Douche nozzle questions

I'm going to have an opportunity to give my BF an enema using an old-fashioned bag syringe kit. To add a little kinkiness I'm thinking of using the black curved douche tip. How far up the rectum should the little side holes go and is more bag height needed for the spray to work?

Stick it in until it tickles his throat!

OK, seriously, at least four inches is good for a novice.

Set the bag at about three feet. you can always slow down the flow if you need to. Three feet is a good height to insure feces in the rectum won't prevent the solution from flowing.

Once he accustomed to enemas, you can raise the bag to five or six feet of you like.

Hi - Long time - if your BF does not like it, I will be a willing substitute! 😃

Cheers

You sound like a good GF! As you probably already know, the best way to a man's heart is through his ass!

By all means, use the douche fitting, and tell him your giving him an anal douche to bring out his feminine side. Once the nozzle is inside and you've released some of the water, try rotating it gently and slowly to stimulate his prostate, and "talk dirty" to him. He will find the gentle pressure and warm water on his prostate is quite pleasant. If he gets an erection, make him ejaculate as a male orgasm while getting an enema is quite intense.

The half length may be the truest size, but the much important thing is to move it in and out slowly, so you can at the end put all in, for the pressure, at the start it must to be minimal or the stimulus can be unbearable.

If using a standard kit I always use the douche nozzle. Susie says tickle his eyeballs with it but anything past the tip will work. Once you get past the sphincter it will stay in. I prefer to use a barium nozzle when I give with a 1 inch diameter. Lube them up good with a finger then slowly insert while twisting. Once you get it in, I like to pull it back so it is snug against the inside. Then let it fly and it isn't going anywhere but in.

I on't really recommend using it at all!

Look around the web and find a 5-inch long nozzle that will fit your bag. You can get either rigid, straight or flexible.

If you use a douche nozzle which was basically made to pass water with vinegar an salt or Massengill or Betadine douche, you WILL have problem with the holes getting clogged with poop, and the ONLY thing that will clear them is a sewing needle made to sew upholstery or similar heavy fabric. You will have to tick it in, take it out open the holes and stick it in again. The hose simply in't long enough to generate the pressure you would need to clear it!!

No two ways about it!!!

As far a how high to hang it, I have always found 3 ft above the rectum to be a good height That generates a flow of about a quart per minute, which is just about what you want. The vaginal nozzle has small holes so it might flow slower and you will have to compensate.water forwards

As far as how far to insert it, if I'm not prepared to insert the chosen nozzle ALL THE WAY I'm looking for a shorter nozzle Maybe that' just ME! If you REALLY ARE pointed at the navel, it WILL go in 6 inches or more

Another difference between the rectum and the vagina is that an enema is retained for some number of minute so the flexing of the involuntary muscles actually propagates the fluid through the rectum, so it's best to just shoot the water straight out, and let the muscles of the intestine take care of where it goes with the vagina it is hard enough to hold it closed long enough to thoroughly flex those voluntary muscles anyway, so spraying it out in a circle is more important

In the big picture, bet to use a nozzle purpose-built for what you are doing. Remember that in an enema, the nozzle is the part that is going inside you. A good enema starts with the right nozzle

Great post Lisa.

I agree with EnemaAndIvory - really good insight into choosing a nozzle.

Thanks LisaK & everyone for info!

I suggest you get a Higgenson syringe and attach a douche nozzle to it, then insert the nozzle just far enough inside the anus so that the enema doesn't flow out. Start squeezing the bulb and the feeling of the water squirting out the side holes and into the rectum is incredible and unforgettable. For me it is often enough to make me ejaculate as my girlfriend fills me up.

Get a cheap barium style nozzle of the net. Usually it is my go to nozzle when flying solo when I don't feel like using the balloon nozzle.

It has been many years since I have purchased enema gear. Most of what I have came from the trash bin or was designed for some other purpose. So it is with enema nozzles. My latest nozzle came from a dollar douche bottle because it contained the nozzle that I needed. This was an easy modification because it required that I discard the four ounce bottle and contents. The nozzle, or "vaginal pipe," in the pack had a bottle cap/collar attached which I removed by cutting and forcing it from the neck of the nozzle . The next and final move was to slip the open end of the pipe into the enema tube, lube it up and slip it home for my enema. I found this pipe to be a bit short but it gives a good enema.

