Favorite pace for receiving enemas

Back when hospitals used "bag enema with soap" on a regular basis, nurses and orderlies often took a full five to ten minutes to administer an enema. In addition, I remember one orderly, who after carefully removing the enema nozzle would insist that patients remain in position for several minutes despite their uncomfortably distended bowels which struggled with the churning soap suds. He explained the importance of retention in order for the enema to be efficacious. Despite patients pleas to use the washroom, he would dutifully insist that they remain as they were. Because there were very few provisions for privacy back then, it was an enema voyeurs paradise.

Have you ever had a similar experience ?

What is you preferred pace for receiving and/or administering enemas ?

Do you insist on retention time ?

I have been in family situations with neighbors wanting to visit with a friend. They pretend to be discrete, but invariably show off for one another. The want pseudo privacy that leaves room for flashing.

I like whatever is coming, let it be. But in giving, I like to pamper and make it memorable. I like to use a standard plastic lady's nozzle eased in only a little bit. Let it start trickling in, and watch for the nozzle to twitch or wiggle. As they have these involuntary spasms I am refreshed as well, knowing something of their pleasure.

No, when getting a special guest to my apartment, they bring their own kit and we know it is for fun, up front. I do not press either way. They may savor their inner pressures or quickly dump it, if needs be.

I average about one enema per hour NOT A FIXED HARD AND FAST TIME! An average across the entire session.

Typically 5 minutes or so to get into position and get relaxed.

3 minutes or so more to get the insertion done, get my mind right to take an enema

3 minutes to inject 3-qts

15 minutes retention

20-25 minutes to expel the whole enema.

Anywhere from 20 to 40 minute just lolling around letting my body recover, and then repeat the process.

Not to say you should strictly stick to one per hour. Sometimes I'm ready for the next enema 35 minutes after the last one. Sometimes it takes an hour 15, hour 20, and that's OK.

The session as a whole which is anywhere from 3 to 6 rounds runs about an hour per enema.

I like to give them and receive them at a leisurely pace. That is a big part of the pleasure of an enema. There is no need to rush. About 30 minutes is typical for me. A session involves at least one soapy enema and a rinse so at least an hour total. It's easy to spend an entire evening.

Normally when I'm given a enema by my wife. I'm given a enema and then after the enema a spanking on my rear and then 1 hour later another enema.

When I'm getting an enema I've found I prefer to turn on and off the flow alot. Whether I think I need to or not. Like 3 to 6 secs on then 3 to 6 off off. Repeat... Then as i am getting further along w the enema I keep increasing the on time, and keep the off time short. This really slows down the overall time, but I look at that as ok. That allows me to take and hold better than a constant slow flow.

I am "lucky" in that I get to give enemas to others occasionally and I use this method on them as well. It always seems to work for tothers doing it that way too.

I had my colon irrigationist use that method when filling me from the irrigation machine

Me taking huge fills from her comfortably.

This got her curiosity going and she tried it for her own enemas. She liked that method enough that she changed the way she is doing her professional colonic irrigations

So Lisa, how large are your "one enema per hour" fillings? How many enemas have you ever done at most in one "enema per hour" session? Are you doing just tap water or something added like saline? I have a sensitive rectum and I might try your enema per hour formula sometime soon to see if waiting that long in between might allow me to do more than just one or two in a row. Except for an every-few-years colonoscopy cleanout, I do my enemas strictly for submissive distention pleasure and sexual stimulation. I can usually only manage one or two in a row, but I'd like the option of a few more when I'm in the mood.

Eric

To Ericmason:

They are usually 3 qt enemas I fill the bag half way with the cold heavily soaped water mix, then the rest of the way with HOT tap water, so that way once mixed the whole mixture is warm not hot. I carry the HWB style bag into the bedroom by the hook. I allow the bag to lie sideways on the bed or night table before hanging it That, plus a couple of good twists and turns while hanging mixes the two fluids pretty well.

What's an HWB bag? I haven't heard that one or at least don't recognize it. Sounds like a closed top version.

Eric

I still lmao from the heading.

Lisa, I agree with you as to how to take an enema. I, too, start with cold water and then take in hot and as you say it turns out to be warm.... But, what a feeling! Good girl!

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What do you find especially LMAO-amusing from the title? I just found the title interesting and somewhat arousing.

Eric

My usual pace of almost any enema always includes a moderate to long retention time so I can savor the pressure and distention feelings and appearance. The vast majority of mine are for pleasure usually with sexual stimulation from the enema and anal fullness from the nozzle or plug. I usually do a good deal of massage to distribute the water volume more evenly, and when nearly or completely full, roll around a bit to see and feel what the movement does to my belly and full feelings. Occasionally I'll even get up to all fours or even kneeling or standing before I really need to release, again just to move the water around inside and experience the delicious distention in different positions. I'll tell you that 3-4 quarts in a kneeling or standing position really accentuates the pressure and distention, but I'm careful to go slowly and support my belly so I can experience it without excess harmful pressures. I do really love feeling and watching my own or others' belly distention. Once I do that and lay (lie?) back down again, I often feel like "wow, that was deliciously intense, and I think I'll just lie here without moving or even thinking of getting up again for awhile!" Unless I'm starting to suspect an oncoming leak down below, that's when I often masturbate and see if I can come while still holding all the deliciously submissive pressure and distention. What a combination - wow. Damn! ?

