, controlling, and chastising a sexually masochistic men like me. (Though I am truly a Switch, I am at a time in my life where I am emphasizing this submissive side of me.) I tend to be an Alpha Slave, and enjoy hearing from and "friending" people into this scene from all over the world.

I am wondering why we so seldom hear from women here who openly identify their interest in dominating, punishing, controlling, and chastising a sexually masochistic men like me.

Slave C there are a few vocal Dommes on the forum. I'm sure you will hear from them, just wait.

I would love to hear from a truly Dominant woman

Me too.

Probably because we have enough subby men chirping and texting and sessioning with us .... specifically men that want ME to fulfill their fetish whims to the degree it's not necessary to join sites to read and promote themselves to online subbys because we would be overwhelmed by the volume of messages in our inbox. So to avoid that we lurk in these platforms reading we want without engaging a shit ton of messages that we cant answer nor do we want too because I have a life beyond chatting with unknows on fetish site. If you wanted the truth.. if you wanted the fantasy reason ... ummm Idk most online fetish sites are filled with findom or scammers .... this platform is heavily moderated to keep the community on track and that takes most the scammer and findom types outa the site. What you have left is women who are very much into this kink and fetish but there are way less females than one would think so have the odd balance of subby girls and Dominant men. Nothing new in the scheme of fetishes, bdsm, and kink communities.

Ms Noir

Probably because we have enough subby men chirping and texting and sessioning with us .... specifically men that want ME to fulfill their fetish whims to the degree it's not necessary to join sites to read ...

Ms Noir

I could not agree more. Very active FemDomme here in a very large Central Florida local kink community for the past 10 years. The amount DMs we receive from keyboard warriors regurgitaing THEIR sexual fantasies is absurd. Do me, do me. They do this without even looking at what kinks i am into, nor if i am looking for a play partner. They also do not ever mention what they have to offer. Because you must bring something to the table as well.

In real life I play with about 7 or 8 men and women as a top/ FemDomme because our kinks align and bottom for about 2 people.

Just today i received and DM here where gentlemen told me (non-consentually, without my asking for it ) a very detailed scenario or fantasy he had or has. I gave ZERO indication that i wanted to read his fantasy or whatever.

And I have zero interest in these types of conversations at all, unless i know you and we have had many conversations and we both agree to discuss this type of subject.

Hope this helps to clarify your curiosity.

Turkey.

I am switch but have shifted more on the dominant side since my cancer. I agree with what all the previous women have discussed. I am more interested in live play with the people that I do know. Online stuff just doesn’t do anything for me. I want to see your bottom turn pink. I want to hear and feel the slap of my hand on your bottom. I want to feel your warm bottom on my hand. Online play allows people to hide behind their computer and they don’t come out for live play. The size of Texas keeps us far apart.

Maybe you aren't hearing much from these dominant women because they know many supposed submissive men can not really handle being dominated.