Who else is obsessed with spanking?

Count me in !!! I was spanked as a kid (and well earned back then). Being raised by my aunt in a female household, it was always administered bare bottom usually over the knee or bent over the bed. My cousins all girls were older then I and were usually present when the spanking was given. My aunt would have them there to witness. She would usually sit down on an armless chair. I would be made to stand in front of her with my hands on my head. She would un do my belt and zipper and pull my pants down to my knees. She would keep the underwear on until I was over her knee. Then she would pull down the underwear baring my buttocks but shielding my front from view. Then she would lecture me as the cool breeze was felt on my buttocks. Then after the lecture was over she would raise her hand high and start the spanking. My cousins would be giggling as my buttocks went from pale white to bright red. As I got older, I would get hard between the stinging of the spanking and knowing that my hot cousins were watching the spanking.

As I got older, just the suggestion of a spanking makes me get so hot that I am totally obsessed with being over a lady's lap awaiting what's about to come.

Never really been spanked as hard as I think I would like to be. Obsessed? No. Very interested? Hell yes.

I know that when I'm stressed at home or especially at work a good spanking will help me become more relaxed, respectful of my co-workers, adults in general, be much more cooperative and easy to work with, so when stressed I obsessive about getting a good spanking. Works for me.

I'm pretty obsessed with it. I was spanked some as a kid and hated it. But I was always curious to hear about other kids' spankings and always paid attention to any mention of it in books, TV and movies. Now I spank women I go out with, as well as casually for women who need it for discipline or just because they can't get the thought out of their head. I'll occasionally get a spanking too. All of my spankings tend to be over the knee with the hand in layers (pants/underwear/bare), but sometimes it's straight to the bare butt for more discipline related spankings or if I think she really needs it.

Yes so do I, it really turns me on.

I'm spanked by my wife regularly and I asked her to do it. I love being spanked so yes I'm obsessed

NESpanker,

"I too am obsessed with spanking. I don't really know why. At some point in my life, I eroticized spanking. God knows why. I hated the spankings I got as a kid!"

Which presents my confusion. I still more or less hate or really don't like being spanked except very lightly during an enema, and even then it's only a very mild aphrodisiac. Most pain is an instant erection/arousal killer for me. So since you hated it before and something happened to change it, what do you get out of a spanking now? Arousal from pain? Submission? I'm about totally confused about what the appeal could be. Can you enlighten us, or at least me?

OTOH, I'm more or less obsessed with the erotic potential and power of an enema, rubber clothing, sneakers, and being tied up and dominated by my Domme partner, so go figure.

Thanks,

Eric

I think you're just into what you're into. I've learned to stop trying to make sense of it. People who were spanked as kids are sometimes into spanking. Sometimes people who never got spanked as kids are totally into it. And the general population as a whole past a certain age was spanked more often than not and most of them are not into spanking. So go figure.

But enemas? Yeah, for me that's about the least sexy thing I can imagine. No appeal whatsoever, but it's unbelievably popular on here it seems. So you got me. Would I have a predilection towards it had I gotten them as a kid? Maybe. But I think we're just into what we're into.

I was never spanked by my parents, but I have been obsessed with it since I first saw a spanking on the cartoons. I witnessed a couple of my friends get spanked and while I felt sorry for them, I also found it to be quite stimulating. My father is from England and my grandparents sent him weekly mailings with the sports pages. They started to include comics for me, and I was always pleased to see some boy getting spanked with a slipper at home or the cane at school. When I got to Junior High, I would look up articles about spanking in the Readers Guide and fill out the slip with the citation so I could read the article. These were usually about school spankings, and while the thought of me getting spanked by a teacher or principal was off putting, I enjoyed reading about others getting it. I had watched Animal House with my best friend and I obsessed about fraternity paddlings. When I went to college, my parents forbid me from joining a fraternity as they considered them to be an impediment to academic achievement. My parents were very cool about most things and even bought beer for me from 18-21 so I didn't argue with them. Friends of mine that did join fraternities talked about sleep deprivation, being forced to drink microwaved beer, and having fire extinguishers turned on them. I didn't hear much about spanking or paddling though. To this day spanking is one of the first things I think about in the morning, one of the last things I think of at night, and often the subject of my dreams. Yeah I am obsessed.

It looks like men way outnumber women when it comes to spanking at least based on the postings. I only got whooped once by my dad with a belt. Just that one whooping had a lasting impression on me. My parents were not into spanking. After that one whooping, I would crave it over time. I think in time I found it erotic and I would fantasize about it. Then you think to yourself that you must be weird about fantasizing about being spanked. Was it the sensation of having deep sexual nerves stimulated by the spanking or is it the feeling of losing control that adds to the stimulation or all the brain chemicals that are released during soanking. For me, I think it is all the above. I just get such a high from a spanking. I never got an enema until I was 30 years old from my husband. Enemas never crossed my mind. But once I tried one, I was hook on the physical and emotional sensations.

