@ProV1: ... Essentially I am edging myself with lots of stimulation and then I start to get wet. But these situations usually don't lead to embarrassing situations given I do both alone.
ProV1, I also get wet with precum after long periods of fairly intense arousal without orgasm. I never measured how much prostatic fluid I produce, but it's sometimes enough to give myself a slippery, sliding-up-and-down-type hand job without any other lubrication.
I can also 'milk' my prostate and very quickly produce precum from direct prostate massage. My favorite toy for prostate play is this little number:
Wow, the Amazon price has tripled!. Could I have done that with my previous bragging about this link on Zity?
Here's my 'milking' method. The 3-ball anal hook, never intended to be a prostate massager, certainly becomes one for me when I insert it backward, from the front, so that the long external arm of the hook with the eye on its end runs up my taint, splits my balls, and angles away from the base of my penis. When inserted like that, I can make myself drip clear sticky precum in seconds. I pull the hook outward to make the three balls press into the front wall of my rectum with a few pounds of force. This hits my P-spot and feels wonderful. The precum starts to drip. When I slide the three balls back and forth over my P-spot while maintaining firm pressure against it, the sensation is almost orgasmic and I really get wet.
The first time I did this I didn't like it much. I felt intense pleasure, but it was overshadowed by the intensely uncomfortable sensation that I was urinating or just about to, so I backed off. Then I did it in the bathtub and just let it go. There was no urine, just a sudden flow of precum.
After I recognized the urination sensation was false, I learned to enjoy the experience as pure pleasure, a P-gasm I called it. I found that doing prostate massage for 30 minutes or more with just a little stimulation of my penis could produce a series of multiple P-gasms. The first P-gasm was almost immediate, and it rapidly subsided. As I continued prostate massage, a new P-gasm would slowly build, reach a very intense peak in few minutes, rapidly subside, and then slowly build again over the next few minutes. I now really enjoy giving myself multiple P-gasms, and doing more than a little penis stimulation on my final P-gasm so that it transitions into full orgasm--almost always a really, really good one. Some days, I just keep doing P-gasms to the point of exhaustion, which drains my prostate dry and still satisfies me. Interestingly when I do this, my penis is usually completely limp and little involved in the pleasure. .