I don't know about douching but I do know about enemas because an enema a day keeps the doctor away!

Have used the douche nozzle in the past - works better than the typical enema nozzle as it sprays the wall as well. Can go as deep as you want with lube and comfort!

I have used he douche nozzle several years now and would rate it number one nozzle..Have used others but like the douche nozzle best.

Douche nozzles have always been my choice over the smaller enema pipe. I have several types of douche nozzles and each has it's advantage. Initially, I choose a curved, black, fluted douche nozzle but over the years I have purchased a variety of douche type nozzles, including some oversized models and those with the bulbous head.

I always thought the douche nozzle looked more scary as a kid, but they are more effective to administer the enema. Length for a deeper insertion, they stay in place a little better rather than a straight small diameter pipe enema pipe and less likely to get blocked up because of the multiple holes.

I have a large collection of pipes today, but when I am giving, I generally use the traditional douche pipe. On the receiving end when doing myself alone I use the douche nozzle but if someone is giving me the enema, I allow them to choose.

My ex-wife and I never used -- or on her part, even considered using, as far as I know -- the douche nozzle. The ones I've seen are bud-shaped, for lack of a better way to describe them. Maybe fluted would be a better choice, like a twist drill, only with straight flutes. The same went for a nurse-girlfriend I played with after divorcing the "ex".

Then, some years ago, I connected with a retired man whose "thing" is giving other men enemas (yes, I found him on Craigslist). His nozzle of choice is the douche variety of which we speak. I never found it comfortable going in -- in fact, it could be downright irritating until the sphincter had been breached. He's a bit ham-handed -- I know he's not conscientious about aligning any nozzle with the angle of the anus before applying pressure. But I suspect the shape of the nozzle has something to do with the discomfort, as well: it . "asks" the anus to conform to a multitude of shapes as it goes in -- not simply circular dilation, but riding the peaks and conforming to the troughs of four flutes. A simple test of the appropriateness of the fluted nozzle for enema-giving might be a quick survey of the nozzles that are original equipment, plus the aftermarket offerings: the profiles varies widely, as do diameters -- but I've not seen a fluted nozzle labeled for enema use. As for the location of the holes, which are intended to wash the walls of the vagina, I can't say I've noticed any difference in effectiveness between them and the conventional enema nozzle, which shoots a single stream forward. The combined flow capacity of the holes in a douche nozzle may be greater than the single hole of a conventional enema nozzle, so lower, not higher, bag height might be called for to get the rate of injection in the optimum range for bowel acclimation. If you're thinking that the douche nozzle holes might be covered by the walls of the rectum, I wouldn't worry -- the flutes are apparently there to provide space between the holes and surrounding tissue. Also, the solution needn't be shot into the rectum at high velocity to be effective -- we're not jetting clogged drains here. That becomes apparent when you consider that clinically recommended bag height, as I've seen it, is only 16" to 24" above the anus; similarly, the instructions that came with bulb syringes, when they were a common sight on the druggists' shelves, said "squeeze with only moderate pressure".

You're fortunate to have a boyfriend who, I get the impression, is not enema-savvy, but is trusting enough to allow you to try something new on him. If he's not acquainted with the "procedure" and its many pleasures, why heighten any initial reservations he may have by inserting something that might be less than comfortable? I'd recommend staying with the ordinary enema nozzle for starters, well-lubricated and slid in gently. Follow that with slow administering and lots of verbal assurance that he's in good hands. Done right, there'll be plenty of new sensations going on in him without making him flinch by tweaking his sphincter!

Give him cock pleadire and the enema at the same time

I always use the douche nozzle if I give myself a bag enema. It stays in much better without me having to hold it

If i am taking 1 enema or i will be doing a series of enemas ,i will always start off with the douche nozzle .the feeling of insertion is wonderful ,it doesnt slip out,and the solution spraying out when fully inserted for me is just the best

Agree 100% with @BulbBoy25 and @brewske10

Knowing the nozzle is deep & secure lets me fully relax and enjoy my enemas more than having to focus on clenching / squeezing. I find removing the longer douche nozzle is actually easier and more comfortable, too.

