Smoking during sex

Let me start by saying I am a nonsmoker - except in the bedroom (or bedroom situations). I dislike the smell of cigarettes as well as the taste but my hubby gets so turned on at the sight of me smoking that I smoke for him. His favorite part is lighting it for me and then watching me smoke it. What I am wondering is this; what is one thing you do for your significant other that you do not enjoy but do it solely for their pleasure?

A smoking woman is very erotic!! I like that!!

@Bag_Dad

That's what he says! I don't see the turn on but it drives him wild so I do it. Maybe a fine cigar would do the same thing and be a bit easier for me to smoke. I like the smell of some cigars. Opinion on a woman smoking a cigar?

Smoking of any sort is positively disgusting and the appearance of a person smoking lowers their apparent IQ score by 20 points. Smoking is a turn-off, not to mention a health risk.

The smell of smoke on the person and the lingering odor on clothes, hair and the house is just awful. The bad breath and staining of the teeth is horrible. Our house and property is a smoke free zone.

A woman smoking a cigar--YUCK--same as if a man does it.

@SwitchableSusie

I agree its disgusting but one persons turn off is another's turn on. I'm sure many people do things that they don't always enjoy to please their partner. Give and take makes a marriage work.

@RedInBed I think that your gesture to smoke for your husband is telling of your love and affection for him.

To answer your question, what do I do that I don't enjoy, I allow her to pluck my ear hairs. I hate it, but it makes her happy and I like the intimacy of the act.

@FunnStrict

Thank you! And I think it's super sweet that you let her do that. Good job!

Smoking? perhaps more lubrication is required!

Rockdoc you stole my thunder. What did I do for my ex which was pleasurable for her but not for me? I wrote her checks. Sadly, the ultimate act was during our divorce.

There is no bigger turn off for me than a woman who smokes. It completely ruins any interest and the smell and taste is just disgusting (yes I had occasion to kiss a smoker a few times). My hard limit list doesn't have much on it, but smoking is there.

@RedInBed If it works for you that's great, but would an e-cig work? Maybe the nicotine can be removed somehow and then you can 'smoke' with no ill health effects or cloud of poison in your house.

My ex wife #2 used to really, REALLY enjoy "picking" me as she called it. It consisted of going over my skin especially back, buttocks, chest and legs with a needle and tweezers to open anything she thought looked unusual. Sometimes there were real things like pimples or blackheads but mostly she liked to free up what she thought were ingrown hairs. Occasionally I'd ask for it but usually it was an "I want to pick you tonight before bed" or similar, so I almost never declined. Other than the occasional excessive pinpricks, I actually enjoyed it too, and it never caused any folliculitis or increased inflammation or infections I could notice. It nearly always put her in the mood.

Eric

I really hate people smoking around me, let alone in bed with me! I'll never get that far with a smoker because I can't stand the taste/smell enough to kiss them, let alone fuck them.

I agree that it may look sexy to some, just like being dressed as an AB turns many here on, but smoking really puts me off, more so than a diaper would. All I can picture is stained fingers and teeth, a horsey cough and those vertical lines on a woman's upper lip.

I also agree with Susie, where smokers seem less intelligent to me, for some reason.

I once was on a date (which wasn't going too well to begin with) when she overestimated my like for her and decided to stick her tongue about a foot down my throat. My only response was "So you're a smoker..." Yes I'm a tad blunt, but there was nothing else to say. Needless to say, we haven't met up since.

Different people have different likes and dislikes but I'm with @JR3 and @SwitchableSusie. I'm a non-smoker myself and I was never interested in women who smoked. To me, everything about it was off-putting, and a complete turn-off.

But to answer the question...

What I am wondering is this; what is one thing you do for your significant other that you do not enjoy but do it solely for their pleasure?

There was a girlfriend who liked me to cut her toenails. I can't say it did anything for me, but she seemed to enjoy it.

