Parental Spanking into later Years

Even when I started dating and actually got married our spanking sessions continued! My wife, we both spanked and still do spank each other, was very happy with the arrangement! She would often watch me getting spanked; taking some tips from Aunt Rose who was the consummate spanker! She and Aunt Rose would spank each other, as well!

So a spanking trio. Interesting and probably fun too.

Still, I can't help wondering what early sex researchers (like Kraft-Ebbing and such) would have thought about it. Under which of their list of perversions it would fall under? Remember that back then oral, anal and same-sex activities were all lumped under the heading of 'perversions' ... ha ha

It certainly was fun, agracier! And yes in an 'objective' and 'technical' sense, a 'perversion', I suppose! I never had a problem with admitting that! LOL

I'm 19f, and my mom still spanks me. I live at home for college so there hasn't been a clean break or whatever at 18, life doesn't feel much different than 17 tbh. I've got it all my life, I don't feel it is super weird and honestly accept sometimes I deserve it.

This is all fascinating but foreign to me. My parents never touched me, didn’t hug much for that matter. Punishments were lectures and silence.

Hard to visualize a 20-something being spanked bare bottom by a parent but I’m enjoying the fantasy 🫣😁

I’m increasingly interested in spankings from reading in Zity.

This is all fascinating but foreign to me. My parents never touched me, didn’t hug much for that matter. Punishments were lectures and silence.

Same here. And add being obviously annoyed in their attitude towards you while ignoring you if you tried to say something. Never any yelling either. More like stony silence. The classic 'I'm disappointed in you' tactic.

@emmaspankedgirl you say, on being spanked, you can honestly say you sometimes deserve it. I'm wondering what, if any benefits you might identify for yourself, your family? Or, are there no benefits?

Thanks, Tom

Wow - sounds interesting...

Yes, indeed, my Aunt Rose was a spanko, for sure! My cousins often heard my Uncle Frank spanking her as a prelude to sex! She was often heard uttering fake protests as he spanked her; "No Daddy, please no"! LOL Often after one or more of their kids had received a spanking they would go to the bedroom for sex! In my case, even as a kid/teenager some of the spankings, from Aunt Rose, were 'fun' ones as opposed to the purely punishment spankings! These 'fun' spankings still stung plenty and heated my butt up but the burning hot throb was not as intense as it would be from a genuine punishment spanking! As I got older, once the spanking was over, I started to become sexually aroused by the warm, tingling feeling, once the intense throbbing burn had subsided, radiating from my bottom! The consequence of this was that I started to actually enjoy some of these 'fun' spankings to the extent that I even began flirting with my Aunt so as to bring them about! She quickly realised what was going on and it became a sort of game between us! As adults this, naturally, continued and we engaged in continual consensual spankings! Both of us spanking each other!

@Thomas893 for me it helps me improve myself especially for stuff I don’t notice I’m doing wrong, and helps relieve guilt for stuff I do know wrong. For mom I think it helps like diffuse the tension when stuff is going wrong and let us quickly deal with things and go back to normal family life

@emmaspankedgirl Thanks for the reply. I sure don't think spanking into later years is good for all, or even very many, but I'm interested in how, for some, it works. At the core of working I think is a trusting, loving, strong relationship between mother and daughter/son to start with. I say mother as I think when it works it will more likely work between a mother and offspring than a father. Not impossible with dads. Especially single parent dads, but not as likely.

A question I meant to ask, and I apologize for not doing so: If you could choose between being spanked by your mom at your age, or not, how would you vote?

Thanks, Tom

@Thomas893 I think it is more good than bad for me in the end so I would vote to keep it (and obv since I am an adult I must mean that, or I could make it stop I think)

@emmaspankedgirl Again, thanks for your interesting reply. Good point you made about, being an adult, you could/might be able to stop the spankings so obviously you are voting each time to get it.

There could be at least three reasons for baring your bottom and presenting it for a spanking. One would be at some level you felt you deserved it, you wanted to clear the air between you and your mom (dad too) and you thought a spanking would help you be a better, nicer, person. The second might be that you took the spanking in a sort of trade for something else. For example, you had no job, no money, needed to live at home and being spanked was the price you had to pay to have food and a roof over your head. That sort of thing. The third would be a mixture of one and two.

My feeling is you accept spanking mainly for the first reason but also, a small bit of the second. I hope you don't mind my asking if you'd agree with this guess of mine. Then, if the first is the primary reason you take the spankings would you say you're spanked more than is needed by you, about the right amount, or too often?

Warm wishes for a great day!

Tom

Qui in Italia per chi è appassionato come me di clisteri e sculacciate di ragazze/donne sono molto sfortunato.