Would it be illegal to pay someone to change me?

While walking back from the bars one night a woman called out to me from her street level window. I assumed she was a prostitute and declined her proposal. But it got me thinking: If I was padded at the time and had my supplies with me, could I simply ask her for an innocent change (stressing no sexual play, no happy ending etc.) without getting in trouble? Has anyone done so before aside from say hiring a Mommy or dominatrix?

Good question! Following

Plenty of people have health care aides that assist with bodily functions. I don't see why you couldn't have someone change you, although I wouldn't do it in the street.

If she was a health care aide, you could get by with her jerking you off as long as you didn't pay her right after doing so or no money was seen changing hands. I doubt prostitution would be a problem, but public lewdness you come into play if you were seen.

Based on my rather limited experience American prostitutes charge considerably more than dominatrices. Perhaps I am a sucker and/or I like pretty ones. So paying her for whatever her minimal service is e.g. $300 for 30 minutes just to change you would have been quick money for her.

Now as for the content of your diaper and other grossness factors, I really don't know their tolerance levels. Guess she didn't consider it too gross to fuck you, so the chances are she wouldn't have been gross out by a diaper change.

The legalities depend on whether the prostitution is legal in that state/locality, and it would have been considered a "massage" anyway.

I am sure if you talked to her you could work something out.

i agree with Susie here.

I hope you find some one who you can play with in this way, what two consenting adults do is your own business.

There could be lots you could do for each other if you didnt want money to be an issue.

Good luck.

Peace,

Caz

As a disabled person , who has care aide , right now the going hourly rate depending on experience relevant to the job it's between $11.00 -$15.00 an hour for an aide, if you really want to be changed you could hire someone part time to change you ,and laugh all the way to the bank with the money you save compared to a hooker or dominatrix, an aide comes complete with background check , all there shots, and aren't taking you to strange potentially filthy drug den pay by the hour place , in the comfort of your home , they also come with HIPPA , the benefit to that is it's a crime for them to communicate what they see here or do as far as you, your home or you kinks to anyone without your signing a release giving them permission. This way you know exactly what your paying for and how and when .diaper changes are things of fantasy for many ABDL ,the real thing tends to fall short of fantasy but is a very intimate and personal experience . Whatever you do enjoy it as life is short and hard.