Anal play alone or with partner

Do you prefer to have your anal play session alone or with your partner? I've only recently opened up about my kinky anal play to my girlfriend and she has been more than accomadating. She has even fisted me once and has used some of my larger anal plugs on me. Even though I know she's into playing with me in this way, I still look forward to the little times I have alone so that I can play with my toys. I was just curious as to how many of you prefer to do what we do in isolation or with your partners?

Proximo

Alone, partner, group. It's ALL good.

It's always more fun with a friend. I've enjoyed my butt hole as far back as I can remember. Even as a kid I had two friends to experiment with. We used rectal thermometers or enema nozzles and similar items when we played doctor. When we reached middle school age we tried fingers and tongues.

My first wife was a good partner and enjoyed anal play as much as I did. Fucking, toys, fingers and riming. (I have the videos to prove all this!!!) She was the first to use a strap-on on me. An instant addiction. She would administer enemas but take none. She once gave me one mixed with vodka. Unless you are experienced with alcohol enemas, DO NOT TRY THIS, it is dangerous.

My current wife does all this and more. We have even shared a double headed dildo up our asses as we fucked. Her first DP! She does me with strap-ons, toys, cucumbers, etc, etc.

All this doesn't mean I don't amuse myself. I enjoy all things sexual.

Definitely with a partner. Anyone who is in to anal play will bring their own set of kinks to the table, and that just adds spice to playtime. If you trust that person, by all means use a partner.

Prefer with a partner but my wife won't humor me. She won't even talk about why she won't play with my butt now.

I like both playing with my girlfriend and playing solo. Both have their own appeal.

I definitely prefer a partner, but I'm regrettably solo right now. Still manage to get in plenty of play time, and it's all good. A partner just makes it better.

Prefer with a partner but my wife won't humor me. She won't even talk about why she won't play with my butt now.

I have only made the suggestion once as part of another conversation. The thought was pretty much pushed aside by my wife and I didn't pursue it. However, my plan is to bring the subject up again and with a bit more fervor. Since we don't enjoy sex/intimacy any longer, I'm waiting for her doctor's appointment during which she has promised to ask about enemas as a solution to her anal leakage (caused by meds) so she can feel more comfortable engaging in sex. Regardless of the outcome of the conversation with the doc, I will be asking her to please attempt to help me play with my toys and embrace the fact that I will enjoy them infinitely more if she is controlling them instead of me. If I still get a "No" I will figure I'm on my own the rest of my life.

Anal play, as with any erotic play, is always better with a partner. However, solo play is very satisfying when no one else is available.

I prefer a partner and also prefer a man.

Both. It depends on how I feel.

Not much experience with anal play with a partner. Looking forward to it though...someday. I’ll let you know

Thus far solo and very enjoyable. Would like to find someone close by to meet up with on a fairly regular basis.

My wife had a appointment with a proctologist while in her teens for constipation issues. Apparently it did NOT go well as she is averse to anything involving playing with an anus or anything else "back there...".

For that reason, we do not engage in mutual anal play which inevitably leaves me to my own devices and anal training periods. A partner would be much more enjoyable as I could just "lie back" and enjoy the experiences.

Both. Prefer with a partner but when in between girlfriends my anus was not ignored. It definitely led to some naughty experimenting!

The first thing I would tell anyone that if you are going to explore the backside, do no go at it like a bull in a china shop.

Be very easy, go slow, use lots and lots of lubricant and constantly ask them if it hurts. If it does, quit.

He had fingered me, one night I told him to put it it, we just laid there and let it soak. Then he took it out. The next time, we repeated, he took it out. The next time, I told him to go slow, yes it hurt but we both enjoyed it.

She doesn't play with me as much as she used to. I'm not sure why?

I should probably ask her but I haven't.

It's great with her but it's also great alone. Both have there own appeal but for now it's usually just me. I really don't mind cause I'm pretty dam good 😉

Just made a video of myself, first one in years. Watched it back a couple days later and dang my ass is tough. Made me want to do it again only harder with a better camera view.

I do more solo play then with a partner I love both but almost always way more intense with help from a partner.

With partner

So I play alone. I don't have a partner first of all, since my spouse and I are legally separated. I once had a roommate and asked her if she want to play, but she wanted nothing to do with anal. (She has passed away)

If I do get a friend with benefits to come meet me, I will not do any anal toying (except regular fuck) until after we have met a couple of times and established trust.

My playing involves stretching to 3 inch and beyond as well as deep Colon play, currently up to about 18 inch.

For this I need to be able to trust my partner.

Having said this, I think it will be great to have a partner do some insertions as I lay there and enjoy the ride.

But always our own toys, no toy sharing and cleanness, at least a couple of enemas until clear. But I'm still alone with my toys.

Wish it was with wifey, but just alone.....maybe someday 😃

Za

Thus far has been a solo experience for me. Hopefully at some point will be with a partner to enjoy it even more. As has been mentioned a partner needs to be someone you can totally trust to be gentle and accommodating. My solo play involves everything from a small prostate toy to a 19” colon snake and various plugs! As my name suggests anything that is anal fun!

Anal play with a partner is certainly the best but it happens with such irregularity that solo anal play is by fat the norm for me. i have come to enjoy both.

My preference is to have a partner to play with. I’ve had some great times exploring various aspects of anal play. However, it’s been over a year since then. Anal play is a regular part of my playtime. I find myself wearing a lot more butt plugs since I’m flying solo. I love my asshole, haha.

With a partner because it is more fun!

Always with a partner

Oh with a partner . So much better when she takes interest and either finger or use toys . I love that with my wife cause she likes pleasing me as much as I like it . Besides sex is always better with someone to enjoy it with

Playing with my wife she's the one that got me into loving anal and I still love it when she fingers my ass before getting the toys out

I actually generally get a lot more pleasure during my solo play but I've been playing for years and years. So I know exactly what my body likes. But I did wake up this morning with the most insatiable appetite to be stuffed. Now I'm just insanely horny at work dreaming about having my tight ass stretched bigger and bigger until I'm gaping open. Fuck am I craving my big toys waiting for me at home.

I prefer to have anal play with a man or woman who enjoys playing with my plump round bottom and large anus. I become submissive and a crave being under their control when they shave my plump bottom and anus, provide light spanking with stinging slaps using their hand or sandal, and stretch my anus wider with long and thick nozzles of an enema bulb syringe, anal toys, strap-on, or an erect penis when I am laying on my back on the bed with my bare bottom on a pillow and my legs spread open in a diaper position. If anyone has had similar experiences, feel free to message me to discuss them.