Men giving and getting enemas

Never had an E sharing with another man. Have had with female several times. Have had same sex thoughts about it and hope it happens.

I feel the same way. I do not use derogatory labels as to what way anyone is, that,s discrimination!!! Everyone bod is beautiful and beautiful to share it. I am against the ones in it to make a buck.

No, and never will

I'm strictly hetero and definitly prefer a female giver. However, in a medical setting, if a guy knew what he was doing, it would be OK with me.

Only with a couple of wife's , and of course my mother .

There was another in between , besides in hospital nurses , female at the time I think .

No plans for a male any time soon.Thanks for asking .

WC

Nope, so far, only solo. I don't plan on giving to a guy anytime in the future either.

Yes. I prefer males, since I am gay. What I think most men who have responded object to is the erotic aspect with another male present.

I won't take another enema from someone who is not "hip" or into enemas. Those turn into a teaching session, and that is not very erotic.

Remember that the enema is a BDSM operation. It's a Dominant/submissive thing. (from an article in Water & Power)

Since most of the men who negative reactions to this thread are Het, they do not want to submit to another male. That is understandable. But, it does not mean gay. If their wife forced them to have an enema from a male then it would be a humiliating experience. (another BDSM aspect)

I only give enemas on a "need" basis or want basis.

R

Yes, when I was about 13 a friend and I gave each other enemas. We both got erections and jerked off afterwards but never did it again.

No just enjoy with my lady

I agree - An enema is for enjoyment. If sex is part of the enjoyment or it is arranged prior that sex is not part of the play, male enema givers and receivers sure beats going solo

I have given guys enemas in the past and received some from other guys but now so used to solo enemas with all the pleasures they give me!

Only when I was a teenager. Now its ladies exclusively

I have ....... once, but i don't like it and won't repeat the experience. I make a distinction between anal "play" and anal "sex", at least in my own mind. Where doing enemas with other guys are concerned, i'm more than a willing participant with certain "provisions". In that instance, i'm STRICTLY a "taker". There are guys out there that like to "give" and are good at it. Its a turn-on for them so its a workable proposition. As i'v stated elsewhere on this forum, i consider myself to be hetero. I DON'T do anal sex with a male enemate, to answer the un-asked question. The situation would be completely the reverse with a female. In THAT case, i would much prefer to "give" a lady the pleasure. (I have never had, what MUST be a pleasure) of giving an enema to a girl but rest assured that at that level of intimacy, she would surely MEAN something more than a 1-nite-stand.

I've been given enemas by several different men. I much prefer the masculine touch and have always been excited to return the favor! Mostly I am solo butt prefer a partner............I live in SW Florida.

NO, just solo for now.

Although I'm straight I have recieved enemas by men. Doctors, nurses most of the cases. But I hooked up with a guy on the net sometimes ago (actually you know who you are please get in touch) and we had joyful enema session with no sex. Kinda of professional enemas only. It was good. I do love receiving and giving them to women.

I feels the same, from either a guy or woman. The first enema I can remember was from an orderly in a hospt.I had to hide the side effect of the Rx, A very hard pp.

Nope. only women.

Yes, I have given and received many enemas to/from other guys and can report they have all been GREAT.

Yes, my first, other than solo, was about 7 years ago from someone I met on-line. Have recently become reacquainted and exchange when we have the opportunity.

I have given several men enemas, but have never had a man give me one. I"m very open to experiencing that. I have responded to Craigs List ads a number of times, but am rejected because I'm over 60, although very attractive and fit. I'm gay and the enemas I've given have been to gay, bisexual and married guys. A couple of times, including the married guy, they have been into older guys. Once, I paid an attractive escort. I gave him a Fleet Extra. We flip flopped after he expelled. It was a 2 hour session at his hotel. I think he enjoyed the experience, he emails me whenever he's in town. I'm still looking for someone to administer to me. I'm new to this forum. You can reach me at jimdc29@gmail.com.

Yes- and now seek out other male partners. I enjoyed the experience and the eroticism that can be experienced between two men

I have to read all the posts, men do not want a man giving them enemas but female are the way to go, I have only had one colon wash from a male colon, He said that female most of the time only wanted to have a colon wash from a female. That brings out that that male would prefer a female not a male. Female would rather have an enema from a female not a male, I understand the male because the gay thing but female liking female that I do not get.

Try it. You'll like it.

I Wouldn't mind a nice feminine male nurse giving me a tretment

No i either do them myself today one of my female friends thats a nurse came over and gave me an enema

A few replies in this thread are encouraging, but most reflect the mainstream intolerance of male for male sex. We gay members of this site are not looking for straight members. We only look for opportunities with other gay members. So don't feel threatened. There are few of you that we would even be attracted to.

When i was around 15, a neighbor i did yard work for gave me an enema after I mentioned being constipated. At first i was embarrassed and hesitant, but because he was older I lowered my shorts and underwear and laid over his lap as he instructed. When I finally relaxed like he told me to do, I actually enjoyed it and had an explosive orgasm. I went to his home many times after that complaining of constipation, and eagerly dropped my drawers. I think he knew i wasn't always constipated but he seemed to be just as eager to give them as I was to take them. I never told anyone about it. Now,as an adult in my forties, I hope to find guys to give and receive enemas with.

I never been in a situation were I had to cover up my enjoyment of enemas. My wife of nearly 40 years fully supports the activity. Unfortunately she too disabled now and there seems to be a shortage in over age 55 lady LVN that can help. I been trying to meet other men that have similar background and interest.

I am retired, not running for office and have medical reasons to be using enemas. I do not need to be very discrete on the subject for myself. I have found that most men are not in this situation. I try to find out what is the situation that the person I am communicating with is in and do my very best to honor his confidentiality needs. I do not care if the person that is giving me an enema tells his significant other or not.

You like what you like, you want what you want. You are an adult and are able to make these choices of your own free will. Understand that you are not alone and your "issues" are shared by probably thousands of people.

Everybody has their own thing, and that's okay, so when you are looking for someone, be completely honest. Write out your list and tell the person with whom you are speaking exactly what you are looking for.

And before you get too far into any conversation, just tell them like it is, exactly what you want. Chances are, like I said, there are many others out there who like you chicken out or are afraid, or whatever who are in fact, looking for exactly the same thing you are, just an enema sir, and nothing but the enema.

On top of being honest, don't hem-haw around about it either. Give it to them point blank, that way in case they are fine with just giving and receiving enemas, but are hoping he might be able to talk you into something else, he will know immediately that your mind is made up and this is what you want and what you seek. It will save you both a lot of time and energy once both of you are on the exact same page.

So three rules:

1) Be Honest

2) Be Simple

3) Be Firm

Hope this helps. And good luck on your search!

Being gay, I am only into Enemas with other guys, and have introduced a few to the pleasurable sensations that can be had from them.

Dan