Is it me or is the worst part undressing at a Physical?

It is one of the worst but for the same reason is one of the most exciting 😃 As a child when on the examination table, I dreaded the part when the doctor assistant removed my underwear. After that everyone in the room started to gaze to my privates and it was so embarassing for me.

Undressing is one of the best parts for me even in a real exam even though it does kind of scare me. That’s what I like about it so much how I tense up and get kind of scared really feels good for me mentally. The worst part for me is the doctor looking in my ear they always go to far in and it hurts.

I agree with the previous poster, exposing yourself to the doctor is the best part because it's scary

For those of us that engage in play exams, undressing may be one of the best parts of the exam, whether one feels vulnerable and embarrassed or just enjoys the exposure.

For me, between 12 to 16 yrs., I always dreaded or disliked getting undressed at the doctors. First, already being nervous & self-conscious, the nurse would tell me “ 0k, strip everything off but your underwear”. Normally, an audience of 3 my mom & sister and always the nurse were in the exam room. The nurse would take vitals once I was undressed to underwear. Then anticipation of the genital exam which my doctor did two different ways. Either he would ask me to lift my butt up and pull them down to my knees while I’m laying on the table. But more likely, he’d have me stand and himself would pull my underwear down letting them fall to the floor.

Beginning in college, it no longer brothered me to undress at the doctors. Actually, for various reasons (5 yrs) I was required to have several physicals. The majority of the time it was the first ever being examined by that doctor. The anticipation of not knowing until the door opened if the doctor was male, female, young or older. I guess there was a sense of excitement while waiting for the doctor only with my underwear on.

Actually, for various reasons (5 yrs) I was required to have several physicals. The majority of the time it was the first ever being examined by that doctor. The anticipation of not knowing until the door opened if the doctor was male, female, young or older. I guess there was a sense of excitement while waiting for the doctor only with my underwear on.

All of my physicals since I graduated from college have been done by doctors who have never examined me before and were completely unknown to me. I have typically known the gender of the doctor but not his or her age. I agree with you that having a total stranger examining you is very anxiety producing. You strip down in an exam room which you have never seen in a strange office setting makes the undressing really stressful. You also have no idea how thorough the examination will be which is another fuel for anxiety. You will probably have to wait through almost the entire exam before you find out if the doctor will see and examine the genitalia and rectum since those parts are almost always done at the end. Another point I have thought about with a strange doctor is that you have no idea how thorough the exam will be, but the doctor knows before entering the exam room. The patient is kept in the dark until the instructions begin.

It’s interesting because all my doctors that I remember from about age 6 on, never had me strip down or anything and only took off what they were examining at the time. I.e. when they come in and started I would take my shirt off. When it was time for the hernia exam that is when my pants and underwear come down. Never had to sit with everything off!

It is sure that the fact that we cannot know in a medical center when it is the first time if the doctor would be male or female, young or old,nice or authoritarian was a source of excitement while waiting before being called to go to the doctor office.

"Surfboard" you have not said why your sister was present when you had an examination by a doctor between 12 and 16 age, the presence of your mother was not comfortable but plausible but why your sister?

"Surfboard" you have not said why your sister was present when you had an examination by a doctor between 12 and 16 age, the presence of your mother was not comfortable but plausible but why your sister?

Normally, we both needed physicals and the pediatrician office always schedule a double appointment. I don’t know why when we reached a certain age we were not give two different rooms. Both being present was not a problem when I was younger but the beginning of puberty made me uncomfortable. I plainly disliked being undressed, my underwear down with our doctor examining & commenting on changes to my penis, testicles an my hernia exam. After I was done, I had to wait in the waiting until my sister exam was complete

The undressing part can be a bit nervy. We all undress at gym and similar situations but it's the being told to undress and the fact that you are either in underwear or naked.with somebody's full attention aware that their eyes are focussed on you and you alone whilst they protect their modesty with clothing.

It only bothered me when I was young because it was just an open room and no gown. I would have to be down to my panties. Our family was very strict so at home, we were always in something. We never saw our parents nude either. We had to argue with mom and dad just to get a bikini. So at the doctor which was once a year undressing was the worst. But once I was old enough to move to the next room at the doctors which had a booth to undress in and a gown to put on I didn't mind for some reason.

That's not comfortable for me too, though I love all the embarrassment involved.

The whole situation of having to undress in front of someone fully clothed while being watched during the process can be a bit problematic to some people.

My least favorite part of a physical is when the nurse gives you that stupid gown to put on, when you know its just going to end up coming off once the doc comes in. Half the time I never put it on.

