Can others speak normally just before and after a spanking?

My wife wants me to control my self and speak normally as I am about to be spanked and just after my spankings. I just can not, I speak in a whiny little boy voice. Does this happen to others?

I think it's likely a normal thing for you, as you are regressing instinctively to when you were little boy and spanked... You should be able to train it out of yourself, perhaps by your wife treating you like a teenager rather than a little boy, if she is treating you like a little boy that is (but considering her complaints that seems unlikely)... A moment of regressing for some of us is part of the appeal of spanking.... Dad being in control, knowing after it is all over everything will be fine. But I am full cognizant to the fact we are all very different, indeed i have had play that was not Daddy boy in nature and the dynamics are still enjoyable for me just not my ideal...

I think its only time to worry when you start speaking in tongues !???

This is your kink, and your fantasy. If the Mrs isn't catering to it, you have the wrong authority figure spanking you. Good on you for involving her, and on her for trying, but if she refuses to allow you to act it all out, including your preferred age, then either abandon it or find a new disciplinarian. Plenty of Dommes out there who will understand and accommodate your needs, probably a lot better than you're even hoping for...

Just because you're married to her doesn't mean she gets to dictate what turns you on, or doesn't.

When my wife is so outraged by my behavior that a bare ass paddling is the way to settle things--I know I

got it coming and its naked butt and it hurts plenty but it never changes my voice at all --- I admit I do some spank pleas when she is paddling my butt just stuff like "I'm sorry" "It hurts" otherwise it just has to happen we both know it never an argument about the fact a paddling has to settle things