Surgery Fantasy or Fetish?

For me it is all of the surgical team surrounded around me as the patient. I am in the hands of all of these strangers and I can only see their eyes. Although when it comes to the actual procedure, no thanks, does not work for me.

Would still be my Fantasy for Roleplay as a patient being prepped and everything

I've got such one, but as far as I've seen, nearly all of you see yourselves as a patients. I rather see myself as an assisting doc or even a leading doc. As for me, it's much more preferable for me to prepare anybody and to give him or her these vital emotions and feelings.

I'm at a surgical (play) clinic now. Over the next couple of days, I will be an anesthestist, surgeon, and patient. Being a switch, it is what works for me!

Hmm, interesting thread! For what it's worth, l don't think l have a surgery fetish exactly, but l surely have an anaesthesia one dating back to my original surgery as a 4yo kid. And my rare mouth and throat fetish dates back to then too. Complicating things further are other events such as dental surgery at 7yo and another stay in hospital (in a children's ward) at 12yo when l saw kids going to and coming back from surgery. (I'm not proud of some feelings that aroused in me at the time and which have stayed with me. Sadistic feelings, et al.)

- Ken

I like to watch videos of anesthesia by mask, so while surgery itself falls outside my medfet, the anesthesia that needs to be created before it is a turn-on, if by mask.

And then seeing the girl outfitted with a mask to protect her with her low immune system AFTER an organ transplant surgery is always good.

Minor surgical procedures, or very invasive gynecological exams that are considered surgery are the thing for me. I have a competence kink to start with, and being wide awake while a person gives out instructions and well, knows what they are doing is hot to start with. I like to be praised how good or brave I'm doing.

Dr Ward793 (post #29 ). I have responded to you offline, hoping that we may get to chat. Yes, surgery can be fascinating - l agree with the suggestion of a couple of posters that it would be fascinating to watch a video of yourself being prepped, given a general anaesthetic, and being operated on (the works!).

I once knew a retired medical orderly who told me that he didn't have a medfet (except perhaps latently) while he was employed in a hospital, but developed a strong medfet around his memories straight after that.

- Ken

Hi - I’m so glad to find this post because im not well versed in fetishes but I believe i have a very strong medical fetish. I am having a breast lift and augmentation tomorrow and i can not control my arousal. It doesn’t just have to do with the subject matter of the surgery - i.e. my breasts. I am insanely turned on by seeing pictures of patients prepped for surgery and restrained on an operating table — I wish i could see my own preparation and the actual moment where they put my arms in restraints.

My boyfriend and I had THE MOST insane sex last night - - partly knowing it will be the last time for a few weeks but what he doesn’t know is that I’ve been walking around for DAYS aroused by the surgery. I mean, regular procedures turn me on, seeing urological procedures of men or gynecologic procedures for women is exciting but the thought of a room full of people examining, preparing, operating on and manipulating my OWN breasts is mind blowing. Even the consultations leading up to tomorrow have been insane. This weird mixture of shame, embarrassment and EXTREME arousal at the surgeon touching, measuring and discussing my breasts.

I was married for a long time to a man who enjoyed being a cuckold. He liked to watch me get fucked by bigger men. I went along with that and i would bend him over and rub myself all over his bare ass. I would come from doing just that.

But, I’ve come in to this new place lately and starting to realize I’m very submissive and I’m wondering if the surgery thing is a part of that.

I know the recovery won’t be a turn on but wow, thinking of having a whole operating room of professionals focused on my breasts for a few hours is mind blowing.

@FreakyPrincess welcome to Zity & I wish you speedy recovery!!

Since childhood, I became deeply fascinated by surgery, an obsession that started with watching medical shows on TV and reading books about the subject. I was captivated by the precision and skill involved in every procedure, and the outfit of the surgeons, their gloves. This fascination grew even stronger when I began dissecting animals at school, where the atmosphere of the lab felt like a mini operating room. I loved the feel of the gloves, the scalpels, blood on my gloved finger. The sensation of wearing a mask, too, added to the immersive experience; it was like stepping into a different world - it became an addiction.

The sterile, clinical environment of the OR felt almost ritualistic, and the act of donning scrubs, gloves, and a mask was no longer just part of the process, became a total fetish for surgery, appendectomy, circumcisions, testicular torsions, autopsies, amputations, ...

