I'm new here, but from what I can tell, this site seems to have mostly male members? Am I wrong in thinking that perhaps medical fetishism is more common in males than females? Just a cursory thought, but I'd love to hear what everyone else thinks.If you had read any of the forum before posting this, you would have had your answer.
I was thinking that there seem to be more men here than women too, but not overwhelmingly so. I'm a woman and I've always had a medical fetish in my fantasy life. Tried to involve my s/o but largely unsuccessfully. Don't talk about it with anyone else. Just recently found this site.
The women are just a bit less talkative about their interests. But they are here and enjoying the medfet play. I do enjoy my exam, when my sub gives them.
As a woman with medfet for many decades I can say no it isn't a male thing only but some topics appeal more to guys and.
I am a woman and I love medical play. I do agree alot of men like it also. But I have talked to many woman who also love it so…
Zity is a small sample of the overall population. Don't know that you can correlate what's talked about and what actually occurs in medfet. So I wouldn't assume more men - or more women - are interested in MedFet.If there is any correlation between the numbers of people who do BDMS vs Medfet (I haven't found any) here's an interesting starting point: "A 1990 Kinsey Institute report states that 5 to 10 percent of the U.S. population engages in sadomasochism at least an occasional basis. Around 11 percent of men and 17 percent of women reported trying bondage.
@DrZ Zity has more male members than females, but the membership isn't overwhelmingly male. The ratio is around 3.5:1.That was posted 2017.11.12. Be interesting what it is today, especially now that we've gone through Covid-19.
.No, of course it's not … I've known a number of young ladies / women over my lifetime that got a bit of a “thrill” from going to the doctor's for an invasive exam. Some even mentioned they masturbated on the way home afterwards or just after arriving home when they went to “clean up”And it's not just medical appointments either !!Literature, instructional films, instruments & medical ephemera turn them on too, as does some creative suggestiveness. They just don't impart these “gems” of information Willy Nilly for obvious reasons
I really can't say. Men usually tell their experiences more, and women tend to keep them as secrets. Which even makes women's stories more valuable.It's really pity women don't share more their fantasies, but with the years you just deal with it and enjoy the stories of those few braver ones.
Even if someone isn't into medical play per-se, it's a big tent with room for lots of stuff. Ds, nudity, exhibition, pain, masturbation, embarrassment, sex toys (normal), sex toys (crazy), role playing, etc., Anyone who is any fun in bed at all can find something in med-fet that they like.I.e., She may not check the med-fet box on the survey, or have an account on the website, but she gets into it when she sees it in action.
I'm a male and very much into it but my wife and I think women in general are a little more secretive about it cause they end up going to male docs specially gynecologists and I guess they don't wanna reveal that it turns them on. I notice my wife being a little more horny when she goes to her male obgyn , I go with her to her Gyn app sometimes and when we get back it's funny how she wants to have sex right after during the day, and most of our sexlife is at night , so it's strange that she is turned on during the day, but I know why she wants to fuck , cause we just got back from her exam.I might be wrong but I know my wife - anyone have the same experience ?
Based on the personal ads in regards to playing live, it is a male thing. You don’t see any women putting personal ads looking for patients.
Based on the personal ads in regards to playing live, it is a male thing. You don’t see any women putting personal ads looking for patients.However if ladies do respond to such ads, then they must also have an interest in participating.Perhaps putting out ads is more of a male thing, of taking the initiative. Although I bet many men are also reluctant or shy to take overt initiatives. That they too really wish for someone to make the first move.
Add to the reasons women are a bit less likely to say they like/enjoy a fetish…the ones who get off on them saying that. The possibly inappropriate “why/what did you do, say, feel when (*** insert kink/fetish***)?”. They had their say but more personal and indepth information is asked by another. Why admit to certain kinks/fetishes with “admirers” like that.
This could be an unpopular suggestion, but why not have a discussion forum just for women? Speaking personally I might be more inclined to share in that context, at least as I’m relatively new to this site. Can’t speak to placing ads, though I find that looking at individual profiles is a good way to find like minded women. Many mention in their intros whether or not they’re interested in participating in play, or identify it more specifically under the Interests section.
Lots of males on this site for sure, but I've connected with a number of women already who certainly like playing doctor and discussing it and sharing our histories with it. Personally, I'm not into it like some people, lab coats, stethoscopes… I don't have any props. For me it's the sexual connection and the dom/sub relationship and the trust between me and the person that counts. It all comes back to those sensations that were first stirred up at my pediatrician's office many years ago.
Here is another 24 year old female who relates to being the patient in medfet play. I am a Bi. And it was my girlfriend who introduced me to medfet, (another woman)My boyfriend was not into medfetFemales enjoy medfet equally. Telling from what I have seen in last 2+ years of being a mefet person
From my personal experience I would say its very much a ladies thing….it is often surprising what is revealed once you get chatting to lady enthusiasts…I have met several happily married ladies for medfet play who would never dream of telling their other halves about their kinky med play .
This could be an unpopular suggestion, but why not have a discussion forum just for women? Speaking personally I might be more inclined to share in that context, at least as I’m relatively new to this site.Interesting idea - but could that lead to other - non inclusive - topics: such as Men Only, Trans or LGBT only? True that women get overwhelmed by men posting on threads that are obviously meant for women (such as threads tagged “Gyn" etc>. When starting a thread - maybe include “WOMEN ONLY” as the first two words in the thread title. Might cut down male responses - somewhat!!
I wouldn’t say women are totally disinterested in medical fetishes, but it’s a safe bet there are far more men who enjoy it and visit this site. I also suspect that some of the “women” who post here are men.