Ladies how do you react to a rectal exam

I tense up a bit and usually curl my toes.

If I'm not fully prepared I tend to gasp a little.

@kitkat gasping during a rectal exam is so nice to hear when giving one. You know your patient is enjoying the experience.

@FunGuy It is definitely a good sign, kind of like a low involuntary moan during a rectal exam is also a good sign.

@kitkat, oh yes!

Never had one in real life but many of go to script fantasies involve being told it’s necessary and me being hesitant and uncomfortable until the female doc is warm/ gentle and reassuring

My ex gf has been revealing a lot more details recently so I had to ask what is her reaction to the recto vaginal and rectal exams she always endures. She said she always lets out a half grunt half whimper with a little gasp every time her Dr's finger initially enters her ass. She says its embarrassing but its just her involuntary response. She can't help it. Her toes always curl up too but she doesn't find that embarrassing as much, she said she doesn't usually clinch up but it does happen sometimes, she usually takes a couple deep breaths and she relaxes.

As I have already described elsewhere, I am always more or less tense during rectal examinations. I hardly react visibly when the examination is announced. Sometimes I get a fright and flinch when the usually cold lubricant is suddenly smeared on my anus. Once the finger is in the rectum, the worst is over for me. Depending on how the doctor feels, it can sometimes be that it tugs and pinches and I pull a face. Most of the time, however, the examination is harmless. I find the rectovaginal examination worse. Even today, it still hurts a little. I often cramp my toes, and I can even make a quiet "ouch".