Getting a spanking that you did not think you deserved

My last spanking I really did not think I deserved! We were out to dinner with 5 other couples, in NYC at a fairly expensive restaurant. Each course was not what it should be, i.e. fried mashed potatoes are not Gnocchi! When it came time to order our desert, I adamantly told the waiter that I wanted a double espresso with a lemon peel, Sambuca on the side with coffee beans in the sambucca, if you can not do this I do not want anything. The next day my wife gave me a painful bath brush spanking for the way I talked to the waiter. Do you think my spanking was deserved?

One does not talk in a disrespectful manner to the person who can spit or do worse in your food.

You did deserve your spanking even if you didn't know why.

If you didn't like the food or service, DON'T leave a tip and leave a note saying why on the restaurant bill. The manager or Maitre D will see the note and the bad waiter or chef will get what's coming to him. You can also make your statement to the host or Maitre D as you leave the premises.

By the way, DO NOT have them put coffee beans in Opal Nera. I ordered sambucca after dinner one time and they put coffee beans in it and I almost choked. For those who don't know, Opal Nera is a black sambucca so you can't see the beans, which is very bad if you aren't expecting beans to be in there.

Don’t we all think at one time or another we got our asses spanked and didn’t think we deserved it,but if you really think about we most likely did deserve it....and you probably did deserve yours for speaking the way you did there are other more polite ways to get your message across

Obviously if your wife gave you a spanking, you deserved it. She must have felt that you were out of place to speak to the waiter as you did and if she is in a position where she tells you when and how you are to get a spanking, you need to respect her ability to punish you. Did you learn your lesson?

If you got a spanking then there was likely a good reason for it. You might not be able see the reasons for why people do the things they do but there is always a reason for it.

Yes Ma’am!

You very obviously deserved that ass busting. I hope she uses the half swat method of counting the strokes when she applies the bath brush. When spanks you with that she can only hit one cheek at a time, so that is only half a swat. If you are sentenced to 100 swats then to get full across both cheeks paddling it should be

100 on each cheek for a total of 200 half swats.

I hope your ass was blistered for being so unkind to the poor waiter.

She should give another hard bath brushing for whining about it.

Rob

U deserved the sore rear end for speaking out in front of the others at dinner. Your wife was not pleased with your remarks and you embarrassed her and her took it out on your ass. You are very lucky she did not take you away from the table and give you a blistering session right there.

When I was 16; I was falsely accused of accidentally breaking a neighbor’s window. My dad wanted me to confess that I did it. I told him I didn’t do it but he did not believe me. He said accidents happen but not to lie about it. He spanked me OTK bare with a bath brush in front of my brother and mom. Later on he found out that I was actually telling the truth.

When I was 16; I was falsely accused of accidentally breaking a neighbor’s window. My dad wanted me to confess that I did it. I told him I didn’t do it but he did not believe me. He said accidents happen but not to lie about it. He spanked me OTK bare with a bath brush in front of my brother and mom. Later on he found out that I was actually telling the truth.

So, when he found out the truth that you were innocent after all, what did he do? Make amends, offer apologies maybe? Not only to you but maybe also set the record straight to your brother and mother? To the neighbors? Did he perhaps let you give him a naked walloping with a bath brush?

After all, that would have been only fair, tit for tat and all that ...

My dad did not apologize. He said that this would count for any future spanking I would get. It was very embarrassing to be spanked bare in front of my family.

I was spanked as a child for things that my stepbrother did. One time in particular was at a public swimming pool. I was only 7, but I was an advanced swimmer, and I swam into the deep end of the pool. The lifeguard told me I couldn't be there without an adult present, so I went back to the shallow end. My stepbrother found me later and asked why I wasn't in the deep end. When I told him that I didn't have an adult chaperone, he said that he would go with me. I went and was promptly kicked out of the pool. I got mad at my stepbrother, and my dad spanked me right then and there. He brought me home, spanked me again, threw me in the shower, and I spent the rest of the afternoon, sitting against a wall. I remember my stepmother saying something snide about my actions, as well.

I was a good kid, so I was only spanked a handful of times. The others I don't remember as well, so I probably deserved those.

My dad did not apologize. He said that this would count for any future spanking I would get. It was very embarrassing to be spanked bare in front of my family.

Ah, and parents are supposed to set a shining example for their children. Instead it's swept under the proverbial rug to avoid parental embarrassment.

I was the oldest of 3 kids close in age. When all 3 of us were in trouble we would be told to line up and get our pants down. It was usually youngest to oldest for our turns but if someone was more responsible they went last and got a slightly longer one. I can remember standing in line with pants and underpants at my ankles waiting to shuffle forward and bend over the waiting lap. It seemed easier to take a spanking when it was all three of us compared to being the only one and having others hearing or seeing it happen. At the time I thought it was fair because it was never real clear who started it and at least they didn't believe the one that tried to blame the others. I remember flinching as it started and even holding my own bottom in sympathy as I waited for my turn. there be times when 1 us did something and other didnt but because they didnt tell the truth all 3 got it.