Yes, spanking and all CP play, I think about it in some form nearly every day, especially when I see a nice looking bum...

I have been fascinated forever - primarily the whole mental/mindset involved. The ritual, build up, anticipation, anxiety. Calm, controlled - strict and caring. Even the simple expressions and dialogue involved can be powerful. Those aspects have fascinated me for years.

I have a lovely 1.5 inch-wide bridle leather belt that is perfect for warming naughty backsides. I've been told by multiple spankees that the jangle of the buckle and the whoosh of it being pulled out is huge in building anticipation of the strapping they are about to receive. I will be wearing it when I meet with my own disciplinarian in a few weeks and I am hopeful that she will seize the opportunity to apply it to my own bare cheeks.

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Im obsessed with spanking adult females and its on my mind more than anything else in life, always looking for a butt to spank

Not only do I love a long, hard spanking, especially with a paddle, but I love the ritual of stripping and getting in position. Usually I’m bent over the bed, feet apart. He lays the paddle across my back while he feels how wet I am and tells me how many swats I’m getting. Once he begins, I count out loud.

A nice well-carved ginger plug slipped into her anus before a warm wooden hairbrush spanking can certainly enhance the intensity and arousal of the moment.

I do and I just love to be over the knee of the person spanking my bum with his hand, thick wooden hairbrush or paddle.

I do think about spanking a lot! At least once a day or more, my mind just drifts to getting spanked, or thinking about someone else getting spanked. Very rarely, but sometimes, I think about someone I see in real life getting spanked, or spanking me! (Usually tall men with large hands, haha.)

I love spanking and think about it daily . Growing up, I always enjoyed playing with my bottom, rectal temp, etc.

in my teens I started going to bookstores in NYC and viewing the erotic section , especially BDSM and erotic/sensual M/M spankings. At the gym/sauna when I was around 18-19 , I remember older men undressing and admiring their bottoms and think about spankings. I also loved pictures of Bare breasted or women in bras and panties giving men an over the knee spanking.

I remember once when I was around 19-20 on a trip, I was using the hotel sauna nude after using the gym/weights. I remember taking off my underwear and entering the sauna , and there was an older guy with a beautiful butt , he was turned around so I saw his bottom right when I entered. I immediately got a huge erection and was mortified but didn’t know what to do as he was basically adjusting his towel on the bench and then turned around. I looked away but I saw he was def looking at my cock ,and he made a few more adjustments showing me his bottom (definitely on purpose a few more times ).

I've been obsessed with spanking since 1968. I was in primary school then and that was when I first felt the urge to be smacked by a girl.

I have to confess i have a real obsession with the strap (as administered in uk schools) - i was told about it by older relatives when i was younger and i fantasised about it for years before finally getting an authentic strapping a number of years back. In case anybody isn't sure - it hurts like hell xxx

I guess you should count me in among the "obsessed" with spanking. I was never given a spanking as a child, and the adult ones I have had were mostly in my mind! My primary obsession though, is diapers: Pinning them on, admiring them in the mirror, pulling up my plastic pants, then admiring the new look in the mirror, even washing the used ones and then folding and putting them in the stack to be used again... well, you get the picture.

The reason I bring this aspect of my life up is that as I read the thread, I began to wonder how all those spankos felt about diapers. I am increasingly of the opinion that almost all diaper wearers are into spanking, but fewer spankos are into diapers. Maybe I'm way off base on all of this, who knows? Any thoughts? Should this be a different thread?

Weigh in if you feel like it!

Absolutely. It's pretty much my only fetish.

I first realised I had an obsessive interest back in my school days. I went to a UK school which used corporal punishment but not excessively, and felt it on two occasions - very painful and not fun at all. At the time, I thought I was weird but thanks to the internet I realised I am far from unique.

It's not a sexual thing for me, and my interest lies in real "punishment" rather than erotic-play. A spanking should hurt - a lot. Otherwise, why bother.

That said, it's an activity that should be left to consenting adults only.

I don't mind a little playful spanking now and then. Actually I dated a lady years ago who surprised me with her comments about spanking. When I called her out on any error she had made, her response was " Oh, I deserve a spanking" or "Are you going to spank me?" Once I said I'd take her over my knee when we were goofing around about something and she replied "Promise?" I did introduce some light spanking into our lovemaking, and she really did enjoy it! Nothing painful, just for fun!

Not obsessed or even experienced. But I’m thinking about it more and more. From a receiving point of view.

I enjoy spanking and being spanked all within the limits discuss beforehand. It should be a mutual experience enjoyed by both.

I guess you could call it being obsessed..... I think about it all the time. When I am out I may see a female derriere that I would love to spank. I think humiliation and embarrassment go hand in hand.

I've always thought about it when I see a female who I would love to spank my derriere.

I am. Everyday I think myself as a 12 years old and getting the spanking of my life, bare bottom, with the hand, over the knees.