How were you introduced to bdsm? Is there a special event or experience you remember?
Total: 62

Do you get an erection when you are told t…

When I was growing up, I was always required to…
Just the very mention of an enema …
7 hours ago

Spanking implements; some excite, some are…

Don't know why; but some spanking implements I …
Anything spanking me is usually a …
4 days ago

Spanked at School

No question here. At a private elementary schoo…
My family moved to the deep south …
1 month ago

Motivation for Domination

What motivates you to erotically dominate someo…
Being somewhat of a control-freak.…
2 months ago

Childhood spanking discussions

I know some people on here started this fetish …
I adamantly stand against any drif…
7 months ago

Humiliated at school

I first started to realise I was into humiliati…
I first started to realise I was into humiliati…
8 months ago

How it Started for me.

I was invited on a fishing weekend in South Wal…
@Fosterboy looking forward to hear…
10 months ago

Did anyone ask for spankings growing up?

My father and grandmother were pretty strict ab…
Never verbally asked for one but o…
12 months ago

How i got into BDSM

My first memories of anything like it was when …
Having my tight foreskin forcibly …
1 year ago

When did you start dominating

Wondering how did You start a career/first time…
Interesting conversation. In my op…
1 year ago

When did spanking implements stop being so…

In many countries, implements for the corporal …
During my childhood in the 1970s a…
1 year ago

That special visit to Aunt Sara's in the c…

I was about thirteen when my mother thought I n…
My parents had friends that owned …
1 year ago

Mother's Punishment

Mother's punishment did it for me. It's weird h…
Like jackinbx, I hadn't perused th…
2021.08.22

How i discovered bondage

I was about 5 and use to like playing cops and …
Beingtied up or tying someone else…
2021.07.10

Watching my sisters spankings

Gave me a spanking fetish for life dad spanked …
We have all been able to witness t…
2021.04.25

It started when I was a kid

My dad used to read Water and Power. I was curi…
Yes that magazine was an awakenin…
2020.12.28

I'll give you something to cry about

How many remember hearing that infamous phrase …
Yep, that was said ("I'll give you…
2020.11.15

Why I love spanking and caning

I got my fair share of punishments at school bu…
When my mother spanked me with a w…
2020.06.11

Sister play

I have 3 older sisters and one younger sister. …
Growing up I had one sister who wa…
2020.06.07

Fetish clothing

Leather, latex, pvc and vinyl outfits and boots…
Yes, I Love Wearing Leather, For P…
2020.05.09

Start of a bondage novice

I have always been interested so in my later ye…
For me, i must have been 8 to 10 y…
2020.03.24

Teenage boyfriend

When I was 15 I had anal sex for the first time…
When I was 15 I had anal sex for the first time…
2020.03.16

The games that children will play...

I couldn't really express what the motivation w…
The imaginary games the neighborho…
2019.12.28

I knew early I was submissive

I didn't have the words to describe what I was …
I guess it has a lot to do with my…
2019.08.27

The commencement of my journey down the ra…

I had just achieved my sixteenth birthday and I…
I had just achieved my sixteenth birthday and I…
2019.08.27

How it started for me

Long ago, well before the Internet, back in the…
I was always sexually active and i…
2019.08.03

How I was introduced to BDSM

Well I always liked the idea of discipline by m…
Not sure mine is ok for the site …
2019.07.28

First Interest in spanking

I'm interested in it but not obsessed by it. So…
I first became interested in spank…
2019.04.11

My first munch

I'm going to a munch tomorrow evening, and I'm …
Anyone have any recommendations on…
2019.03.27

Masturbating to spanking sounds

A little confession. I remember, when I was a k…
I saw a few spankings while growin…
2018.10.15

How it started for me

There are a number of experiences that potentia…
My mother spanked me on the bare b…
2018.08.29

How my desire to be dominanted by a woman …

I was always attracted to BBW type of women, th…
I like women of any shape or size …
2018.07.09

From medical need to pleasure

A few years ago I was told to try and use a TEN…
A few years ago I was told to try and use a TEN…
2018.06.05

Cowboys and Indians

Hi everyone, well it all started for me when I …
It's too bad Julie left. That was …
2018.03.30

How it all started

The enjoyment of pain and pushing your personal…
I discovered my nipples at age 8 w…
2018.03.02

Understanding an experience that started i…

My name is Margo and I'm new here. During my te…
Margo I too feel for you I was als…
2017.08.12

Have no real idea how it started for me

I do however remember being in second grade and…
I first got paddled by my 2nd grad…
2017.04.18

Role playing

I remember a few incidents before this, but whe…
I have a very similar fantasy woma…
2017.01.02

I Can't Remember

I really can't remember how it all started for …
Same here! All I do remember is th…
2016.04.28

My start in BDSM

Always had an interest in BDSM but like many ot…
^^^^^ Susie, I am amazed! What a …
2015.05.02

Intro to BDSM

My first experiences were rather horrific. I w…
As one of the things I do is to DM…
2014.12.22

Where and when did your fetish start

Personally my fetish started at a very early ag…
I was in the hospital and i was 6…
2014.08.17

How it started for me'............

I never knew I was into submission and just a b…
I never knew I was into submission and just a b…
2013.12.07

How it started

For me, it was a boyfriend when I was in my tee…
For me, it was a boyfriend when I was in my tee…
2013.09.26

How it started

I had a teacher in sixth grade, in a locality w…
That is exactly the grade in schoo…
2013.09.09

How it started for me

I have several memories from as a child but I a…
I'm not sure how it started. When…
2013.08.09

Once upon a time

It all started for me when I met the right girl…
It all started for me when I met the right girl…
2013.07.30

I have no idea how it started...

I just thought of stuff and the internet sort o…
I just thought of stuff and the internet sort o…
2013.07.05

At a young age . . .

. . . it seems like there was always a girl who…
I don't remember any of us fightin…
2013.06.21

My Awakening

This is not so much how I got started in BDSM, …
This is not so much how I got started in BDSM, …
2013.05.07

First Experience Bondage

It was with my girl friend at the time(later my…
I had a guy that wanted me to do a…
2013.04.13

How it all started for me

I had always been interested in the subject af …
I have always enjoyed being held d…
2013.03.11

It started with a good back scratch...

So a few years ago I met this guy that was real…
So a few years ago I met this guy that was real…
2012.07.29

It started before I can remember

I didn't realize this until I read the posts bu…
Rockdoc is absolutely correct abou…
2012.07.19

Pirates

Playing Pirates with my female cousin. It invol…
Donald, that seems like an amazin…
2012.04.16