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I had three operations. I was worked on hospital (keep fingers to get next one and being again working there). When had tonsillectomy was big problems to find my veins so have longer meeting with all nurses and docs there stand around me and waiting to do own job. Love this atmosphere, exams, preparing, being on operation room, all embarrassment and anxiety, docs comments and submission and observation after all.

A few months ago I had an emergency appendectomy. It was my first surgery ever. As a fetishist, it was something I dreamt about - the hospital stay, the nurses around me, the cold surgery table, the IV, the noise, everything. In real life, I didn’t enjoy it due to the actual abdominal pain (and the final hospital bills lol).

I have a strong fetish for surgery and everything about it. I have been experimenting with surgical role play for several years... and recently I have real surgery at the hospital. It didn't disappoint.. It was definitely different, but I still enjoyed it.

A few months ago I had an emergency appendectomy. It was my first surgery ever. As a fetishist, it was something I dreamt about - the hospital stay, the nurses around me, the cold surgery table, the IV, the noise, everything. In real life, I didn’t enjoy it due to the actual abdominal pain (and the final hospital bills lol).

OK you NAILD it! LMAO. A million years ago I had my appendix out as a teen (14). There was SO much that later became fodder for fantasy, but at the time I was scared and uncomfortable and did not at all enjoy it.

@Nurse_Phillips Ah ah! I recall my own appendectomy, which was preceded by digital rectal exams. These exams troubled me (I discovered on this occasion that rectal penetration could be smooth), and also I felt humiliated in retrospect, but on the moment I was scared and uncomfortable as well, I think I would have let the doctors do anything to get out of that predicament.

The only surgeries I sort of fantasize about are male circumcision and maybe some vulvar procedures. I underwent circumcision when I was 7, for medical reasons, and I recall it had not been explained to me and I was very surprised when I saw the result. I felt somehow humiliated and defrauded, and I recall my reluctance later to undergo surgeries that, like circumcision, were in prevention of possible future issues and not as curation of existing issues. To this day I'm unconvinced this surgery was really needed.

Since then the "gratuitous" aspect of circumcision has given me food for thought.

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I definitely have a surgical fantasy. I like all of it, from the pre-op/prep, to the anesthesia, to the procedure itself, and then post-op. For me, I think it's the loss of control and the submission to a team of medical professionals who have control over your body and well being. I particularly fantasize about gynecological for myself, knowing my legs are opened in the stirrups while I'm under anesthesia.

Now, I have no desire to have actual surgery. Besides the pain of the actual recovery, and probably lead-up to discovering you need surgery, there's also the time away from work/life and the cost aspect. But that's the good thing about fantasy. It stays in your head.

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@CheerfulChelsea Right. After having 7 surgeries, I can attest that the lead-up, stress etc. are not nice at all (cost was never an issue). Occasionally I experienced something that made for fun or bitter recollections after, depending, but on the moment everything goes so fast.

I also like to watch videos on YouTube about surgical procedures and urological exams. My interests are urological surgeries such as penile implants, cystoscopy, and urethroscopy. In some videos, I get excited watching them and I am forced to masturbate imagining the scene. I feel pleasure in being examined, lying on a table in a gynecological position with my legs completely open and my genitals exposed without any privacy in front of the urologist.

I don't know how to define pleasure as fantasy or fetish.

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Surgery is more of a reality for me than than a fantasy or a fetish, but there are many aspects of the process that I thoroughly enjoy as a fantasy.

I've had 25 surgeries starting back in February 1980 with an inguinal hernia with four days in the hospital because they made a 5-inch cut to open me up. Prior to the surgery, a male nurse shaved me from my belly button to my knees. This was the olden days of hernia surgeries.

I love the prep for surgery and the feeling of going under with the anesthesia. I love to fight the pull of the anesthesia and stay awake as long as I can.

In June, I will have my 26th surgery, an abdominal-hernia repair, but this will be outpatient.

In between these two hernia repairs, I've had 10 spine surgeries with 14 fused discs. I've had prostate reduction surgery (TURP) as well as two cystoscopies. I don't remember much about the first one with a male doctor and a nurse, but I remember the second one with a female doctor, a female nurse, and my wife in the room. I loved having the camera inserted into my penis and then seeing the view of the "tunnel" ride up and into the bladder.

