Fetish intrusions on your daily life

I have sexual thoughts throughout the day, whether it's at work, walking the aisles of a grocery store or waiting for the oil to be changed on my car. And yes, I get horny just knowing that every woman I see or come in contact with throughout the day spreads her legs for her gynecologist. Through the years I've fantasized about numerous co-workers being in the stirrups.

But I've never allowed my fantasies to control me (obsession) or affect my work, at least not to my knowledge.

I take the train 1 hour each way to and from work. During my ride I always look around for cute girls. When I spit one I often wonder to myself what her innermost secret is. Does she like anal sex? Has she ever had a thermometer in her backside? Does she use sex toys? Does she like to be spanked on the bare bottom? Has she ever taken an enema? Then I picture what each scenario would look like with that particular person. I have a few ladies at my work who I fantasize about as well.

As a regular plug wearer I'm plugged at work, too. If I had a good backside romp the evening before then my butt is all tingly the morning after and all I can do is sitting at the desk and squeeze the plug and can't think of anything else while I should be doing my work. It gets less distracting around lunchtime, usually....

Happy plugging!

As the authority figure, you are in charge if you are tempted and commit what is clearly child abuse

I am personally aware of a music teacher crossed the line with a very very seductive student. male teacher, gorgeous 18 yr old student from a very fucked up family. the teacher left the province and his lovely wife and 2 small kids for this little hottie. My guess is the student was very aware of things sexual, she certainly appeared so as she had my mind drooling. the kicker was that she also was a very talented musician with a real future in music.

no matter how good she was in bed he let his desires inappropriatly change the life of all families involved and end his very promising career.

adults are in charge but she got me hard playing (musically) playing with her.

btw if she was as good in bed as she was on stage I have some but not much

understanding.

sex was a tool for her entire family

Too many times. I have female co-workers who are pretty regular and would go for a poo after their coffee. I have often found myself getting an erection imagining the turd that's being pushed out right at this minute behind that toilet door.

Whenever I see an attractive woman, whether it be at work, on the street, at the grocery store, etc., I often will imagine seeing her at the doctor’s office. Especially if she is well dressed or wearing snug fitting or revealing clothing. I picture her anxiously awaiting her name to be called to go back to the exam room with the nurse. Then the disrobing, putting on the gown then hopping up onto the exam table. Then the best part, exam time! Feet firmly planted in the stirrups, the doctor thoroughly probing her cervix, uterus and ovaries, finishing with a rectovaginal/rectal exam.

But I don’t stare at the woman or daydream like I’m in a trance or something. I can go about my business while simultaneously imagining all of those things.

Well...sometimes, when I'm at a college women's sports meet, like soccer or gymnastics. Well, yes, girls in leotards (and they likely know that guys look) or soccer kits.

But if I see a girl in a mask, I look away. If I don't, she'll likely stare back.

I have a friend at work who I have a bit of a crush on, and whose office is a few floors down from mine. He runs up the stairs whenever he comes up to my floor for a meeting with my team, and when he arrives he tries really hard to hide the fact that he's a little out of breath. Every time, I wish I could just hug him tight and listen to his heart pounding as he recovers.

Well...sometimes, when I'm at a college women's sports meet, like soccer or gymnastics. Well, yes, girls in leotards (and they likely know that guys look) or soccer kits.

But if I see a girl in a mask, I look away. If I don't, she'll likely stare back.

True, but even easier for me, since almost all those young women in their sports clothes are invariably wearing sneakers or running shoes, which is a major kink of mine since middle school. Even better if I happen to be at a triathlon or surfing or SCUBA diving spot, with all the women in wetsuits along with their sneakers. Spectacular.

Eric

All day, every day. I can't walk through a walmart without zeroing in on a woman and wondering what she looks like in a gown lying on a table with her feet in the stirrups.

It's not that my fetishes intrude - it's simply my ever-present horny state of mind does... Like an app running in background in my noggin, sexual thoughts surface when I see attractive gals.

It's not that my fetishes intrude - it's simply my ever-present horny state of mind does... Like an app running in background in my noggin, sexual thoughts surface when I see attractive gals.

All day, every day. I can't walk through a walmart without zeroing in on a woman and wondering what she looks like in a gown lying on a table with her feet in the stirrups.

Just goes to show you guys are normal men!!! Happy browsing! 😄

Well...sometimes, when I'm at a college women's sports meet, like soccer or gymnastics. Well, yes, girls in leotards (and they likely know that guys look) or soccer kits.

But if I see a girl in a mask, I look away. If I don't, she'll likely stare back.

Duckbill,

What kind of mask would a girl/woman possibly be wearing that you're referring to that would get your attention and distract you or turn you on?

Eric

Hmmmm. Well.... This here is a medfet site. Medical fetish. Masks are part of medical attire, either in the OR, or, more publicly, worn if a girl has a low immune system from a medical issue.

You seem kind of dumbfounded.