This has never been a problem for me, because as soon as I smell stale smoke in her hair, the woman might as well be a man! I don't care if she looks fantastic, and has been a total turn-on to that point, she loses all sexual allure at that point.

This has never been a problem for me, because as soon as I smell stale smoke in her hair, the woman might as well be a man! I don't care if she looks fantastic, and has been a total turn-on to that point, she loses all sexual allure at that point.

That says it perfectly for me too.

I realized I didn't answer the question about something I do for my husband's pleasure that I do not enjoy doing. There are household chores that I do for him and me that I don't always enjoy, but I cannot think of anything I do specifically for his pleasure that I don't like to do.

Well, to each their own regarding the tobacco; I'm not terribly strict outside our home, and it's now socially unacceptable to smoke in someone else's home without permission. In our sexy play there isn't anything I do that doesn't turn me on too, it seems to be some kind of continuous feedback between us.

I think we've all heard, "Kissing a smoker is like licking an ashtray." 😧

I think we've all heard, "Kissing a smoker is like licking an ashtray." 😧

Worse - a warm, wet ashtray!! 😶

I am a smoker and have found many men and women that smoking or being with a smoker is an intrigue part of their sexual lifestyle and become highly aroused by being with a woman who is smoking. As a result I incorporate smoking into a number of sexual situations at their instance and for their benefit.

Worse - a warm, wet ashtray!!

Oh yummy, sounds very appealing! NOT

I am a smoker and have found many men and women that smoking or being with a smoker is an intrigue part of their sexual lifestyle and become highly aroused by being with a woman who is smoking. As a result I incorporate smoking into a number of sexual situations at their instance and for their benefit.

The people you are referring to must also be smokers.

I don't know any non-snokers who want to be around anyone who is smoking.

I quit smoking nearly 40 years ago and I guess I'm a little unusual in that I don't mind being in a room where others are smoking except for the fact that my clothes will stink later on. Someone smoking near me doesn't bother me at the time. However, I can't imagine kissing a girl who smokes, YUCK! Well not on the mouth anyway. Like that girl on the TV ad for The Bachelor says: "I thought he was going to kiss her in a different spot" I'd do that.

I can't think of any things I do for my wife that I don't like doing but I can and do know how to say NO so I suppose there aren't any. I guess the secret is if he/she doesn't like to do it ---- don't ask.

Nothing like smoking during sex that says: 'Ho hum, how boring, get it over with will ya?'

The more modern equivalent would probably be checking your smartphone during sex ...

Nothing like smoking during sex that says: 'Ho hum, how boring, get it over with will ya?'

The more modern equivalent would probably be checking your smartphone during sex ...

The perennially popular and obvious way for a woman to show she can't wait for it to be over is for her to be filing her nails during sex--no high technology required.

Oh, and the punch line to the joke about how you can tell a disinterested woman is having an orgasm is. . . . .

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she stops filing her nails for ten seconds.

A women who smokes is one of the biggest turnoffs for me, if not the biggest.

Oh Susie!!! That is so "Right on!!"

But then again, there is the opposite.......... The Sex researcher asks the woman,"Do You Smoke after Sex????"

Said she,"........ Oh really?...... I don't know,..... I never looked????

hhheeheheehehehhehehehehehe!!!!!!!!

with a kinky "KLICK!!!!!!,"

highwater

PS I should have warned you... I hope no one spewed their Bourbon and coke all over their keyboard!!!

Smoking during sex....means your going to fast...

Any form of smoking, chewing, etc. is a huge turn off for both my husband and myself. When younger and dating, if I discovered that my date was a smoker, that would be our last date together. Just not for me and I feel compassion for those that got hooked on tobacco or drugs in any form. Denise

Smoking during sex....means your going to fast...

or need more lube!

@SwitchableSusie said.. or need more lube!

Yes, it would be uncomfortable if you seized up and downright painful if you threw a rod!

I have people ask me to smoke cigars fairly often.