Undressing to one's underwear seems to hold the majority on this topic. I can understand the vulnerability, the loss of control and what not. I felt that way as a younger person myself. I have moved on a few years (OK maybe several years) and that particular anxiety has lessened to some degree. Now I tend to worry my doctor might give me some bad news at some point but so far so good. Thank god.

I agree,getting undressed then having to wear one of those gowns is the worst part,usually there are no strings left on the back of the gown,so your arse is on show to the whole hospital as you are forced to walk down the corridor to the room where you are to be examined.

I have written about this on another thread but I think the important thing is for the medfet play Dr to understand what triggers the anxiety in his patient. While I offer three options for the patient to prepare for his exam - those three options are always performed under my watchful eye. I remain silent because I want to hear the belt coming off, the button of the jeans being undone, the sound of the zipper being pulled down and the sliding off of the long pants. Finally, the sound I most prize - that sigh when the patient suddenly understands that he is to submit to Dr Nash for a comprehensive physical exam. Whether he is completely stripped or in his underwear, there is that moment, perhaps a brief moment (pardon the pun) when he knows that he will not be looked at from head to toe.

For me, having the male patient do this in front of me as I watch him - only increases that fetish pleasure.

I’ve never been bothered by undressing. As a matter of fact, I’m happy to strip down almost anywhere; I need Very little prompting to get naked :p

Two of the things I enjoy the most is stripping off and that first moment I’m revealed to the doctor or nurse.

I’ve never had to be completely naked, either the top or bottom is removed depending on what I’m there for, but it always makes my heart go faster.

There’s the knowing that they’re going to see parts of me that most people won’t, and I mean really looking while they examine me. There’s also the nervous wait before the exam starts. Not really sure what’s going to be done.

Definitely one of my favourite parts. Getting a bit turned on just thinking about the last time.

The worst part of a physical for me is that I have white coat syndrome. My heart rate and blood pressure increase. I'm not bothered that I strip naked and wear the gown, nor am I bothered that I get examined.

Actually, stripping has always been one of my favorite parts of my physicals, especially when the doctor comes in and tells me to take off my briefs.

The stripping part, presumably being left alone to do it, allows time to think and anticipate, and be all sorts of self conscious. As opposed to often during the exam itself, where the doc makes small talk during the exam which tends to take all of that away. And maybe there is where some consider undressing to be the worst part. Because it allows your mind to work and roam in different directions.

I do find the anticipation aspect of undressing, especially when seeing a new doctor, to occupy a lot of my initial anxiety over what will occur. There is the moment of being told and the inevitable pause and downward gaze as I ask, "My briefs too?" Some nurse assistants get right to the point of telling me to undress and are very clear about what is to come off. Sometimes it will be the doctor. Whether it's "briefs on" or "briefs off," it is likely that at some point for a good physical exam, my briefs are going down or off! The snapping on of his glove is a sure indicator that it's about to get serious and with it, my manhood is about to be displayed, most likely shriveled or small depending on my anxiety!

I find, that if I am to go to the Dr, or due an examination or annual, depending on my biorhythms will dictate if I am compliant or awkward. If I am messed around at the front counter, which has happened more than often, for example being told that I don't have an appointment when I do, or kids running around screaming and crying in the waiting area. I have had instances when called, that I will refuse to be weighed as I think its a waste of time and not really pertinent to why I am there. Then by the time I've waited another 25-35 in the room alone anticipating what may happen next, all I want to do is get up and go, when I've been asked to undress by a nurse or Dr, I just say not today, I'll answer a few questions and leave and hope I never have to come back. On one instance I waited so long in the Dr's room after being called I just got up and left, and no one noticed.

Growing up I was always examined nude. Once my name was called and led down the hallway knew what was next. Undress completely and have a seat on the exam table.

"surferboard" :

it is a little surprising that your mother did not tell to your sister to get out of the exam room when you reached the age of puberty development

Normally it was to her to decide if your sister could stay or not during your examination.

Since she told you to get out when it was your sister turn to be examined, she could have told her to get out for your exam ..

The doctor had no reason to protect your privacy more than your mother. Since it was fine for your mother, it was fine for him, it was to the parents to decide..

Of course it was more embarrassing between 12 and 16 age than before, and personnally I think that it could be admitted when you were only aged of 12 and 13 but not between 14 and 16.. So if I were you, I would have asked at my mother and the doctor if she could leave the exam room before I undress when I was 14 age.

You had nothing to loose to try to have more privacy, even if your mother would still be present.

May be you could have told them that you wanted that more privacy towards your sister ( what was her age, was she older or younger than you?) and that you were embarrassed by her presence and you would have seen how they would have reacted.

Not sure that they would have agreed but who knows ,

Since it was your regular pediatrician for a long time ( you said that you went to an other doctor only when he retired and it was when you began your college years, so after 18 age.), you might not be too afraid by him...