Hmmmm. Well.... This here is a medfet site. Medical fetish. Masks are part of medical attire, either in the OR, or, more publicly, worn if a girl has a low immune system from a medical issue.

You seem kind of dumbfounded.

Thanks for replying. Not dumbfounded in the slightest. Among other places I frequent, my workplace has both women and men in surgical and other masks nearly 24/7. I read your earlier post about seeing women at a college sporting location and it seemed like you were referring in that post to some type of mask worn by them specific to that kind of event. Like a catcher's mask at a baeseball game. But your mask comment was being more general.

Eric

Ohhhh, OK. Thank YOU for responding to my last post. I get what you're saying. In general, those fetish sets are separate for me. Though I have several times seen a girl on a cross country team or track team at her college twho has worn a surgical or similar mask for asthma, presumably to warm the air (someone with that condition please correct me if that's wrong). So in that case, masks and sports kits could combine (I'll need to post about that on the combining fetishes thread).

Again, thanks for responding as you did. I think we're clearer now.

Ohhhh, OK. Thank YOU for responding to my last post. I get what you're saying. In general, those fetish sets are separate for me. Though I have several times seen a girl on a cross country team or track team at her college twho has worn a surgical or similar mask for asthma, presumably to warm the air (someone with that condition please correct me if that's wrong). So in that case, masks and sports kits could combine (I'll need to post about that on the combining fetishes thread).

Again, thanks for responding as you did. I think we're clearer now.

Interesting you say that. I think women in masks can be extremely attractive and arousing too, but only specific types. In what seems like a former life, a long time ago I used to see women at a type of sporting event very frequently when I was teaching SCUBA Diving. Now those women dressed for SCUBA diving were VERY sexy when they put on their silicone or rubber diving masks before entering the water. And those SCUBA diving sites were even more visually erotic than just the masked women, since I also had fetishes for women in rubber suits and sneakers, so going on a SCUBA dive was frequently a very enjoyably arousing experience.

Eric

I once let escape, when explaining a constipation issue to my physician, that my wife had given me an enema. She did not bat an eye and asked me if it fixed it.

As one who has always worked where people dressed in formal business attire, I have found that I am more suseptable to this in the morning hours than later in the day. Weather we would be sitting at an early morning business meeting and I get a glimpse of a pair of shapely stocking clad legs wearing tall thin heels, or maybe a lady sitting accross from me in a nicely tailored business suit with a stright skirt wearing pumps. I'm immediately effected. ....But the funny thing is miy mind jumps immediately to my kink, .....never to vanilla sex.

As one who has always worked where people dressed in formal business attire, I have found that I am more suseptable to this in the morning hours than later in the day. Weather we would be sitting at an early morning business meeting and I get a glimpse of a pair of shapely stocking clad legs wearing tall thin heels, or maybe a lady sitting accross from me in a nicely tailored business suit with a stright skirt wearing pumps. I'm immediately effected. ....But the funny thing is miy mind jumps immediately to my kink, .....never to vanilla sex.

Why do you experience this in the morning? Why are you surprised that you think of your kinks first? Which kink(s) do you usually envision?

Eric

My short reply is YES EVERY DAY.

I think my fetishes and fantasies have intruded into my life almost every day since puberty began. Sometimes it might just be a 10 second thought during a work meeting, like “I’d love to put her over my lap and lift her skirt and slowly slide her panties down”, such as my current boss’s admin assistant, and then quickly refocus. Or I might find myself very distracted throughout the day which means I will end up playing out some elaborate fantasy at home that night ending with masturbation and orgasm.

I would not call it fetish intrusions; instead, at least for me, it's been that my strong sexual desires have been the compass used to chart my course through adult life! Especially, in terms of marriage and career/jobs I've taken so I could have lots of free time to peruse my sexual interests, etc...

Yes. I think of and fantasize about my wants and desires as often as I can while still getting my stuff done at work and in life.

Not so much at work but definitely in social settings or even looking at the Amazon delivery guy and wonder how hard he would spank me. Or how he would react if he knew I had ordered a sex toy.

Trigger thoughts and feelings from my kinks? Certainly.

General public: Sneakers are ubiquitous and since sneakers and some running shoes on women are one of my distinct and powerful kinks for over 50 years. Over time, I was able to just see them on a pretty woman and smile that I saw something very pleasant to me without getting aroused except in rare cases. Rubber or latex clothes are much more rare except an occasional rubber Mac raincoat, or wetsuit at triathlon, surfing or SCUBA diving sites.

Work: at the hospital, sneakers are again ubiquitous especially on nurses. Very pleasant but controllable.

Teaching SCUBA diving: when I dived or taught diving in the 80's, women in wetsuits and usually also wearing sneakers were many concentrated in a small area, which I really enjoyed but had to control my appreciation and usually arousal. My last wife and several girlfriends were all SCUBA divers and enthusiastic rubber and sneaker wearers. 😉😊

Eric