The problem with āhumiliation & fantasy ā real life is a disappointment .
as an incontinent ā special needsā person who requires a care giver , things people describe as humiliating , disappear .
having an adult in Control of your diapers , wetting and soiling regardless of when , where or what your doing .
when your incontinent ,there are no accidents , what do you expect nature to stop , nope thereās a reason your kept in diapers.
diaper checks donāt exist in real life ,it is expected you will be doing diaper things , so instead of random checks your caregiver just use elapsed time after 4 hours in a diaper it can be routinely changed .
your mindset has evolved from a child to an adult things once embarrassing or humiliationās are now ,what day is it ?
thereās no difference in using my diaper in my living room or the middle of target .
you will not easily be tossed over an adults knee and spanked/ punished like when you were a kid .
keep your fantasy alive in your head , donāt try and roleplay it you will be disappointed .