Dr. Kinsey went up and turned around to show everyone the throat of the bladder and the little bump that we were looking for. Yes, the bump was indeed there in the throat. No, it was not large enough to hinder the flow of urine. No, she didn't need to remove it. She gave us a nice tour of the bladder, top, sides, and bottom into the throat. Then she asked if I could pee so she could see the bladder walls functioning.

"Uh, Dr. Kinsey, I sort have a shy bladder. I have a hard time peeing in a public restroom when there is an audience. I really like you and your nurse, but I'm not close enough to either of you to just relieve myself right now. And with a camera all the way up my urethra, I'm gonna need to be alone with my wife. Not for a conjugal visit, of course. I would under normal circumstance, but the camera equipment is sort of in the way. Maybe after you remove it. And you can stay if you like to see the prostate function or to participate or just to observe. Your choice. Just saying"

Dr. Kinsey said she completely understood. She had met many a shy bladder in her days as a doctor, a urologist, no less. She and the nurse left and with my wife in the room, I was able to empty my bladder.

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I'm not really into the surgeries themselves, but the attire is so attractive to me! Love the long gloves, the surgical cap, mask over the face, and long gown!

Only when I can see the partially exposed body of the (male) patient does the surgery itself excite me, but I like hearing about what leads up to it -- exam, etc. -- and also seeing the scar afterward. Primarily interested in lower abdonimal scars (appendix, hernia, other testicular procedures) and only on males.

So to explore the title/first question on this thread a little more - surgery fantasy or fetish- and trying to workout a meaningful distinction between the two. I would affirm I have both surgical fantasies and a surgical fetish. I have had fantasies about surgeries, performing them namely, and those fantasies are often pretty realistic.

But I would also affirm I have fetish and in that sense things need not be nearly so realistic, in fact in certain ways true realism is actually really not desirable. So for me, when talking surgical fetish I really think about heightening and enhancing certain key elements of the fantasy. Fetish for me is cranking these elements from 'fantasy' up to 11, so to speak. So in surgical fetish for me, these elements are the submissive/restraint, the exposure/vulnerability, and idea that acceptance/normalization of that which is taboo in society.

Let's explore those elements more explicit in one aspect, for illustration purposes. Lets take anesthesia as that aspect. It a fantasy anesthesia works very similar, nah identically, to how it does in real life. But in a fetish scenario, for me, I think it should heighten the elements I listed above, submission/restraint, exposure/vulnerability, and normalization of the taboo. So instead of anesthesia being introduced intravenously primarily and taking effect very quickly and a cocktail of drugs pushed to paralyze and relax muscles - it all gets rolled together and becomes a slow process, that is now primarily gas based - and that becomes a mix of twilight sleep and nitrous oxide and various hallucinogenic highs the effect being a wonderful fever dream that strips away all concerns, fears, and inhibitions, that leaves the patient free to feel all the good with none of the bad. The patient then is not truly "out" - asleep - just truly "out of it." This then frees up the space to explore expression of all these desires and wants, free from societal constraints and norms in a "get out of jail free" scenario since its just the "gas/drugs" talking. This is where I am coming from when I say, for me, gas is my favorite restraint.

So in closing, fantasy seems to me to mean a more or less real/accurate to real life situation. Where as to say fetish explicitly means certain elements will be heightened and this in turn will mean these elements take on only the shadow/echo of the real thing - with an emphasis more on desired feelings/moods/themes that the parties involved enjoy.

Of course I have probably over complicated what was a simply interchange of phrase - but where is the fun in keeping things simple? 😉

I like to watch videos of anesthesia by mask, so while surgery itself falls outside my medfet, the anesthesia that needs to be created before it is a turn-on, if by mask.

Same with me. I have zero interest in surgery itself and have been lucky in the only surgery I have ever had was when I was three months old for a hernia repair that I do not remember of course. But I do love the black rubber anesthesia masks and I have also found the large blue shiny silicone Drager masks from Germany to be a turn on too (images: https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/hKwAAOSwLIFlOAaE/s-l1600.webp and https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/-Z0AAOSwCcZlOAZv/s-l1600.webp).