As a kid if one of us picked an argument we all got spanked just the same and I always thought that was unfair since sister usually started them. At least she got a spankings too.

Earliest memory on this subject was when i was only 5. my sister was 3. my parents were visiting the downstairs neighbors and i was told to watch my sister. they came back upstairs and my sister was no where to be found for quite a while. finally it was discovered that she had fallen asleep between the mattress of her bed and the bedroom wall. so, naturally, like EVERTHING else on earth it was MY fault in the eyes of my moronic father and he beat me with the belt and even beat my little sister with the belt too! for falling asleep??? YEAH!

he was an ignorant, abusive and literally a son of a bitch. his mother was criminally abusive to him while he was growing up. so naturally, when he had kids he could finally be the abuser instead of the abused.

this is just one of the lesser moments of his insanity. my mother was even worse.

the other time was when we were older and the 4 of us asked this old lady down the road if we could have some of her grapes in her back yard. she gave us permission then the senile old bitch called our parents and claimed we were stealing her grapes. all 4 of us tried to tell him we had permission from her but the all 4 of us got beaten with the belt.

I was once spanked because the school called my mother to tell her that I was being suspended for bad behaviour on a school trip. They contacted her the next day to say there had been an error and my name shouldn't have been on the list, but it was too late for me at that point.

I was once spanked because the school called my mother to tell her that I was being suspended for bad behaviour on a school trip. They contacted her the next day to say there had been an error and my name shouldn't have been on the list, but it was too late for me at that point.

You should have been permitted to give some swats back to whichever scatter-brained teacher erroneously denounced you.

Did you even get an apology from either parents or school? I rather bet not from both.

Did you even get an apology from either parents or school? I rather bet not from both.

No apology to me, but the school apologised to my mother for inconveniencing her!

My mother once went half overboard because the school had erroneously told her I had missed a class. Parents should learn to take what schools say with a grain of salt and not start imagining things.

No apology to me, but the school apologised to my mother for inconveniencing her!

That's priceless. Someone should use this in a black comedy about childhood ... 😈

Immatureboy: Did your mother apologize to you?

Did your mother apologize to you?

No, she said what was done was done.

That's priceless. Someone should use this in a black comedy about childhood ... 😈

Yes, has only taken me a quarter of a century to see the funny side lol

No, she said what was done was done.

Saying: 'what was done was done' takes more words than saying: 'I'm sorry' ...

Is it any wonder why some kids learn the concept of hypocrisy very early in life and don't trust adults?

Is it any wonder why some kids learn the concept of hypocrisy very early in life and don't trust adults?

It was a perfect lesson in it. "What's done is done" was never a justifiable excuse for any of my misdeeds.

I remember being silly with my parents and enjoying the attention when they told me to go to my room and get ready for bed. I stalled a bit because I was really enjoying being with them when my dad gave me a swat on my bottom and told me to get going. I made the mistake of teasingly saying “That didn’t even hurt!” as I walked out of the room. Upon hearing that my dad grabbed me, pulled down my panties, and put me over his knee for a bare bottom spanking! He said, I’ll give you something that’ll hurt” and boy did it! I found it to be entirely unfair since I was on my way out to do what I was told!

A girlfriend once spanked me, we'd been out together a few times and one night, she had been flirting with me all night, then said I could go back hers. As soon as we got in, I grabbed her and started to kiss her and she kissed me back. I started to take my pants down with one hand, while lifting her skirt with the other, as I kissed her. I felt her stiffen a bit but continued, but when my pants fell around my ankles, she grabbed the wrist of the hand up her skirt and pulled me towards a chair. I was stumbling over my pants and didn't know what was happening. She guided me stumbling, as she sat down, right across her knee. She pulled my undies down and spanked my bare bottom really hard for a few minutes. She took me to bed and said: "It's my time of the month, so be quiet because I want to sleep." I snuggled up to her but did not sleep at all, my bum was so sore! But I kept quiet, as I didn't want to wake her up, for fear of another spanking. I didn't think I deserved the spanking she gave me, but didn't make an argument about it when she woke in the morning. We got on fine after that though, I really fancied her and we're still friends now after we split up.

My much older sister-in-law used to spank me, often unfairly, when I was growing up. It was mostly bare bottom with corner time afterwards. Her hard spankings always made me cry.

To be truthful, i probably deserved a lot more spankings that the stunts I pulled off.

My stepfather was always spanking me for something or the other. Given everything he would spank me for, I don't think I ever got a spanking that I shouldn't have, but I do feeel I got a heavier/harsher spanking than my stepbrother even when we were being punished for the same offense.