What makes you so sure of being only a DL and not also an AB?

What makes you so sure of being only a DL and not also an AB? Just wanna know how you make up your mind.

Loving to wear diapers makes me a diaper lover. I do like to use a pacifier, wear a onesie and sleep in a footed blanket sleeper with a baby bottle on my nite stand, but I consider myself a 'diaper lover' not an adult baby, even though I do have and use baby things and enjoy them all!

I consider myself just a diaper lover...i still do normal things, i act normally..for instance...right now..i'm sitting here ,in a diaper and a t-shirt...and i don't really want to go any further into it. I don't need diapers...i just wear them, and while wearing them...i think of all of the advantages that wearing diapers have.

Dl here. i wear and use diapers but i am not into any part of the ab lifestyle, except for being changed by my girlfriend.

I'm a Dl because i don't really care for the whole baby thing. I'm just into the diapers.

When I was young, real young I guess I was more of a DL. I developed into ABisum later. I started to like baby things, and not just diapers. I like thinking of myself as being a baby, when in diapers.

Luvs It.

Well, if someone is decently in touch with who they are and what turns them on, how can they not be "so sure"?

My wife and I have a very diverse, and very fun, sex life. Diapers make both of use horny. So we know we are DL.

Switching to "I", I am not even slightly interested by the various AB images I see in cyberspace. I do not want to play those games myself, and have no interest in encouraging my wife in that direction. (However, if she wanted to and it turned her on, I'm sure I would accomodate. I do not have to be thrilled by every fantasy she has, but I'm always thrilled by a horny wife!)

Now, show me a real picture of an attractive woman older than 30 in a wet diaper, and I am interested.

So, DL: very, very interested. AB: Yawn.

Seems really clear to me.

Dl lover here but with a pinch of ab thrown in for the fun of it

Im a DL only. Started out having to wear diapers for medical reasons. Hated them at first then eventually grew to love them. Forced LOVE. I do own probably over 20 Nuk medic pro's but only cause it helped me quit smoking. SO initially it was just to be cute turned out doing me a greater health benefit. So I live by diapers and the NUK Adult Binky. Im not and will never act like something im not; A BABY!!!

I am definitly an AB I love my diapers alone but with a paci and a bottle and I absolutly love my footed sleeper there is nothing more relaxing except if I had someone to diaper me doing it yourself is never as nice

Kinda depends on the day, but more often than not just a diaper loving show off 😎

Sissies are AB/DL's too-- share the love.

not that I would admit to being a sissy-- but the ab/dl lines are blurred a bit for

me as well as some others, I would imagine-- I love wearing and using diapers

and feeling like a baby again-- I also like bottles, plastic panties, pacis,

and blankie's-- but the AB lifestyle is not always practical for me.

I just enjoy my baby side for what it is-- and I don't think babies care either-

they just know what they like-- labels -- I'm not into -- too judgemental

normal is a setting on my washer

have fun-- be yourself -- let someone else fuss over the label

I wear thick flannel cloth diapers and plastic pants so I can feel and look like a baby.I also have other baby thing such as baby bottles pacifiers 2 baby dresses and baby toys and stuffed animals. So that makes An AB. If you like diapers but not bieng a baby that makes you a DL

I guess its us diaper lovers that like the idea of someone changing us and caring for us that makes us have ab desires. i myself started as a incontinent diaper wearer and tuned into a diaper lover then became a part time ab depends on the mood.

some days i just love to sit around in my diaper and do nothing babyish except wet or poop them. and other days i like to get a paci and a baby bottle and fantasize about being kept that way without my consent or will. and then there are the days where its no diapers till bedtime that's a normal day for me. i still suffer accidents at night every now and then , enough to make me need them that is. but even that's not that much anymore !!! mommie wow im a big kid now!! NOOOOOOTTTTT

In general as others have stated, I am primarily in love with the experience of wearing thick cloth diapers and plastic pants. not interested in what I consider the AB side, wetting, pooping, baby bottles, pacifiers, baby blankets. so that for me makes me sure I am a DL. 😃

...not interested in what I consider the AB side, wetting, pooping...

how can using a diaper how it was meant to be used be considered AB? I wear 24/7 by choice and I love diapers and I use them. I have no sexual desires with diapers nor do I have any desire to be a 'baby'. I consider myself a DL only and I just don't see how simply using them equates to AB.

I'm not at all into typical babying, but I consider it pretty obvious that the fact that I'm wearing a diaper right now, just wet it, is not really adult. It is being a baby....There's got to be a connection with childhood/babyhood that makes us want diapers.

