How were you introduced to bdsm? Is there a special event or experience you remember?
Total: 59

Spanked at School

No question here. At a private elementary schoo…
I went to school in the mid ‘80’s …
2022.10.22

Did anyone ask for spankings growing up?

My father and grandmother were pretty strict ab…
Never verbally asked for one but o…
2022.09.30

How i got into BDSM

My first memories of anything like it was when …
Having my tight foreskin forcibly …
2022.07.20

Childhood spanking discussions

I know some people on here started this fetish …
Any personal quality you dislike c…
2022.07.19

When did you start dominating

Wondering how did You start a career/first time…
Interesting conversation. In my op…
2022.06.30

When did spanking implements stop being so…

In many countries, implements for the corporal …
During my childhood in the 1970s a…
2022.06.04

That special visit to Aunt Sara's in the c…

I was about thirteen when my mother thought I n…
My parents had friends that owned …
2022.04.17

Mother's Punishment

Mother's punishment did it for me. It's weird h…
Like jackinbx, I hadn't perused th…
2021.08.22

How i discovered bondage

I was about 5 and use to like playing cops and …
Beingtied up or tying someone else…
2021.07.10

Watching my sisters spankings

Gave me a spanking fetish for life dad spanked …
We have all been able to witness t…
2021.04.25

It started when I was a kid

My dad used to read Water and Power. I was curi…
Yes that magazine was an awakenin…
2020.12.28

I'll give you something to cry about

How many remember hearing that infamous phrase …
Yep, that was said ("I'll give you…
2020.11.15

Do you get an erection when you are told t…

When I was growing up, I was always required to…
I was also spanked as a child. Bro
2020.09.25

Why I love spanking and caning

I got my fair share of punishments at school bu…
When my mother spanked me with a w…
2020.06.11

Sister play

I have 3 older sisters and one younger sister. …
Growing up I had one sister who wa…
2020.06.07

Fetish clothing

Leather, latex, pvc and vinyl outfits and boots…
Yes, I Love Wearing Leather, For P…
2020.05.09

How it Started for me.

I was invited on a fishing weekend in South Wal…
An interesting introduction. You o…
2020.04.19

Start of a bondage novice

I have always been interested so in my later ye…
For me, i must have been 8 to 10 y…
2020.03.24

Teenage boyfriend

When I was 15 I had anal sex for the first time…
When I was 15 I had anal sex for the first time…
2020.03.16

The games that children will play...

I couldn't really express what the motivation w…
The imaginary games the neighborho…
2019.12.28

I knew early I was submissive

I didn't have the words to describe what I was …
I guess it has a lot to do with my…
2019.08.27

The commencement of my journey down the ra…

I had just achieved my sixteenth birthday and I…
I had just achieved my sixteenth birthday and I…
2019.08.27

How it started for me

Long ago, well before the Internet, back in the…
I was always sexually active and i…
2019.08.03

How I was introduced to BDSM

Well I always liked the idea of discipline by m…
Not sure mine is ok for the site …
2019.07.28

First Interest in spanking

I'm interested in it but not obsessed by it. So…
I first became interested in spank…
2019.04.11

My first munch

I'm going to a munch tomorrow evening, and I'm …
Anyone have any recommendations on…
2019.03.27

Masturbating to spanking sounds

A little confession. I remember, when I was a k…
I saw a few spankings while growin…
2018.10.15

How it started for me

There are a number of experiences that potentia…
My mother spanked me on the bare b…
2018.08.29

How my desire to be dominanted by a woman …

I was always attracted to BBW type of women, th…
I like women of any shape or size …
2018.07.09

From medical need to pleasure

A few years ago I was told to try and use a TEN…
A few years ago I was told to try and use a TEN…
2018.06.05

Cowboys and Indians

Hi everyone, well it all started for me when I …
It's too bad Julie left. That was …
2018.03.30

How it all started

The enjoyment of pain and pushing your personal…
I discovered my nipples at age 8 w…
2018.03.02

Understanding an experience that started i…

My name is Margo and I'm new here. During my te…
Margo I too feel for you I was als…
2017.08.12

Have no real idea how it started for me

I do however remember being in second grade and…
I first got paddled by my 2nd grad…
2017.04.18

Role playing

I remember a few incidents before this, but whe…
I have a very similar fantasy woma…
2017.01.02

I Can't Remember

I really can't remember how it all started for …
Same here! All I do remember is th…
2016.04.28

My start in BDSM

Always had an interest in BDSM but like many ot…
^^^^^ Susie, I am amazed! What a …
2015.05.02

Intro to BDSM

My first experiences were rather horrific. I w…
As one of the things I do is to DM…
2014.12.22

Where and when did your fetish start

Personally my fetish started at a very early ag…
I was in the hospital and i was 6…
2014.08.17

How it started for me'............

I never knew I was into submission and just a b…
I never knew I was into submission and just a b…
2013.12.07

How it started

For me, it was a boyfriend when I was in my tee…
For me, it was a boyfriend when I was in my tee…
2013.09.26

How it started

I had a teacher in sixth grade, in a locality w…
That is exactly the grade in schoo…
2013.09.09

How it started for me

I have several memories from as a child but I a…
I'm not sure how it started. When…
2013.08.09

Once upon a time

It all started for me when I met the right girl…
It all started for me when I met the right girl…
2013.07.30

I have no idea how it started...

I just thought of stuff and the internet sort o…
I just thought of stuff and the internet sort o…
2013.07.05

At a young age . . .

. . . it seems like there was always a girl who…
I don't remember any of us fightin…
2013.06.21

My Awakening

This is not so much how I got started in BDSM, …
This is not so much how I got started in BDSM, …
2013.05.07

First Experience Bondage

It was with my girl friend at the time(later my…
I had a guy that wanted me to do a…
2013.04.13

How it all started for me

I had always been interested in the subject af …
I have always enjoyed being held d…
2013.03.11

It started with a good back scratch...

So a few years ago I met this guy that was real…
So a few years ago I met this guy that was real…
2012.07.29

It started before I can remember

I didn't realize this until I read the posts bu…
Rockdoc is absolutely correct abou…
2012.07.19

Pirates

Playing Pirates with my female cousin. It invol…
Donald, that seems like an amazin…
2012.04.16

Wooden spoon spanking

When I was six years old we moved house. there …
The old wooden spoon. I got it tha…
2012.01.30

My intro to bdsm

Many years ago my wife tied me to the bed and t…
I did a light frontal spanking on …
2011.12.29

My husband started it

My husband started it in a very shocking way...…
Great starting point roughplay
2011.10.24