First time restrained

So I guess my next question is post an update here or make a new thread?

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I have put a LOT of ladies into 4 point restraints over the years (I like the Posey soft quilted restraints... petty much escape proof, yet easily transportable).

On rare occasions (I'd say I'm 99% dom) I get a very big, very soapy enema which is supposed to be held to orgasm. And I just have been unable to avoid helping out to speed things up. Restraints have kept my hands out of the way (or out of the action) and made this a much more effective process!

Thinking hard about being restrained. Find it exciting if you trust your dominant but know them well first and have many discussions about it

Was early 20s university party way too much drink. Group of us messing about ended up tied to a bed by my tights. Cannot recall much more until the morning.

Ok, so several have asked for a follow up. We went to the BBQ then next week; Hubby and I. We met up with our buddy and we had dinner and a few drinks... ok... a lot of drinks. One thing again led to another and again we went to the bedroom but this time the friend wanted to have vaginal sex with me and that was not ok. We had set clear boundaries prior to playing and he tried to violate them. Long story short, no restraints and no play. I'm all for playing and new experiences, but when clear boundaries are set and agreed upon they should be adhered to by all.

We had set clear boundaries prior to playing and he tried to violate them.

That's really a shame. To have a unique, pleasureful arrangement, upon which trust & respect are key ingredients. And he blew it. Where there was potential to have great follow up encounters gets blown because he doesn't know his place with a married woman. What a shame.

About 2 years ago I bought a beginner bondage / mistress kit cheap stuff like a thirty dollar thing from Adam and eve and a sttapon for my now ex girlfriend to tie me up and take my ass. She only did it once but it was great. We used the bondage cuffs like I put therm on but I was never tied up. Fast forward to this month we my current lady friend fingered me while we were having sex. It was amazing and I could really feel an increased orgasm. I expressed my interest in her tying me up and taking my culo with a strap on. I went out and bout paracord and a hook (the ones they use in rock climbing. Idk what they call it - Google says carabiner) so I used the paracord to tie to the cuffs and made it like the under the bed bondage kits. Needless to say she tied me up and even though she didn't bang me with the strap on she still fingered me and we had see. She loved it. I loved it. It was amazing.

@JTMac

Thanks for saying that. Definitely was not the night I was hoping for but glad to say I came out OK in the end with boundaries intact!

RedInBed, I totally loved your first-time story. It's highly stimulating!

I do not really recall first time... sure first time was some pathetic fake fluffy cuffs to bed posts.

First time proper restrained where at someone's mercy and I could not get self out was wrists lashed to bed frame and ropes on ankles.

It is a whole other level when truly restrained and that little scratch of doubt over what you have allowed to he down is at the back of your mind.

First time was in the ICU at the hospital , I was a lot out of it and was pulling my tubes out ,they tried soft restraints, they didn't work ,I was a regular Houdini. On went the hard leather and being I was going thru what's called cascade MOF which is multiple organ failure. After they strapped me down ,and tried anesthetic doses of every drug that wouldn't kill me , they were out of options and had to start moving other patients out of the ICU because they couldn't get me to stop screaming . I was keeping the other patients from resting despite giving them all more sedatives , I don't have a lot of memories of this whole thing. However my wife and the nurses filled me in on the blank spots. That hospital stay bill nearly qualified me to be "Steve Austin" ( The six million dollar man) . I was on every life support method more than once and in ICU for 6 months, graduating from the hospital after a total of 8 months .I certainly don't recommend the experience unless you are really desperate to be tied up . I never got any time to decide if I liked it I was way too out of it .

Had an ex girlfriend tie up My arms and legs to the bed . She gave me a slow 2 quart enema fill . I was forced to hold it while she gave me head but she teased me for a while I really don't remember how long it was before she let me have an orgasm. We only did that a couple times before we broke up.

I started restraining my friends to the kitchen chairs in the family room when I was a child with my jump ropes. After a while, I got really good at it. A few times I had some serious explaining to do to my parents and got a good talking to and warning from my parents that no clothes could be removed. My mother had a feeling about where I was going with this.

The first time I was restrained, it was by my husband at my parent's house while we were in college and my parents weren't home. It was an exciting event because I had tied him up numerous times (I AM THE DOMME) and this was a first for me. I also trusted him completely. He is not the only man who has ever restrained me, but he has been present when other men have done it, and only then it was because I was giving a couple of our male friends (NOT at the same time) "domination and bondage" lessons. Several women have tied me up, but the experience was different and less threatening than when men did it, and I am certain the experience would have been even more threatening if my husband had not been present in the house at the time. Being tied up by a woman was just a matter of giving up control, while being restrained by a man has significantly more potential danger of injury and rape involved, and yes, I know rape can be a lot of fun if you just lay back and relax while it's being done to you.

It was towards the end of my first marriage and to try and save it, we thought having “open relationships” might help so we went to party which could loosely be called a swingers party.

