While I currently - am available to four men to fuck, I consider myself EXTREMELY selective with those men. I don't consider fucking them - as being solely for the purpose entertainment or recreation, and my choice to have these men, or grant these men, this closeness that sex is to me at this time in my life is done with no small amount of soul searching on my part. It is somewhat complicated - and not always based on noble or righteous reasons, or because of good choices I made in my past, the fact is, this is me now. No fucking apologies - not one.
How I got here - is partly because of a combination of my lack of communication with my husband in the past and the presence of communication with my husband as we are now. I've always been - extremely selective about the men I fuck, even if my reason was not that pure, and it did have elements of entertainment and recreation as part of my decision to fuck them.
Had I been able - to communicate better in the past, or make better choices, I may not be on my third marriage to a wonderful guy. πΉ Had I been - more open, or listened to my first and greatest role-model, my Mom, I may have found that one guy that @Amethyst has found, as others here have, or Mom & I had the kind of communication that @SwitchableSusie has and the openess she has with her daughters. Or picked the right guy - and then evolved with him to find something to keep the spark alive like @Ms_Lila after many years with the same guy and actually communicating with him about what they wanted to do. Or maybe - find out early on in my marriage - like @Dahiana and get my love life back on track and reset my priorities, but with more diplomacy. π
But ladies and gentlemen - that shit didn't happen in my life, it was a helluva rocky road getting here. I'm here - and I like being here and it started with me figuring out what I wanted, and how to communicate (the 'C' word!) that to my husband. I'm here because - Tom & I have decided it is what we want at this point in our life. It could change - and when and if it does, I may be back to a one man woman, but I will not hold my snoot up in the air and sniff with an air of superiority towards any woman, or man, who is trying to FIRST find out what they are, who they are, and if that suits themselves, first and foremost.
The original question - ' FEMALES how many different guys have cum in you in one day?' and one I answered as being four guys. Judgmental comments - and replies, not withstanding.