Not for me.

Generally the seperation between diaperlover and adult baby is determined by the diffrence in what it is you actually enjoy.

To be more detailed it is such as, are diapers a visual excitement for you or an physical excitment for you? Is the way it looks what turns you on, or the way it feels?

If it is completely visual and not about feeling, you are almost certainly a diaper lover because the object of the diaper is the point of enterest, not the wearing of it as much.

Also, to be a little more general, do you desire to act like a real infant and be treated as such? or does the object of a diaper simply turn you on by itself? these represent two diffrent extremes? you'll probly be a little closer to one side than the other.

There are a few things about the AB stuff that turns me on, but it is all related to the humiliation aspects. I have no real desire to do baby things (other than wet a diaper) unless it is connected with being humiliated. But wearing and wetting a diaper is a turn on if I am alone or in connection with the humiliation aspect. Just the sight of a diaper can turn me on and I love wearing a wet diaper even if I am alone. That is how I know I am a DL not an AB.

I do get aroused by wearing diapers but also i do think about wanting to go pee in them to see what it feels like. And i sometime picture my wife changing my diaper after i wet them.

Well this is a complicated question because honestly you can have aspects of both. I classify myself as a dl. for me i like wearing diapers, i like wetting them, and the thought of having someone change me is there too. However i am not really into the whole crib, bottle, baby food, baby clothes part of it. I dont classify myself as an AB because honestly only the changing has any appeal to me from the AB side. Basically you may actually be classifiable as an ABDL which would mean you have aspects of most. I hope this has helped you in some way.

I have been doing this for about 50 years and the only thing that does it for me is the cloth diapers ,pins and plastic pants. If you like the bibs, pacifires, and the baby clothes then I would say you are AB.My two cents worth.

I'm sure that I have always had an attraction to diapers and plastic pants. I remember at 4 or 5 wanting to wear diapers.

It wasn't until I was 13 that I regularly wore my first diapers since being a baby. But even at that age I didn't want to act in any way like a baby. I found it thrilling to be able to wear diapers around others, act my real age, wet my diapers and not have anyone realize what I was wearing or what I had done.

Remember too, that in the 60s there were no outlets for adult sized baby clothes. It was hard enough finding plastic pants that I could wear for any length of time before the sides gave out.

Being DL allows me the freedom to enjoy wearing my diapers and plastic pants and not being restrained by the limitations of being a baby.

AB and DL do have their differences; it is possible to have one without the other. I'd love to be diapered, but not necessarily to be babied. Likewise, there are ABs out there who do not use diapers; they are just into the clothes and baby items, and the appeal of age regression.

Personally speaking, I wear diapers but do not regress, mostly because my love for diapers stemmed from a love for wetting. Though being in this community long enough has made me want to try the AB half of things at least once.

Mainly because i wear diapers and rubber or plastic pants. And enjoy messing in them. i don't have all the baby gear - pacifiers, crib etc. Those things don't do anything for me.

You would have thought that DLs just likes wearing nappies and AB wishes to push that further and act as a baby.

Well, I've wanted to wear diapers since before puberty. I have not ever really wanted to be babied. I absolutely love the sensation of a diaper but never wanted to suck on a paci or drink from a bottle or crawl around on the floor or anything like that. I find myself more aroused by DL girls than AB girls but I would definitely cater to the needs of an adult baby girl. I would also allow myself to be babied if a girl really wanted to do that but I would probably cater to any needs of any girl I happen to be with as long as they're not harmful. I guess that's just because I know what it's like to have desires that aren't really considered to be "normal."

I consider myself a DL because i love all there is to love about diapers although i do like my paci and bottle and onesie. in my eyes to classify yourself as AB you need to like to be treated like a baby and do the whole age role thing. and that just does not appeal to me.

I've re-discover diapers by needs on the last 90's, and tha wass not been easy. At that time I was living with a girl friend, and diapers was a shame for us, but no choice. Since that time we'd managed some games to avoid too boring and frequent changes, cleanings. That was by time some great moments, she started to call me her baby, and we was coming on the AB side that was sleeping on me. Diaper need come out with time and some medical course, but the psychological need stay.

I'm now alone, she's gone, but my baby side was staying. I'm loving to be in diapers, wore some footed pajamas, body, bibs. I also love to drink bottle, feed some baby food, and staying at home smelling as a baby, sometime freshy, sometime wet or poopy. I can't explain that. I'm not realy acting like a baby, i just use lots of baby stuff, sleep in childish sheets, love animes, etc...

did I'm a AB ? I think... But for sure, I'm a Diaper LOVER !