Joined a sex (swingers) club as a single lady

I've had a terrible dry spell lately. Don't want a boyfriend, just a serviceable erection on an OK guy.

I was talking about it with my best girlfriend, who told me she goes to a club. I was SHOCKED.

In my best version of clubbing clothes we went downtown on Friday. We went right at opening time, so I could get a feel for the place. The bar, the bondage room, lots of party rooms with just mattresses, showers...I felt like I was in a movie set.

I was a little shocked to see two young ladies fellating all comers, and lots of nudity, but I was getting comfortable.

Guys started approaching us. Lots of them, but not aggressively. I thought it would be much more 'hard sell'.

Eleven o'clock- a staff member told us we had to get naked, or in lingerie. Guys had to wear a towel. I only had my street clothes, so...I got naked!!!! Me... White bread, vanilla me.

Long story short, met a cute guy, and we jumped on a mattress, in a room full of people. Then, my best friend joined us!! We got busy, and after a while, I thought, in for a penny...i got on all fours and we had anal (my total favorite). After we both orgasmed, I rested, buns up, face down. When I finally looked up, we were surrounded by guys, just watching. It was the hottest thing I had ever been part of. We had sex again, drew a crowd again, then we reluctantly went home.

Talk about smashing inhibitions. My first time naked in public. I had anal sex with a stranger...twice! I had a group of like 6 guys no further than four feet away watching me.

Most important, I discovered I have a serious exhibishionist streak. I loved being watched. Even rethinking it three days later, I get excited thinking about sex in a public place! I'm going back Friday.

Anybody else tried an on-premises sex club? Is it a turn on to be watched?

Well, it sounds like the '70s are alive and well. You've just described any weekend at the baths in any major city at that time.

Well, it sounds like the '70s are alive and well. You've just described any weekend at the baths in any major city at that time.

Let's not forget Plato's Retreat NYC from 1977 to 85!

Even as a kid when I was too young to go, I fantasized about going there.

I'm bad.

Sounds like a ton of fun, damn I need to check something like that out.

Let's not forget Plato's Retreat NYC from 1977 to 85!

Even as a kid when I was too young to go, I fantasized about going there.

I was a grown up then and I fantasized about going there too. But there was a whole ocean in between ... ha ha.

A (female) friend of mine once took a trip to New York and went there or to another similar club. She liked to hang out with a group of gay friends and they all went. She described participating in some mild bondage stuff, but nothing in the way of real penetrative physical sex with a partner though. Or maybe she didn't care to tell.

Sadly though, one of her gay friends, who I also happened to know from the university, contracted HIV at a time when there was no treatment. He was an early fatality here in Belgium. We surmised he'd caught it from going to places like Plato's Retreat or other more gay sex clubs in NY or SF. No one could be certain of course, but it seemed likely enough, especially in the days of casual, unprotected sex.

I would love to do that. No sex clubs near me. I'll have to look one up when I travel.

You would be surprised as to how many swingers clubs there actually are and in areas that you would not expect them. They are classified in two main ways "Off Premise" where you play in a hotel room or another site and "On Premise" where there are areas that you can play at the club in either Private, semi-private or public areas. As in anything the quality of the clubs varies, some are very good others are not.

If you go on line there are websites similar this one where you can meet up with people who are of a like persuasion and they usually have a list of clubs. One of these sites is swingerslifestyle.

Sites like this will also give you information about the clubs and the basic rules for the swinging lifestyle.

Believe me there are rules that if you break them will get you removed from the club.

Regarding the OP. I certainly hope you used condoms. There's a world of trouble out there.

Usually at "On Premise" clubs condoms, packets of single use lube, materials for post play clean up are provided. Condom use is encouraged and use is generally expected. In this day and age "Safe Sex" is generally practiced and when meeting people one on one they ask that you be D and D (Drug and Disease free). Not being honest about this can result in an STD going through a club and is the best way to get yourself banned from all of the clubs. They do talk to each other.

Safe sex is of utmost importance when having sex with strangers. Condoms, don't share lube, and a whole lot of common sense, as in- stay sober! Apperently, the protocol for a gangbang is to ask a non participant as a spotter, to watch that condoms stay on. Getting lost in the moment, or if you are in a sling makes keeping track of condom use difficult. A good rule. My recurring fantasy of mine is anal sex with multiple partners (5 sounds perfect). It has remained a fantasy for years, but now I have a place it could happen...Hmmm.