I was getting on well with a couple and she asked if I would like to make love to her husband, I agreed so we went up upstairs. I was a bit shocked that she was joining us, but I had had a few drinks so I thought what the hell. Hands wandered on top and then beneath clothing and it was going well when he climbed on top of me and started to run his hands up my arms. As soon as my hands were at the top of the bed, whilst pinning me down his wife got a cord from somewhere and tied me hands to the bedstead and then she did the same for my feet.

The door was open and by now several people had entered the room. The man got off me and the wife undid my summer dress leaving me laying there in my underwear. Next she produced a pair of scissors and cut the centre part of my bra and the side of my knickers leaving me naked. By know I was scared, but getting turned on not being in control of my body and they were all over my body. Whilst one played with my breasts the other would lick my pussy.

Every time I started to ride the wave of an orgasm, they would stop leaving me frustrated and crying out for more. and in the end the man penetrated me whilst the woman played with my breast and the sex was terrific.

We repeated the experience several times during our marriage, sometimes with my husband sometimes penetrating the woman but it did not save the marriage.

As soon as my hands were at the top of the bed, whilst pinning me down his wife got a cord from somewhere and tied me hands to the bedstead and then she did the same for my feet.

The door was open and by now several people had entered the room. The man got off me and the wife undid my summer dress leaving me laying there in my underwear. Next she produced a pair of scissors and cut the centre part of my bra and the side of my knickers leaving me naked. By know I was scared, but getting turned on not being in control of my body and they were all over my body. Whilst one played with my breasts the other would lick my pussy.

That was certainly a cock hardening account, if I ever read one !

Have you been tied up since ? If so, whose idea was it.

I guess you went home commando and braless.

It was towards the end of my first marriage and to try and save it, we thought having “open relationships” might help so we went to party which could loosely be called a swingers party.

I was getting on well with a couple and she asked if I would like to make love to her husband, I agreed so we went up upstairs. I was a bit shocked that she was joining us, but I had had a few drinks so I thought what the hell. Hands wandered on top and then beneath clothing and it was going well when he climbed on top of me and started to run his hands up my arms. As soon as my hands were at the top of the bed, whilst pinning me down his wife got a cord from somewhere and tied me hands to the bedstead and then she did the same for my feet.

The door was open and by now several people had entered the room. The man got off me and the wife undid my summer dress leaving me laying there in my underwear. Next she produced a pair of scissors and cut the centre part of my bra and the side of my knickers leaving me naked. By know I was scared, but getting turned on not being in control of my body and they were all over my body. Whilst one played with my breasts the other would lick my pussy.

Every time I started to ride the wave of an orgasm, they would stop leaving me frustrated and crying out for more. and in the end the man penetrated me whilst the woman played with my breast and the sex was terrific.

We repeated the experience several times during our marriage, sometimes with my husband sometimes penetrating the woman but it did not save the marriage.

It was towards the end of my first marriage and to try and save it, we thought having “open relationships” might help so we went to party which could loosely be called a swingers party.

I was getting on well with a couple and she asked if I would like to make love to her husband, I agreed so we went up upstairs. I was a bit shocked that she was joining us, but I had had a few drinks so I thought what the hell. Hands wandered on top and then beneath clothing and it was going well when he climbed on top of me and started to run his hands up my arms. As soon as my hands were at the top of the bed, whilst pinning me down his wife got a cord from somewhere and tied me hands to the bedstead and then she did the same for my feet.

The door was open and by now several people had entered the room. The man got off me and the wife undid my summer dress leaving me laying there in my underwear. Next she produced a pair of scissors and cut the centre part of my bra and the side of my knickers leaving me naked. By know I was scared, but getting turned on not being in control of my body and they were all over my body. Whilst one played with my breasts the other would lick my pussy.

Every time I started to ride the wave of an orgasm, they would stop leaving me frustrated and crying out for more. and in the end the man penetrated me whilst the woman played with my breast and the sex was terrific.

We repeated the experience several times during our marriage, sometimes with my husband sometimes penetrating the woman but it did not save the marriage.

very horny story.

It wasn't until my wife told me a story of the time she had an affair with a friend. The very first time they got together he tied her up, clipped clothespins on her nipples then fucked her. This made me/us horny as hell and we reenacted the event. B&D became part of our sex play menu. We tied each other in various positions, used dildos, cloths pins on each other. She also got tit slapped with hands tied behind her back. I got cock slapped. I bought a book on rope bondage to do it properly. Haven't done this in years, maybe it's time to try it again.

My first time was with Velcro straps to the bed. This setup ram under the mattress. a ball gag was used as well. It led to masturbation as well as intercourse. I would like to try and vacbed and simply just being encased in some kind of latex/rubber like material while being restrained.

Some many years ago while in FL on a business trip and long before CL shut down its personals, I had occasion to meet two women who said they were staritng out their effort at being Dommes. Lets just say either they were very bad, or I am no sub (which is the real fact) but I could not help but laugh in their presence at their diligence and earnestness to tie me up. It did absolutely nothing for me except to wonder about all those men I see who serve femdoms and pay a lot of money too. Especially when I know the Domme feels nothing towards their sub except as a bank.