Is it normal to feel embarrassed or guilty about your enemas?

I used to wait till my wife was gone, then give myself an enema. When she would come home from her workout, I will still be filling myself. She never said much. I kinda knew she didn't approve, now she has come around and doesn't say anything.

Now and then she will open a clamp for me if I can't get to it. Even now she says, Are you going to have and enema? Yes is the answer. We only have one bathroom, so I tell her, if she has to go, let me know. I will get out of the way so she can go.

I don't go around posting I am an enema lover on social media. I don't bother to hand my bags out of sight, unless some total stranger is coming over. If it is a friend, then the bags hand where they always do.

I enjoy enemas a lot. In fact if I could, I would have one every day.

I wish I could spend a whole day, just filling myself and emptying just to see what that would feel like.

I enjoy them a lot, I used to be embarrassed, but not any more.

It's normal to feel embarrassed and/or guilty if you want to. Otherwise, no.

Out-of-the-closet Internet sources such as Zity have helped me overcome self doubts about our favorite "therapy."

Many of us were brought up with the idea that an enema was a medical treatment --not something for pleasure

Yes...I think so...it's part of the erotica to me

You should not be guilty or embarrassed about your enema use. It is for your self gratification and sexual pleasures and for your own health that you take them. Who cares what anyone else may think

You should not be guilty or embarrassed about your enema use. It is for your self gratification and sexual pleasures and for your own health that you take them. Who cares what anyone else may think

Yeah, right.

Go ahead and tell all your vanilla children, friends and relatives that you like to pump water up your ass.

I dare you.

After you do that you can tell me what went through your mind as you told them your deep dark secret.

Well, I can say that when a partner left me, her bitter 'payoff' was to go around ALL OF MY FRIENDS and tell them of my enemas.

To a degree, that brought me out of the closet. I have since asked one of my vanilla friends when she looks at me, does she ever wonder have I had any enemas today. Her reply is that it doesn't ever enter her head. It certainly was humiliating but like the saying goes, the spoken word can't be retracted. regards, irrigator333

Oh, a PS there, She certainly ain't cummin back, to betray a trust like that is unforgivable.

I dont feel guilty. Took me awhile to accept my liking. However embarrassment is felt I think by many and it can actually and perhaps strangely add to the arousal.

Yeah, right.

Go ahead and tell all your vanilla children, friends and relatives that you like to pump water up your ass.

I dare you.

Ha ha ha ha ha ... I don't think I'll take up the dare ... not wholesale at any rate. Maybe one or two I might confide in should the proper occasion ever arise, which I seriously doubt ...

Even without (or with minimal) sexual overtones it's still embarassing. Let's face it - you're starting with something very personal and then throwing in a procedure to make you do it. That's not even taking into consideration if you're constipated and it's an admission that you can't even crap on your own.

I've done them often enough that I'm not as embarrassed and secretive about enemas, but I'm also not broadcasting them, even to my wife. She knows I take them, and probably even when, and while I don't wait for guaranteed alone time (I'd be miserable if I did) I do go to the other bathroom and generally do them while she's otherwise occupied.

If it's primarily for sexual purposes then you have that other overlay of embarrassment, but on the plus side it probably means you can drop the "I can't even crap on my own" part.

In short, I'd say it's normal. Should it be normal? Not sure. Was it normal in the past? Not sure there either.

Fow what it's worth I also feel a bit embarrassed when I'm at Costco loading up on Mirilax and Metamucil. I guess I should just be glad that I use a bag and don't have to buy boxes and boxes of Fleet enemas at the same time.

Again it's the whole embarrassment at feeling "broken"

It's dependent on the person. We all will react differently. Embrace whom you are and there's no shame for liking something.

I always have felt ashamed or guilty until recently. Several enemas while in hospital and clinic the last few years have cured my embarrassment in that area.

When given them in f front of family, friends, and non medical staff (all have happened, it's difficult signing forms while being filled) you quickly get over shyness. I've even found a tiny exhibitionist steak in me.

I have a new boyfriend who knows of but doesn't understand my interests. He surprised me with a Fleet he'd secretly purchased not long ago.

He let me give him a small bag the other day and said it felt ok butt I haven't tried again. I'm a little embarrassed to push it or ask him to

When I was a kid, I was embarrassed to get an enema from my mom for several years but I got over it. I was more embarrassed if my aunt or grandma gave an enema or if somebody else was watching but after years of the routine I got used to it. The first time my wife gave me an enema I was embarrassed.

I want to suggest that we shift our usage of 'normal' about our enema pleasures to 'common'. The word 'normal' carries a taint of shame as in 'abnormal'. It is true that our early experience of being 'the only one in the world' who enjoys the E feelings contributes to the 'abnormal' sensation. But as adults we could adopt a better idea. Enema lust is not common but it is a normal aspect of human sexuality in my opinion. What is your opinion?