Additional punishments to the spanking?

Wow you guys. I was never disciplined as a child. I mean, I got spanked once when I was 5 but that was the one and only time and it was completely ineffective. Yes, I was in tears afterwards but then immediately afterward my dad made me the ice cream cone I asked for before the spanking. Shouldn't I not have received the ice cream cone? Probably, but I don't know...maybe he felt bad about making me cry. I never got spanked again.

If I got in trouble and that's a very big "if" it would usually just be me getting yelled at but I never got things taken away (although my mom turned my cell phone off once and I totally spazzed), never got grounded. I think the only time I remember getting disciplined was from baby-sitters. I got in trouble by a few of them. Holly wouldn't let me have my friend over because I told her, "Well, maybe you just shouldn't talk anymore." Kari made me go to my room because my sister and I wouldn't stop fighting with each other. One whose name I can't remember made me sit in the corner for hitting my sister. Mariana got really pissed after I pretty much wailed on my sister and she said, "What the hell is going on here?" Her son told her what happened and she told me to go apologize. I said, "Too bad I don't know where she is." She said to go find her and so I found her and said, "Sorry." She said, "It's not like you mean it." I said, "I didn't have to mean it, I just had to say it."

I was so mean and since I turned 18 - discipline became void in our house and I get told that I can't get in trouble anymore because I'm too old. Maybe if someone would administer it to me - I'd learn a lesson or two real quick because I'm still as sassy as ever: eye rolling, sassy comments, mouthing off to authority figures, fake apologies, lying, just general disrespect.

I would often have my mouth soaped and then be put in the corner. Mom would sometimes make me hold a difficult position such as holding out books, squatting, standing on my tip toes, or kneeling in rice. Always bare too.

In the childhood, corner time after a spanking was a standard part of my dad's spanking procedure. After a spanking, I was almost always told to stand in the corner and think about my behavior and what I learned or was supposed to learn from my punishment. My dad's actual words usually were "now put your nose in the corner and think about your behavior and what you are learning from your punishment/spanking". My hands were to be folded behind my back. When younger, before age 14, my pants and underwear were supposed to stay down at the ankles while in the corner. Age 14 and 15 I was allowed to pull up my underpants but not pants. On occasions though corner time was bare even at age 14 and 15, if Dad was particularly upset or angry about my behavior or attitude, or if I was spanked together with my younger brother, either for shared misbehavior or on a report card day if we both had poor report cards meriting (in Dad's opinion) a spanking for us both, or after a P/T meeting. When we got spanked together, Dad spanked us the same way, and for corner time he went by the age of the youngest which was my brother. So when we were spanked together and my brother got bare corner time, I got the same too, even when I was 14 or early 15.

Other punishments to go with spankings included grounding and extra chores.

Some times I got grounded as a complete punishment on its own, but just about as often, if I was getting grounded, it meant a spanking _and_ grounding afterwards.

I also sometimes got extra chores in addition to a spanking. Sometimes they were added to my chores chart, other times I got to do them straight away, usually some sort of cleaning in or around the house: mopping floors, wiping out dust from shelves and furniture, scrubbing kitchen floor, cleaning the sinks, cleaning the bathroom, sometimes helping to wash windows (not alone, window cleaning was always with parents), sweeping the porch or watering plants in the yard and raking leaves. Had to do it with my behind still burning from dad's paddle or belt.

For me everything related to medical fetish... but if it doesn't have to be medical, so I kind of like the idea to put the sub in a very embarrassing position or even better ask her to masturbate and watch her!

I had to stay nude the whole day.

I had to stay nude the whole day.

That sounds like abuse.

What was the purpose of that?

That sounds like abuse.

What was the purpose of that?

Really depends on the agreement between Dom and sub if that is the role that was agreed to. If it is an agreed upon part of the scenario it isn't abuse. I think being restrained in latex for 24 hours is extreme abuse but some people love it. Go figure.

My step dad was a fan of spanking with a big paddle with holes in it. I always got spanked naked and standing up or over the knees. I always had to do time in the corner. When I grew up it was normal to get spanked. Belts, paddles or a good old hand whopping.

@CaliRose Stepdad? Do you think he enjoyed it or was he just a strict disciplinarian?

@RichardAsni Both. He had that paddle off the wall for any little excuse. He loved spanking all of us. There were 3 girls. My brother never got a spanking. I seemed to get the majority of the spankings. Mostly because I didn’t complain. I was always very quiet my whole life and just accepted them. He hung the paddle on the wall so we had to look at it all the time. I think he liked spanking girls. My sisters are very outspoken and would argue and fight. It didn’t matter because my mother made us take the spankings. He is gone now and I’m sure the flames are burning his ass.

No. After any otk bare bottom hand spanking my Dad considered my briefly "tanned" bottom to be sufficient punishment. No cornertime. A fatherly--tone warning not to repeat the misconduct and I'd be told to get up from across his knees/lap, and to pull (either) my briefs or my p.j.bottoms back up and "Go to bed".Any spanking I got was the only punishment.

A half hour of corner time always comes after a spanking. Bare bottom, hands on head, and facing the corner. Mouth soaping can happen for things like lying, bad language, talking back. Other punishments are writing lines, early bedtime, losing privileges.

Always a very hard and painful spanking from my foster uncle on my bare bum and inner thighs (legs were always apart) But soon, following the spanking I would be given a punishment enema. Started when I was 7, probably because my foster aunt knew how much a I hated getting the enema.