I really like using a douche nozzle. The feel as it slides into place, depth of insertion and the "spray" of the water helps intensify the experience. I'd really like to find one of the old fashioned bulb tipped one sometime. The one I use came with an old BF Goodrich bag and is curved black bakelite.

Several things about douche nozzles:

On the material, the black nozzles common from 1880 to roughly 1970 were not usually made of Bakelite, but rather hard rubber. The douche nozzles are often curved, but the curve can be changed by putting them in boiling water for a few minutes then bending them gently while hot. Careful not to burn yourself.

The newer white nozzles (1970 on) are made of something like nylon.

If you have a nozzle with poo clogged holes, it can easily be cleaned by putting the nozzle into a bleach solution, about 1 part bleach to 4 parts water, and leave it to soak a while, swishing occasionally. The bleach will completely destroy the poo. If this is done with the older black nozzles, the surface finish may deteriorate, but can easily be restored by polishing with a cloth while still wet.

IMO, using a douche nozzle (the fluted kind) for enemas has pros and cons. The pros are that the multiplicity of water holes, so the nozzle will not completely clog with poo, even if inserted into poo. Also, the larger sized head helps with retention.

On the down side, the grooves between the flutes are channels through which the enema water can flow during withdrawal. This is actually a plus when used for it's intended purpose. To prevent this leakage, the douche nozzle should be gently inserted rectally pretty much its whole length.

There are other styles of vintage douche nozzles. Perhaps the most interesting is the 'olive tip' balloon spray design as supplied with the more expensive bags, like the Davol Petal, of the 1950s.

If you have a nozzle with poo clogged holes, it can easily be cleaned by putting the nozzle into a bleach solution, about 1 part bleach to 4 parts water, and leave it to soak a while, swishing occasionally.

The bleach is fine for cleaning, but if there is a clog, using a tooth pick or similar object like 8 inch long bamboo skewers like I use for serving six olives with a Bloody Mary or big Martini works instantly to clear clogged holes. Clearing a clog isn't rocket science.

I use vaginal nozzles routinely, but ALWAYs precede them with an 8 oz. bulb syringe of water to empty out the feces in the rectum. That keeps the holes in the vaginal nozzle from clogging.

Many years ago in a Penthouse Forum magazine I read a letter from a man who called himself Professor Clyster. He said that the douche nozzle was much better for giving or taking enemas. The side holes allowed the flow to be like a fountain filling the enema recipient as opposed the other nozzle feeling like a fire hose. I had never considered using the douche nozzle that came with my enema bag until that time. I have even enlarged the holes in the nozzle to try and increase the intensity of receiving an enema from it. I would like to try an inflatable nozzle but for me they are cost prohibitive.

Seeing the enema bag hanging in the bathroom with a large black douche nozzle prompted me to ask my mother about it when I young and she told me it was an adult enema nozzle. I guess she did not want to explain douching, or perhaps she really did use it for her enemas as I believe she was addicted to them.... but the shock and awe of believing that this large nozzle would eventually be used on me created a fascination at remains till this day with douche as enema nozzles.

I'm not a doctor nor did I stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night but I don't see any damage that you could do by using a vaginal nozzle. I use what many refer to as a barium nozzle. It's about the same length and width as a vaginal nozzle. The many differences are the shape, it has a bulbous tip and flexibility as it is semi-flexible.

What I would caution you not to do is don't use the vaginal nozzle for douching without first sterilizing the nozzle. It's easy to pick up an infection from a dirty vaginal nozzle.

What I would recommend that you do is buy a nozzle for the net for enemas and one for douching. Nozzles are relatively inexpensive.

I always use a douche nozzle. It stays in better and the side holes spray on my prostate! 😉

In my early years it was understood that the straight nozzle was for enemas and the long curved one was for douching. Then after I was married I started a new job that had some occasional travel. Before one trip that I would be taking alone, I treated myself to a new enema bag to take along anticipating some alone time in the hotel room at night. I bought myself a Faultless Folding syringe. The bright yellow latex bag came with a plastic pouch that packed very nice. That evening as I prepared for some private relaxation, I discovered that syringe only had a douche nozzle. No problem. I liked it, and the douche nozzle became my regular nozzle for enemas.