Looking for tips to make enemas more fun

I’m using enemas pretty regularly, and they’re definitely helping with my IBS-C which is very good news. I don’t hate them, and my technique has improved significantly, but they’re still sort of neutral. No erection, no immediate desire to go out and do something sexual. I figure that if I’m going to be using them long-term I might as well enjoy them, right?

My wife and I did some anal play on me a while ago and I liked it, so I know enjoying enemas is a possibility, but between the IBS and some prostate/pelvic issues I think I sort of “turned that off” and need to get it turned on again. I’m looking for tips from the community to make them more fun.

I’m sure having my wife give me my enemas would help, but for now that isn’t in the cards. I don’t think she’s interested or able at this point. Other ideas I had that may help are:

Go slower – I’m a bit rushed now, trying to get two in and out in about 40 minutes. Slow sessions are probably not in the cards every time, but perhaps every now and then.

Related to #1 – spend more time lubing up. Now it’s pretty much smear some on, position the hose, deep breath and slide it in. I imagine a long, slow lube up would help.

Last – possibly try masturbating at some point, but not sure when to start. During the injection, retention and expulsion there is often something other than sex taking my attention, and my penis gets more use as a conveniently placed soft and warm grip rag.

Any tips for what Zity readers use/used to make enemas more pleasurable, especially at the beginning?

IMO, you've touched on one of the greatest inhibitors to enjoying enemas which is rushing the process. In our hurried lifestyles, we don't take the time to enjoy the journey as much as we should. I would encourage you to make time to get the room warm, turn off the music (enjoy the quiet for a change...), gather some good anal lube and just use one or two fingers to massage and relax the anus prior to insertion of your nozzle. Once you are ready, take a deep breath, release it, and get ready for that erotic click that comes with the start of some nice warm enema solution entering your bowels.......

I'm now thinking that it might work better to do more buttplay first, then working to move from that to enjoying the enemas. There's less going on with just fingers and anuses than when you throw an enema into the mix.

I'd actually work it to no buttplay unless you've had your enema first.. I wouldn't think that to be too unreasonable especially since it seems that the anal play is relatively new therefore being at least semi self-conscious about cleanliness and the fact that you have constipation problems also, would certainly warrant your desire to have an enema prior.

She knows that you have been doing/needing enemas, but likelihood of her giving you one is slim for certain reasons - okay, rather than debate those reasons, do your enemas yourself first, with her knowledge, and with at least YOUR knowledge/mindset etc that it is the prelude to you getting some nice anal attention from your wife afterwards. Your enemas are then not just a necessity that you wish had more enjoyment from, but are also something that you often get a nice reward from too, even if it's only occasionally.

Then the times that you're taking enemas as needed or for "preventative maintenance," think about the nice times that you've had an enema prior to the nice treatment your wife has given your butt on other occasions. When you get hard, masturbate. For me, it's usually while I'm on the toilet that I reflect - thinking about the enema, other enemas that I have had, that I get the hardest, leading to the pretty irresistible urge for me to eventually masturbate to the point of orgasm.

My advice would be to relax as much as possible rather than trying to accomplish something. As they say on the coast "go with the flow".

Each of us is built differently, so exactly how you'll respond to the sensations of an enema will be up to your body. But if you relax and allow yourself to experience them there it is more likely that you'll find some of the sensations pleasant in one way or another. Think positive.

It's lots of fun for me to make a solution that has lots of soap and glycerine and watch someone have to hold it or be whipped for leaking!

But if you relax and allow yourself to experience them there it is more likely that you'll find some of the sensations pleasant in one way or another. Think positive.

Yeah, guess I need to find some downtime to do the "relax and experience" thing, because I'm pretty sure that I can enjoy it if I let myself again. Somehow I think going into the enema thinking "OK, it's e-day again, hope I can get this done before the kids wake up" (which is common now) isn't the best way 😃

It's lots of fun for me to make a solution that has lots of soap and glycerine and watch someone have to hold it or be whipped for leaking!

Hmmm. While it sounds like you're the giver, and I'm not sure what the receiver thinks, I might have to explore this. Haven't tried anything too strong yet, and I'm not averse to the idea of getting a spanking from my wife. As long as things were done in such a way that the leaks weren't too messy.

I'd actually work it to no buttplay unless you've had your enema first.. I wouldn't think that to be too unreasonable especially since it seems that the anal play is relatively new therefore being at least semi self-conscious about cleanliness and the fact that you have constipation problems also, would certainly warrant your desire to have an enema prior.

We stopped doing internal anal play a while ago because of the potential mess. Then we stopped doing external play because I was hurting. Enema first is probably good and then the route will be clear. Perhaps she'll be up to some prostate massage? Evidence in favor of it medically seems to be sparse, but cost and risk are low.

...enemas, but likelihood of her giving you one is slim for certain reasons

Officially she's worried about hurting me. That and we have young kids which puts a damper on anything private that requires both of us to be there. As I get more experience and they get older things may turn around.

Then the times that you're taking enemas as needed or for "preventative maintenance," think about the nice times that you've had an enema prior to the nice treatment your wife has given your butt on other occasions. When you get hard, masturbate.

Like that idea. Like it even better if it was followed by something with my wife, but the kids...

As long as the tip does not fall out, it's the enema itself and your frame of mind that make it more "interesting"

It's not the enema itself that's "Fun" it's how you feel when you get hat clear return.

As long as the tip does not fall out, it's the enema itself and your frame of mind that make it more "interesting"

Having the hose come out is definitely interesting. Especially when it's lubed up and slides around as you try to grab it off the floor. Loosing your grip on a filled open top bag also adds to the interest, but I would take all of those over any incidents involving enema water that had already gone inside me.

It's not the enema itself that's "Fun" it's how you feel when you get hat clear return.

For me right now it's the feeling after everything comes out. Most of the time now the gut continues to run well for 2-3 days afterwards. I have no idea why, but I'm not arguing with success - I'm healthier and feeling better than I have in a while as far as the intestines go.

I haven't really pushed for a clear return yet. I usually just do a couple to knock out the majority of the stuff and give my colon a bit of a workout.

I'm still going to try and make at least some of them more erotic and sensual. Why not?

My suggestion is log on to silicone nozzles.com and look at the KGL1. Ive been taking enemas for 45 yrs (hard to believe it myself) and I found it to be a real "break through".