Eric

HWB style is a Hot Water Bottle type syringe

It is cleaner to use in the bedroom, because the only path for water to get out is through the hose

I don't know if I'd call it "favorite," but currently I mostly take them at a pretty fast clip - 2 enemas in an hour or less, from click to cleaned up. I'd love to have an extended session, ideally with my wife giving, but right now the results are most important to me and I usually don't have a huge amount of time to devote to them. I get up, if it's "doo or die day" I give my body 30 minutes to an hour, then I pull out the bag and start banging them down.

"Banging them down" makes it sound a bit like some enema version of a drinking game :-\\ . Could be fun in the right circumstances, maybe? I guess you'd do something like run in a quart, then when X happens either the clamp gets opened for a certain length of time, you get Y bulbsfull, or Z squeezes on a Higginson pump depending on equipment. First person to have to run to the toilet loses. As a penalty should they get another enema? Spanking? Something else? Hmmm...

When doing a series of three enemas I do separate them by at least 30 minutes or so. I like to feel I have expelled all or nearly all of the previous enema before moving on to the next one.

As far as flow rate goes, I have a 1 gallon silicone bag which I usually fill to about 3 quarts and that takes about 5 minutes to empty. I go straight through fully open clasp. I am not good at retention so I am usually up on the toilet within a minute or two. The longest retention time I ever achieved was probably about 15 minutes but that was the third in a series after my colon had been pretty much cleaned out.

My best success at larger enemas comes when I stop frequently during the flow. Sounds like good policy rooted in observation.

I think about 15 minutes from start to finish expelling is about right. No need to rush it. I like to see a 5 minute hold time if possible. It isn't always!

Generally, I set aside at least an hour for an enema session; not counting the time after spent taking a shower. No hard and fast (pun😄) rules as to number of enemas per session or time between them.

Overall it takes about an hour from start to cleaned up. I like to take 2Q in about 3 to 5 minutes.

I don't really have a set time.

Essentially, I take the oral Bisacodyl about 2 hours before starting the enema.

I set up the bed, mix the enema, let the bag set for a few moments to dissolve the Epsom Salt, then take a pee and hang the enema

A pre-enema, if it is a bisacodyl suppository, it is taken 10 minutes before getting into position

If it's a bisacodyl mini-enema it is taken right after getting into position.

A minute or two to get the position fully right.

The pre-enema is in about 10-15 minutes before the main enema

I know I shouldn't, but I usually look at the nozzle for a moment before doing the insertion.

Then I take a minute or two to relax. then make sure the nozzle IS all the way in, and pointed at my navel.

Once I open the valve. It takes about one minute per quart to get in

Then I retain 15 minutes.

Expulsion takes around 20 minutes, give or take.

Then, how long I wait for the next round depends entirely on how I feel. When I feel like I can take the next enema I do.

That can be as little as 15 minutes or over an houreither

I AVERAGE over the session, about 1 enema per hour, but IT IS NOT SET IN STONE! It is not a race or a contest. It all comes down to how I feel and what's effective.

I take a minimum of 3 enemas. More if the 3rd one does not return clear. I take as many as I need to get to that clear return.

A TYPICAL session if there is such a thing is between 6 and 7 hours from the insertion of the first round

DONT BE OBSESSED WITH TIME!

Give yourself enough time but you don't need all day/night

I find a quick in-and-out enema really doesn't do much but empty my bottom end For me, a ‘good’ enema is one which is given slowly, at least 5 minutes for 1500ml, preferably longer. The rate of giving is a compromise between getting the full dose of solution in and the enema starting to work. Additives like soap, glycerin, or Dulcolax make really slow administration all but impossible.

It is certainly true that long retention time is critical to a really effective enema.

YMM

I pace an enema for the time we have and the energy left for both of us (if done in the evening). I pace it slowly for the the enjoyment of my sub and myself. Then he can feel the warmth and fullness as long as possible. As can I if sex is also a part of the enema experience.

I try to not rush the experience, unless I want my sub to suffer. Even quick enemas can have much pleasure. Just more short lived in the process.

I rarely do any prep before taking a enema or use any soaps or other additives , I'll just take in about 2 quarts of warm water which I guess takes 5-10 mins, hold it for another 5-10 mins then give at least 15-20 minutes to expel. I will then get up and about in the house for a bit and when I'm absolutely sure its all out I will go back to do a couple bulbs to make sure the lower parts are well clear and ready for my plug for the day. I guess from the time I start the enema to when my plug goes in is about an hour. Through trial and error I found doing it this way always gives me at least a full 24 plus hours of no worries plug use.