Ejaculation

I'll toss in a gay ('bottom') perspective here.

For me there's a lot of mental/emotional response/connection. Having the resulting semen from a guys orgasm inside of me is representative to me of having had his pleasure and desire. And "pleasure and desire" feel like weak words to me, that they don't really convey, what to me, is almost magical. i have no desire to get rid of a guys semen afterwards and do all i can to retain it. For me, the whole process of being penetrated and him having an orgasm inside of me is like receiving a part of him into me, that i get to retain the pleasure and desire and semen, that they are a part of him that has been transferred into me. It's an awesome connection and bond.

I'll toss in a gay ('bottom') perspective here.

. . . . For me, the whole process of being penetrated and him having an orgasm inside of me is like receiving a part of him into me, that i get to retain the pleasure and desire and semen, that they are a part of him that has been transferred into me. It's an awesome connection and bond.

. . . . and an excellent way to get AIDS, hepatitis and other STDs if you aren't in a tested, strictly closed, fluid bonded group.

I believe I have heard the PET scan results during orgasm described as "lit up like a pinball machine." There's a LOT going on during orgasm/ejaculation, and those chemicals do tend to have emotional effects.

Though I imagine I'm one of the few that shortly after ejaculation starts to think about where the semen went and what can it mess up if it isn't cleaned up quickly.

. . . . and an excellent way to get AIDS, hepatitis and other STDs if you aren't in a tested, strictly closed, fluid bonded group.

Deeply insightful and informative!

i'd make one slight modification that one doesn't exactly get AID's from sex, but HIV. For those on PreP, so far, they are protected from getting HIV. For those with HIV, on meds and suppressed, they are not contagious nor are they likely to progress to AID's.

Tallslender - there are MANY more STIs/BBPs out there then HIV. HIV still looms large in the cultural mindset, but others have probably taken over as "most dangerous risk" and downplaying STIs in general because of our success against HIVs can be a disservice.

Aren't rates of STIs in general rising?

Tallslender - there are MANY more STIs/BBPs out there then HIV. HIV still looms large in the cultural mindset, but others have probably taken over as "most dangerous risk" and downplaying STIs in general because of our success against HIVs can be a disservice.

Aren't rates of STIs in general rising?

You say: "most dangerous risk." i don't know who you are quoting, but it isn't me. Infer as you will, but i'm not "downplaying STI's" by clarifying information about HIV and AID's.

i didn't respond to this thread to have a conversation about STI's and i don't think that STI's were on the mind of the OP who asked the question about how one feels about ejaculation.

Sperm or vaginal fluids are great, taste is wonderful. I love them. You can feel what he or she has ate, The taste is wonderful from pineapple.

I have heard this before. Good thing he wasn't eating anchovies I guess.

The only thing that goes through my mind is:

HELL YEAH YIPPEE KIYAY!!

I've had a vasectomy, my contribution is semen (protein and trace vitamins and minerals with the taste of what ever your had to eat or drink). But the real treat is to know that I am safe from pregnancy issues and I get tested for STDs after a new partner. I enjoy the taste of semen and like to swallow my own from my partner. The semen from a smoker is not very tasty and I don't do smokers. I really like to orally pleasure a really wet woman that squirts frequently during cunnilingus.

I become highly aroused when I become aware my partner is ejaculating. Most of the time the ejaculation triggers my own orgasm. I prefer partners who thrust in as deeply as possible and stop moving altogether as they ejaculate. That makes it easy for me to feel the actual semen pulses which turns me on. After the ejaculation ends I have some sort of feeling of a desire for impregnation. It is hard to really explain the feeling. I don't mind partners who short stroke while they ejaculate but I hate men who keep fast long stroking as they ejaculate because I can't tell they are ejaculating.

Dita

When I had partners, I was always not only really enjoying PIV and ejaculation, but very grateful that she felt close enough to have invited me in. And hoping that the very vigorous thrusting that I require to finally climax was as enjoyable to her as it was to me.

When she would climax, either during PIV or by oral or fingers, I would always be very happy that she was enjoying herself to the extent that she was able to climax. Seeing, hearing and feeling a woman partner climax is one of the greatest experiences I ever had, knowing I'd had at least something to do with giving her that much pleasure. If I hadn't climaxed by her orgasm(s), it would get me even more aroused for my own coming climax.

Eric

Dita, I love to feel my man cum inside me, meaning to actually feel his ejaculate pulsating out into me.

Mashie