Only a couple days ago, I started sort of a dom/sub relationship. It's long distance. He wants to control everything I do: what I wear, what I eat, when I use the restroom, when I'm allowed to climax, etc.. I've been sexually harassed a lot in the last three years, so sometimes I get really upset for no reason when I do anything sexual. In theory, I'm very interested in this kind of relationship, which is why I'm in it of course. However, last night he wanted a lot of pictures and videos, and now he's actually telling me what I can wear, when I can use the restroom (a privilege that can only be earned by sending a full frontal nude photo, which I'm very uncomfortable with), and giving me instructions for the day. I'm freaking out. I'm having anxiety attacks. I don't want to disappoint him. I don't know if he'd be willing to restrict these kinds of things to only certain days or times of day. I need to talk to him. What do I do?!