Anal play alone or with partner

I'm a married lady and I enjoy anal play - sex with my husband. I'm pretty much the receiver and he is the giver. I can't handle fisting. His hands are very big. I can take three fingers though! I like enemas and being rimmed and deep Ass Eating. And I have a nice collection of plugs. I wear those around the house with high heels and stockings. Especially when I'm making dinner! I want my husband to know where dessert will be. I know his favorite is Chocolate Cookie! I'm an older gal but it just keeps getting better!

@GyneDoll I am a married man, whose wife does not enjoy ass play. She needs enemas at times, but to her it is a medical procedure. I, on the other hand enjoy enemas and ass play of all kinds. She knows this, so when I receive my enemas, she will often remove the nozzle and insert her finger. I cannot last long when she does this, and it makes for a great sleep. I sure wish she liked anal play like me, but we do alright. I can only dream about your lifestyle.

@odonata,

Just thinking here? I would think that your wife may be close to changing her ways. I would suggest a sit down and talk session about how you and your wife think and feel about things and why you do or don't like certain things. I don't like bondage or blind folds and similar things like that. I don't like being tied up or not being able to see. Just a suggestion but sometimes a heart to heart changes people. Make sure you remind her about how beautiful she is. Every day! When she gets to the point where she is believing you and believing in herself I'll bet she will change. Kiss her, love her, make a dinner or two a week. Show her passion! Bath Her! Dress Her! Slip her into her panties and bra! Tie her shoes and brush her hair. Scrub the kitchen floor and shovel the snow etc. Make it a point to kiss her breasts and butt cheeks, EVERY DAY! You want something from her! You work for it and make that work a duty of love and not because you have to. I'm serious! This has changed lives! My husband does these things for me and I love it! And I let him know!

Prefer having a female partner

@GyneDoll said

. . . . I don't like bondage or blind folds and similar things like that. I don't like being tied up or not being able to see. . . .

Have you tried those things recently with a trusted partner?

Those are a few of my favorite things both to give and receive for all types of sexual activity, not only S&M.

I think that a lot depends on what one is doing. I certainly feel that sometimes it is good to experiment with oneself, so that we'd know what it would be like to be on the receiving end of some intimate games/procedures.

Any anal play is amazing!! It makes both masturbation and sex way better. But to keep on topic I will always prefer with a partner but alone is still very satisfying

As much as I love pleasuring myself for hours you can’t beat ass play with a partner who will take their time fingering, stretching, rimming and tongue fucking my ass and driving me wild wanting his cock inside me.

While I have to admit I prefer giving a firm penetration in most situations I'm not against a good penetration at the hands of a partner. But I do enjoy self penetration and stretching. I love using anal beads while masturbating.

With all this self isolation I'm afraid I'm losing my talents.

Nah, I'm still good.

@Faith, i read Bad Dragons dildos are good for that....

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Za

Most often, I play alone. I have a vanilla husband, so he's not all about anything other than sex.

Most often, I play alone. I have a vanilla husband, so he's not all about anything other than sex.

I'm in the same boat as you are, my wife likes to kiss and sex.

While I would prefer having someone actually doing my anus, firmly, I don't mind solo play. I have a few butt plugs and some anal dildos as well.

LOVE my anus played with

I love my solo play times. I have quite a few toys, from plugs to vibrators, and each one has it's own ways of giving pleasure. I like the control I have during solo play to keep on the edge and prolong the time before I orgasm. Also, my pelvic floor PT has given me exercises to do when I'm using an anal toy. She said that there lots of nerve endings in and around the anus that are analogous to the ones that help with erections and penile stimulation, so more reason to play back there. Luckily my partner also likes to play with my ass, and has told me how much pleasure she gets from fingering me and watching my face as she presses on my prostate and moves her finger around. I've even used anal toys a couple of times while we are together in bed, and she likes to watch that too. She herself doesn't like anal play, but that's ok. She has her toys that she enjoys, and we both like our solo time as well as our together time.

I've been married for over 30 years. During this time I've only enjoyed receiving anal play from my wife twice. The most recent time was 18 years ago. I enjoyed both times immensely. She however, doesn't "get it", I suppose, and is adverse to anything anal-related. I would love it if she would "play" with me in this way. Her hands are almost exactly as large as the largest toy that I can physically take. Alas, even if she were not adverse, her libido has gone on permanent vacation and I am relegated to playing by myself - which is pretty real darn good. So there.

My preference is with a partner but have to live solo for the time being

I rather do anal play with a parter, when I was married I trained my wife and when we take showers together she runs her soapy hands between the buttocks. Oh it feels really good. She loved to play with my ass all the time. Every year on our birthdays, we give each other birthday spankings equal to the age x 2. Then she had a heart attack and died. I do miss the fun.

Anal play, like any medical play or sex play is better with a partner! I enjoy solo play, and most of my anal play is solo, but nothing beats a lovely lady to join me in anal play.