I love my club -M4 in Toronto.This letter went out to members the other day, and I think it really describes what a sex club is all about. It may help persuade a few people who have not had the guts to take the plunge, but have thought about it.This is our 10th year in business. It seems like a good time to make a few comments about the ClubM4 and the lifestyle. Note: For those interested in our history you can read it here:http://clubm4.com/history/Just after Christmas I was sitting with a couple who didn't know too much about the Lifestyle or ClubM4. Of course they had a million questions. I did my best to answer everything. "What is it like the first time we attend (paradoxically the same as any other bar but at the same time wildly different) Do we have to get undressed (no) Are we required to play (no) Do people use condoms (almost everyone). Are there lockers and showers (yes). Do you serveliquor (yes). Then they asked me what makes M4 so special. This is what I said:"I think ClubM4 is one of the most unique places in the world. Not only is it a place where you can freely test your sexual inhibitions but it is also an environment where a vast array of lifestyle choices are not only accepted but welcome. Full swap, soft swap, straight, bi, gay, trans you can come to ClubM4 and feel very comfortable knowing that you are surrounded by like minded and open minded people. There is also no requirement for how rich or thin you are or your age or ethnicity. The only test is that you have had the courage to walk through the doors for the first time.That idea has held up very well the last ten years. I hope that we can be in business for another 10 and that we will still be seen as one of the most unique, cutting edge environments in the world. Thanks! Rich, Matt and SaraIf you ever wanted to test the S&M waters, or try a gangbang, or fully public sex with a significant other, or a complete stranger- a club like this is a safe and sane place to to it. I might head down there tomorrow, and see what's up.menageaquatre.com note: I am not affiliated- just a member.