Sometimes I'd also be grounded or lose computer privileges (except for things related to school), but in general, it was the spanking that was the main punishment. Spending time with my stepfather's belt was definitely a strong punishment.

My corner time allowed my tush to cool off for about 10 minutes. If I wasn't contrite enough when asked if I learned my lesson, I went back over my step dad's lap for another round of spanking my already red naughty bare bottom with his hard hand or the wooden bath brush. Once again I was led to the corner given more time to think about my misdeed. As I was standing in the corner i heard water running in the bathroom, I knew what was coming next, a series of 8 oz bulbs with warm soapy water which would be inserted into my rectum and bowels for being as naughty as I was.

My step dad took me by the arm and led me to the bathroom where my mother was waiting with the eight red bulbs lined up on the sink counter next to the toilet. She sat down on the closed toilet seat and took me over her lap. Spreading my red hinie she spread a dollop of Vaseline on my rosebud hole and then gently butt firmly pushed her finger all the way in to lube the passage way for the nozzle. I Yelled...Ow ! her finger less than comfortable plus pulling my red tush apart. She slid her finger out and inserted the first nozzle of the first bulb. Squeezed the bulb till it was empty and then slid it out of my puckering hole. She continued for another seven times, saying I hope you learn your lesson young man so we don't have to punish you like this again. Once finished I had to hold the mixture for five minutes before I was allowed to expel it. Crying I was allowed to go to my room and rest before dinner. After dinner I was told for the final part of the punishment that I would be spanked again just before I went to bed. What lead to all of this , I was caught shoplifting. The store owner didn't press charges on the promise that I would be soundly punished and the following day I had to show him my well spanked bare bottom.

My punishment was usually bare bottom spanking and mouth washed out with soap and corner time. Plus I had to go to bed early losing privileges such as phone and computer.

Additional punishment was an additional corner Time and often going To bed early.

Having my temperature taken rectally, getting anal fingering and rimming were always added during my spanking sessions.

I really enjoyed them all

Everytime I received a spanking, I was told to wear skirts for a week ( my mom had bought me a few for the exact reason) which included at school, in public, at friends, wherever. If I got spanked while I was in a skirt it would be a doubly long spanking then usual and would reset the time i had to wear the skirt. One month I wore skirts for 20 straight days because I kept getting in trouble, in total that month I think I got spanked 7 times.

My mother always insisted on me getting naked and having corner time before and after a spanking. This was done wherever we were, home, aunts, grandmas. I remember one family gathering where I split food. So I was taken into the kitchen and stripped naked and I had to stand in the corner near the door. After 5 mins I went over my grandmas knee and she soundly hand spanked me. I then stood back by the door again. Everyone there knew what was going on and quite a few watched.

Everytime I received a spanking, I was told to wear skirts for a week ( my mom had bought me a few for the exact reason) which included at school, in public, at friends, wherever. If I got spanked while I was in a skirt it would be a doubly long spanking then usual and would reset the time i had to wear the skirt. One month I wore skirts for 20 straight days because I kept getting in trouble,

Knowing how awful and mean children can be, what was the reaction when your friends saw you in a skirt, or what was the reaction at school?

Very curious to hear how others treated you when in skirts.

@CaliRose I am guessing there was no love lost on your stepdad and I wonder why your mother never put a stop to it.

Knowing how awful and mean children can be, what was the reaction when your friends saw you in a skirt, or what was the reaction at school?

Very curious to hear how others treated you when in skirts.

My friends were all really good friends and never bothered me about it aside from a few jabs when I wasn't in skirts as a joke but never when I was in them because I was already dealing with other people. Other kids either ignored me, stared, or made snarky comments behind my back. I had a girl ask me about it once and she was nice about it and had sympathy. It wasn't as bad as some people think it would be.

Everytime I received a spanking, I was told to wear skirts for a week ( my mom had bought me a few for the exact reason) which included at school, in public, at friends, wherever. If I got spanked while I was in a skirt it would be a doubly long spanking then usual and would reset the time i had to wear the skirt. One month I wore skirts for 20 straight days because I kept getting in trouble, in total that month I think I got spanked 7 times.

Sounds like your parents were feeding your cross dressing fetish. What was the schools response? I find it hard to believe this. If true.

It all depended on why I was getting a spanking,but additional punishments could include corner time bare butt on display for period of time usually 10-20 min,mouth soaping if it warranted it,early bed time,loss of priveledges/tv time and extra chores added to the ones I already had.

If the offense was using bad language, I got to hold a bar of Ivory soap in my mouth while I got a whipping on my bare butt. Regardless of the offense I also got corner time but it might be only 15 minutes or it could be an hour.

When I was really bad, my aunt would of course spank my bare bottom until it was a bright red. Then I would be made to lay down on the couch or bed bottom up as she prepared her combination red enema bag with a very soapy and crampy warm enema. She would place it on my back as she lunericated the douche nozzle, part my red buttocks and slide the nozzle in me to the max. Then she would pick up the bag and hold it high as she released the metal clamp and make me take the whole bag and would have to hold it no matter what for a full five minutes. If I could not hold it, I would get another enema(s) until I finished it. Miss those days :-)

I never had corner time, instead I had to stay in my bedroom after a spanking, until my parents said I could come out. That was to give me time to think about what I'd done to justify a spanking in the first place.