Of course they could have answered to you that your attitude was stupid for a boy, that all boys were build the same and had nothing to hide, especially to siblings, and that your sister had seen you every year and that there was no reason to change the set up of the exam because you were becoming too more bashful , or that a sister had to learn about male anatomy which needed that she stayed in the exam room for your exam but that she was not interested by your privates except from a medical point of view. So it was not at all a big deal if she saw you naked.

And in that case, you had nothing more to say!

I think that your doctor was certainly an "old school" doctor who did not mind at all about the feelings of a boy when he was examined and though that a boysdid not need any privacy.

He was well known for his methods of examination since you told that some of your friends had stopped to go at his office because they wanted more respect of their privacy.

It happened often with old doctors or doctors who were retired military doctors who were acting a little like if they were still in the army examining draftees or new recruits, especially with boys and male tenagers, because they were used to perform examinations in the nude previously and to perform their examinations without thinking to the embarrassment of the guys, so they did the same with boys and male teenagers.

On the reverse, they were respecting the privacy of girls because they had not the same experience previously.

Anyway, your doctor was thinking that girls needed a certain level of privacy for their examinations since he agrees with your mother when she told to you to get out when it was the turn of your sister to be examined just after yours.

As regards the double appointment by your mother, it was very common in family to win time, it was the choice of your mother but I presume that the doctor agreed with it. May be it could have stopped between 12 or 14 and 16 age but it was more practical for both, your mother and the doctor!

You said that there was no partition or curtain and that you were examined with your briefs pulled down below your knees facing your mother and sister with arms on your sides, so in plain view of them when he was checking your genitals, first checking the small amount of hairs in that area with comments, then palpating your testicles, checking your scrotum, and lifting your penis, inspecting the shaft and retracting your foreskins several times, checking your urethra opening and eventually performing the check of hernia.

I presume that it was embarrassing to have his genitals exposed in that way to the view of your sister at 14, 15 or 16 age but it could have been worse : same kind of exam between 16 and 18 before you graduated from high school, still in presence of your mother and your sister!

Or much more worse, the instruction during your examination between 12 and 16 age to remove your brief and to stay stark naked for all the examination (or even just a part).

If it were for all the examination, you would have been weighted stark naked on the scale with buttocks in plain view of four persons : the male doctor, his female nurse (since if I had well understood she was also in the room ?), your mother and your sister.

And the instruction to walk in the nude in the room to check your balance, then to bend over and touch your feet to check your spine and why not some comments to your mother about your spine and your butts, if they were hairy or not after 13 age and why not his hand on your cheeks to spread them to have a visual view inside your crack and let your mother see by herself how much you had hairs in that area or not ( and sister of course if she sat near your mother), I think that part of the examination would have been also embarrassing than that of the genitals.

And for the genitals, it would have been easier also for him if you had been totally naked.

So it could have been worse..

You said that there was no partition or curtain and that you were examined with your briefs pulled down below your knees facing your mother and sister with arms on your sides, so in plain view of them when he was checking your genitals, first checking the small amount of hairs in that area with comments, then palpating your testicles, checking your scrotum, and lifting your penis, inspecting the shaft and retracting your foreskins several times, checking your urethra opening and eventually performing the check of hernia.

I presume that it was embarrassing to have his genitals exposed in that way to the view of your sister at 14, 15 or 16

At some point, the sister has to have decency to look away, and with the mother there, she should look toward the sister to see if she is looking away, and then maybe have the decency to whisper to the sister that she should look away.

you would think...

Actually, I feel vulnerable and awkward for the entire physical, start to finish. That, plus the embarrassment, unbalance of power, and loss of control, are why it's so terrible yet hot to me though. I love hearing the nurse telling me to undress. I love her having that control over me. I also like the fact that she knows exactly what will be happening to me soon. The more people that know, the more embarrassing it is, the hotter the experience for me. As others have said, it's definitely a bitter sweet fetish!

"surferboard" :

it is a little surprising that your mother did not tell to your sister to get out of the exam room when you reached the age of puberty development ... Since she told you to get out when it was your sister turn to be examined, she could have told her to get out for your exam ..

So it could have been worse.

“Esaterman”

First, you made some concussions that were rather incorrect, I’m not getting into a debate over this post. For example, my mom never asked me to the room it was the instructions of my doctor after my exam was done. I will grant you I wish things were different or maybe I should have something but it would not have made a difference. He did not negotiate with kids or parents. You were correct things could have been worse.

As for my sister, she did look away ! ! It was totally unexpected that I would be standing 2 or 3 feet away facing her while he did my genital exam. But, she still saw the beginning and heard what was going during that part of the exam.

Sorry if, I left things out or mislead some readers that lead to some incorrect concussions.